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texdane
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Nicole
Sandy Hook CT
USA
4658 Posts

Posted - Jun 08 2017 :  09:30:18 AM  Show Profile
Hi Farmgirls,

It has been a very sad month. My husband's sweet cousin was diagnosed with lung cancer recently. She fought a hard, but rather short fight. She passed this Friday. We are still in disbelief. She never "looked" sick, and she seemed to be doing okay for awhile. She had gone in a coma over a month ago, but they drained her lungs and she seemed to get better and was sent home. It was a blessing, as her dear husband only wanted to be able to say goodbye.

She seemed to be stable, even attending a big anniversary party for my inlaws. Last Thursday, she went back to the hospital with pneumonia. She gave up. My husband was so sad to say goodbye. They grew up together and he is very, very close to her husband. They were married a month before we were 25 years ago. When she passed, we were the first to know, even though we are in the USA and they are in Denmark.

It seems unreal because she was the one who was always busy with kids on her lap, and the one who always took care of everyone else. In her photos she looked good. It broke my heart to hear her big, burly (think Hulk Hogan but a big Teddy Bear) cry on the phone that his beloved was dying. He never left her side.

Please keep her and her children in your prayers for a bit. They will bury her this week. Be thankful if you are near family. Because they are in Denmark, we didn't get to see them often enough.

Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole

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Dreamer42
True Blue Farmgirl

2694 Posts

April
Central Oregon
USA
2694 Posts

Posted - Jun 08 2017 :  09:34:44 AM  Show Profile
Hi Nicole, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I send a multitude of prayers for your family (( hugs )) ~ April

Dreamer42
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru

4658 Posts

Nicole
Sandy Hook CT
USA
4658 Posts

Posted - Jun 08 2017 :  09:38:16 AM  Show Profile
Thank you, April! It is a reminder to appreciate everyday. She was pretty young.

Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole

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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl

3448 Posts

Darlene
Kunkletown Pa
USA
3448 Posts

Posted - Jun 08 2017 :  12:17:16 PM  Show Profile  Send HealingTouch a Yahoo! Message
Nicole, I am sorry for your loss. It's never easy to lose someone. Keep your memories close and those you cherish closer. None of us know how long we have on this earth. Love and kindness means so much as we walk this earth. Good you have the good memories to sustain you through this sadness. In my prayers.

Be Blessed and Be a Blessing,
Darlene
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MBurns
True Blue Farmgirl

1859 Posts

Marlene
Swisher IA
USA
1859 Posts

Posted - Jun 08 2017 :  2:42:58 PM  Show Profile
My deep sympathy for your family. how sad.

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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl

13055 Posts


Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts

Posted - Jun 22 2017 :  3:49:51 PM  Show Profile
Nicole, sorry for your loss. Hugs.
Marly

"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross
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buzzn bee
True Blue Farmgirl

1061 Posts

Deborah
Muncie Indiana
USA
1061 Posts

Posted - Jun 22 2017 :  6:10:04 PM  Show Profile
Nicole, my deepest sympathy to you and all your family. She sounded like someone I would have enjoyed getting to know. Cancer is just so hard. Sending prayers, hugs, and lots of love to you and your family.

Love,
Farmsister Deborah Horn

Buzzn Bee
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl

7715 Posts

darlene
Loleta California
USA
7715 Posts

Posted - Jun 22 2017 :  7:10:56 PM  Show Profile
Sending prayers up for you and your family Nicole,

Take care.

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Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.

I trust in you Jesus...
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cyndieparz72
True Blue Farmgirl

108 Posts

Cyndie
Port Vue PA
USA
108 Posts

Posted - Jun 22 2017 :  7:11:42 PM  Show Profile
My deepest expression of sympathy to you and yours Nicole.

"To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die . . ." Thomas Campbell

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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl

2474 Posts

Bonnie
Minneapolis Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts

Posted - Jun 22 2017 :  9:18:16 PM  Show Profile
Nicole, you and your family are in my prayers.

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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl

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Winnie
Gainesville Fl
USA
6663 Posts

Posted - Jun 23 2017 :  10:50:07 PM  Show Profile
Nicole, prayers to you and your family for your loss. Farm girl hugs to you from Florida.

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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru

4658 Posts

Nicole
Sandy Hook CT
USA
4658 Posts

Posted - Jun 26 2017 :  04:31:29 AM  Show Profile
Thanks, everyone. We are thankful my hubby could speak to her by phone and say goodbye that Friday and then she slipped away two days later. Her hubby seems a little lost without her, as would I or my hubby. She reminded us to appreciate every day.

Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole

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MaryJanesNiece
True Blue Farmgirl

7231 Posts

Krista
Utah
USA
7231 Posts

Posted - Jun 26 2017 :  1:08:57 PM  Show Profile
So sorry for your loss, Nicole. May you and your family find some peace at this time. It's so sad how we can lose family so quickly. It makes me remember the importance of enjoying every moment I get with my family.

Krista
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Needle
True Blue Farmgirl

287 Posts

Judy
Kissimmee Florida
USA
287 Posts

Posted - Jun 26 2017 :  4:49:51 PM  Show Profile
Prayers for your family, Nicole. You have our sympathy.

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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl

9438 Posts

Denise
Beavercreek Ohio
USA
9438 Posts

Posted - Jun 28 2017 :  5:00:14 PM  Show Profile
Nicole,
So sorry for you loss! So terribly sad. Prayers for her family.

~Denise~
Farmgirl Sister #43

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