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melody
True Blue Farmgirl

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Melody
The Great North Woods in the Land of Hiawatha
USA
3317 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  06:01:55 AM  Show Profile




24 years ago today, our Pastor, read these words by my favorite author Anne Morrow Lindbergh-taken from her book "Gift From the Sea."

It took me a while to write our vows and I thought how appropriate these words would be in "our" ceremony. These words still ring true today....

"When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet, this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of time and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible in life, as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now. For relationships, too, must be like islands. One must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits – islands surrounded and interrupted by the sea, continuously visited and abandoned by the tides. One must accept the serenity of the winged life, of ebb and flow, of intermittency."

Melody

DandeeRose
True Blue Farmgirl

1509 Posts

Alicia
Charlestown, IN
1509 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  06:57:40 AM  Show Profile  Send DandeeRose a Yahoo! Message
Beautiful Melody!! Happy anniversary!

Many Blessings- Alicia #5232
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl

3602 Posts

Judith
Nora Springs IA
USA
3602 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  07:43:52 AM  Show Profile
Happy Anniversary, Melody!
This is certainly a lovely quote. Thank you for sharing.

Farmgirl sister #3926

"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon
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YellowRose
True Blue Farmgirl

6914 Posts

Sara
Paris TX
USA
6914 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  08:21:19 AM  Show Profile
Congratulations and happy Anniversary!

Have a blessed day, Sara ~~~ FarmGirl Sister #6034 8/25/14
Lord put your arm around my shoulders and your hand over my mouth.
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hudsonsinaf
True Blue Farmgirl

3162 Posts

Shannon
Rozet Wyoming
USA
3162 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  09:22:33 AM  Show Profile
Wishing you a joyous anniversary and many more to come in the future years! There is so much truth to the quote you wrote out for us. Thank you for sharing your heart with all of us!

~ Shannon

http://hudson-everydayblessings.blogspot.com/
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ceejay48
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CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores Colorado
USA
13618 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  11:16:44 AM  Show Profile  Send ceejay48 a Yahoo! Message
Happy, Happy Anniversary!
CJ

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Beverly Gill
True Blue Farmgirl

1114 Posts

Beverly
Marlborough
USA
1114 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  12:07:22 PM  Show Profile
Happy Happy Anniversery....do love the words.

Beverly Gill

There's no place like home
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl

6592 Posts

Winnie
Gainesville Fl
USA
6592 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  12:33:46 PM  Show Profile
Congratulations and Happy Anniversary to you both!!

Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
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ceridwen
True Blue Farmgirl

899 Posts

Carole
New York
USA
899 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  1:33:24 PM  Show Profile
Happy Anniversary Melody! Love the book "Gifts from the Sea" by Anne Morrow Lindbergh.

Carole
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Lavender Rose
True Blue Farmgirl

1979 Posts

Brenda
Jackson MI
USA
1979 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  5:05:08 PM  Show Profile
Happy Anniversary to you Melody!!!! Enjoy!

Hugs,
Brenda
#6218

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Song Sparrow
True Blue Farmgirl

1010 Posts

Amy
Talleyville Delaware
USA
1010 Posts

Posted - Jun 15 2015 :  8:01:16 PM  Show Profile
Melody, happy anniversary, and thank you for sharing those special words!

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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl

13055 Posts


Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Jun 16 2015 :  12:13:04 PM  Show Profile
Congratulations and Happy Anniversary to you Melody. Beautiful words!!!!!!!! Thank you for sharing such a special thing with us.
Marly

"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross
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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl

2474 Posts

Bonnie
Minneapolis Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts

Posted - Jun 16 2015 :  2:40:55 PM  Show Profile
Melody: I wish you and your husband many wonderful years together. I hope you make it to 53, like we did this year. God bless.

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sonshine4u
Chapter Guru

1205 Posts

April
New Prague MN
USA
1205 Posts

Posted - Jun 17 2015 :  07:24:45 AM  Show Profile
Happy Anniversary! :)

Farmgirl Hugs!

~April
River Valley Farmgirls
Chapter Leader

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katmom
True Blue Farmgirl

17161 Posts

Grace
WACAL Gal WashCalif.
USA
17161 Posts

Posted - Jun 17 2015 :  11:06:16 AM  Show Profile
Oh Melody, I am a wee bit late,,, but Congrats on your 24th anniversary to your sweetheart
"Happiness is being married to your best friend"...

>^..^<
Happiness is being a katmom and Glamping Diva!

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