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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Death in family |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2017 : 09:30:18 AM
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Hi Farmgirls,
It has been a very sad month. My husband's sweet cousin was diagnosed with lung cancer recently. She fought a hard, but rather short fight. She passed this Friday. We are still in disbelief. She never "looked" sick, and she seemed to be doing okay for awhile. She had gone in a coma over a month ago, but they drained her lungs and she seemed to get better and was sent home. It was a blessing, as her dear husband only wanted to be able to say goodbye.
She seemed to be stable, even attending a big anniversary party for my inlaws. Last Thursday, she went back to the hospital with pneumonia. She gave up. My husband was so sad to say goodbye. They grew up together and he is very, very close to her husband. They were married a month before we were 25 years ago. When she passed, we were the first to know, even though we are in the USA and they are in Denmark.
It seems unreal because she was the one who was always busy with kids on her lap, and the one who always took care of everyone else. In her photos she looked good. It broke my heart to hear her big, burly (think Hulk Hogan but a big Teddy Bear) cry on the phone that his beloved was dying. He never left her side.
Please keep her and her children in your prayers for a bit. They will bury her this week. Be thankful if you are near family. Because they are in Denmark, we didn't get to see them often enough.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155 KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, January 2013
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Dreamer42
True Blue Farmgirl
2694 Posts
April
Central
Oregon
USA
2694 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2017 : 09:34:44 AM
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Hi Nicole, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I send a multitude of prayers for your family (( hugs )) ~ April
Dreamer42 Farmgirl Sister #7038 |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2017 : 09:38:16 AM
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Thank you, April! It is a reminder to appreciate everyday. She was pretty young.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155 KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, January 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2017 : 12:17:16 PM
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Nicole, I am sorry for your loss. It's never easy to lose someone. Keep your memories close and those you cherish closer. None of us know how long we have on this earth. Love and kindness means so much as we walk this earth. Good you have the good memories to sustain you through this sadness. In my prayers.
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing, Darlene Sister 1922 October 2016 Farmgirl of the month
John 11: 35 Jesus wept.
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
When it gets to hard to stand, Kneel!
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MBurns
True Blue Farmgirl
1859 Posts
Marlene
Swisher
IA
USA
1859 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2017 : 2:42:58 PM
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My deep sympathy for your family. how sad.
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jun 22 2017 : 3:49:51 PM
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Nicole, sorry for your loss. Hugs. Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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buzzn bee
True Blue Farmgirl
1061 Posts
Deborah
Muncie
Indiana
USA
1061 Posts |
Posted - Jun 22 2017 : 6:10:04 PM
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Nicole, my deepest sympathy to you and all your family. She sounded like someone I would have enjoyed getting to know. Cancer is just so hard. Sending prayers, hugs, and lots of love to you and your family.
Love, Farmsister Deborah Horn
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7715 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7715 Posts |
Posted - Jun 22 2017 : 7:10:56 PM
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Sending prayers up for you and your family Nicole,
Take care.
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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cyndieparz72
True Blue Farmgirl
108 Posts
Cyndie
Port Vue
PA
USA
108 Posts |
Posted - Jun 22 2017 : 7:11:42 PM
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My deepest expression of sympathy to you and yours Nicole.
"To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die . . ." Thomas Campbell
Farmgirl #7407 “I have studied many philosophers and many cats. The wisdom of cats is infinitely superior.” Hippolyte Taine |
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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl
2474 Posts
Bonnie
Minneapolis
Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts |
Posted - Jun 22 2017 : 9:18:16 PM
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Nicole, you and your family are in my prayers.
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6663 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6663 Posts |
Posted - Jun 23 2017 : 10:50:07 PM
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Nicole, prayers to you and your family for your loss. Farm girl hugs to you from Florida.
Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jun 26 2017 : 04:31:29 AM
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Thanks, everyone. We are thankful my hubby could speak to her by phone and say goodbye that Friday and then she slipped away two days later. Her hubby seems a little lost without her, as would I or my hubby. She reminded us to appreciate every day.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155 KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, January 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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MaryJanesNiece
True Blue Farmgirl
7231 Posts
Krista
Utah
USA
7231 Posts |
Posted - Jun 26 2017 : 1:08:57 PM
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So sorry for your loss, Nicole. May you and your family find some peace at this time. It's so sad how we can lose family so quickly. It makes me remember the importance of enjoying every moment I get with my family.
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Needle
True Blue Farmgirl
287 Posts
Judy
Kissimmee
Florida
USA
287 Posts |
Posted - Jun 26 2017 : 4:49:51 PM
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Prayers for your family, Nicole. You have our sympathy.
Farm Girl Sister #6566
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9438 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9438 Posts |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Death in family |
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