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Across the Fence:  Father-In-Law passes...  |
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melody
True Blue Farmgirl
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Melody
The Great North Woods in the Land of Hiawatha
USA
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 Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 11:36:38 AM
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My 94 year old father-in-law passed away yesterday morning after a brief illness.
The family is in the process of finalizing funeral arrangements and my son will be flying in from Nashville barring any escalation of our wintry weather dominating today and tonight.
Harold was pretty unique-quiet-steady as the sun with a keen sense of humor. He wasn't overly demonstrative regarding affection, but I remember one time where he came up to me and gave me a big hug-a rare thing and it only happened once where I didn't initiate it. He knew I was hurting-never said a word just gave me a big old bear hug-I'll never forget that. He was a devoted father-husband and pillar of his church... a man who had seen pretty much everything and rolled with the good times and the bad times--- I really liked the old hickory nut---He will be missed.
Melody |
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janamarieje
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jana
Southern California
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 11:47:05 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss Melody, you father-in-law sounded like a great man! My thoughts, prayers and well wishes go out to you, your family and the many friends of your father-in-law!
Jana
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All I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt! ~Charles Schulz
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
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Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 11:58:28 AM
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I am sorry to hear about your loss, Melody. He sounded like he had a wonderful life and was loved and respected by many.
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 12:25:04 PM
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I'm sorry for your family's loss, Melody. Hrs sounds a lot like my father-in-law. He passed about 5 years ago. He was such a solid man answer a gentleman. Your Harold and memories of Albert made me teary. Hugs.
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl
3162 Posts
Shannon
Rozet
Wyoming
USA
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Bridge
True Blue Farmgirl
814 Posts
Bridgette
Southern
Indiana
USA
814 Posts |
Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 12:46:01 PM
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Melody, So sorry for your loss. I will keep you, family and friends in my thoughts and prayers.
He sounds like a wonderful man and lucky you to have him and the wonderful memories in your life.
I had to smile as I reflected on your comment about the hug. Isn't it fascinating how a perfectly timed hug (or any action) from someone can be a cherished memory. Especially when it is not their normal behavior. Your memory has reminded me, give that hug or that compliment or whatever. It could be just what the person needs.
Bridge
Farmgirl Sister #7277
Put your lipstick on & be Happy!
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13722 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
3512 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3512 Posts |
Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 2:57:23 PM
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Melody
I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and the family.
Farmgirl #5111
Farmgirl of the month October 2014
Blessings
~Kelly~ |
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MaryJanesNiece
True Blue Farmgirl
7550 Posts
Krista
Utah
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 4:49:54 PM
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Melody, I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your family find peace. I will be thinking of you!
Krista |
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firecatinc
True Blue Farmgirl
1252 Posts
Lenora
Fulks Run
VA
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 5:55:06 PM
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Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing a little about your father-in-law, he sounded like a great guy to know.
Nora
Farmgirl Sister #7131
Farmgirl of the Month, January 2017 |
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quiltee
True Blue Farmgirl
7618 Posts
Linda
Terrell
TX
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 6:52:42 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers.
Farmgirl hugs,
Farmgirl #1919
Farm Girl of the Month August 2015
Linda O
Lone Oak, TX
"Women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly . . . on a broomstick - we're flexible, like that."
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Tumbleweed
True Blue Farmgirl
1039 Posts
Nancy
Texas
USA
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Posted - Jan 10 2017 : 9:45:45 PM
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Hi Melody
My prayers are with you and your family. Your father in law is thriving in his new custom mansion I am sure. No aches no pains and from what you described probably utilizing his keen sense of humor with the other saints. Hard to loose a wonderful person such as him. Once again, during this time of loss prayers for the ones that love him.
TW
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
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Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
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Posted - Jan 11 2017 : 04:31:12 AM
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He sounded like a one of a kind amazing person. My condolences to you and your family for your loss.
Daw in IL
"Don’t let anyone ever tell you that this country isn’t great, that somehow we need to make it great again" Michelle Obama |
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Marilyn Hartman Sullivan
True Blue Farmgirl
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Marilyn
Oxford
PA
USA
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Posted - Jan 11 2017 : 06:12:28 AM
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Sounds like he had a good long run and a life well lived. I wonder if they're still making great old men. I read an essay one time by Pat McManus...he said that he didn't have an old man of his own as a boy, but was lucky enough to borrow one from a friend who moved away. The old man took him fishing and hunting, taught him how to build a fire in the snow and how not to complain about cold feet. I think the essay was called "The Care and Application of Old Men," or something like that. It was precious. Your tribute to your FIL made me think of it.
Farmgirl #6318
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YellowRose
True Blue Farmgirl
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Sara
Paris
TX
USA
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Posted - Jan 11 2017 : 06:18:44 AM
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Melody, I'm so sorry.
Sara~~~ FarmGirl Sister #6034 8/25/14
FarmGirl of the Month Sept 2015.
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
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Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
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Posted - Jan 12 2017 : 8:37:33 PM
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Melody, You and your loved ones are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. God bless you and help you through this... Hugs and love, Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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katmom
True Blue Farmgirl
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Grace
WACAL Gal
WashCalif.
USA
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
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Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 13 2017 : 05:15:52 AM
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Melody,
I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Much love and hugs, prayers, and warm thoughts to you and your family at this difficult time.
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
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LadyInRed
True Blue Farmgirl
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PeggyAnn
Vancouver
WA
USA
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Posted - Jan 13 2017 : 10:52:04 AM
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Melody...so sorry for your loss!! He lived to be a good age though! I have always believed that I would live to bes 94 also.
Somedays I think why on earth would you want to live to be that old??? My husband said that I will probably fall dead on
my 94 birthday. LOL Probably! I hope you can delight in the good memories of him.
Hugs and Prayers for your Family,
Peggy
Farmgirl #1326
Dec 2011-Farmgirl of the Month
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AFinkberry
True Blue Farmgirl
310 Posts
Ally
Kalama
Washington
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Posted - Jan 14 2017 : 12:01:07 PM
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Hugs and prayers! Beautiful memory!
Ally
Farmgirl Sister #5672
"There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness." ~His Holiness the Dalai Lama |
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Lavender Rose
True Blue Farmgirl
1979 Posts
Brenda
Jackson
MI
USA
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Posted - Jan 15 2017 : 4:06:43 PM
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So very sorry for your loss. What a nice man. Know you will miss him very much.
Farm Girl Hugs,
Brenda
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
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Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
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Posted - Jan 15 2017 : 4:14:56 PM
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Melody, so sorry for your loss but what a lovely tribute to your FIL! How wonderful to have had a man with such character as part of your family. Cherish your memories.
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing,
Darlene
Sister 1922
October 2016 Farmgirl of the month
John 11: 35 Jesus wept.
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
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