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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  Dealing with a cruel person at work. UPDATE!  |
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FARMALLChick
True Blue Farmgirl
978 Posts
Lora
Alexandria
IN
USA
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 Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 1:09:23 PM
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****** This person has been fired ****** My boss told me he had had enough of his bs and told him he wasn't needed here anymore. So thankful for that!
Okay - I get to work today, late, because the case conference for my son IEP ran over a little bit. The boss is on vaca, but he knew I might be late.
I am working alone in the store - no big deal right? Well, I find a nasty gram about something completely off the wall from another employee. I was like - "Yeah, whatever - boss leaves and he thinks he's all that." I called our other store to have it out with this punk only to find out he's not working today. I was talking to the other employee (who is the bosses neighbor) when I turned on the monitor to the computer. I nearly had a heart attack. This mean little (insert your own phrase cuz mine wasn't ladylike) had changed the background picture to a home fully engulfed in flames. He knew full well about my home burning down 2 years ago October 7. I think this is mean, heartless and cruel. I want something done about it, but the boss is in the Bahamas with his family. I took a picture of it with my phone so he won't be able to deny that it was on there.
The other employee said he thought that posting a picture like that crossed a line. I was nearly in tears.
I also spoke with a Law Enforcement friend and she suggested calling the Prosecutor's office since this nutcase is on work-release. She said it clearly crossed a line and would probably be considered as threatening or intimidation. I took her advice and called. He called me back and had me call the Director of the work-release program. They haven't called back yet.
What kind of sick person does such a thing?
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway" -John Wayne
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Edited by - FARMALLChick on Nov 27 2013 1:49:40 PM |
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
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Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 1:50:34 PM
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Lora just be careful with this person. Someone caplable of posting a picture like that could be caplable of other things. Just be careful and be aware of your surroundings.So sorry you had to endure such cruelty. Take care.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
3463 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3463 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 2:24:20 PM
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Lora
I am sending up a prayer for you. That is just down right ugly and cruel just like you said. I do agree with Linda, do be very careful. So sorry you had to see and experience it all.
Farmgirl #5111
Blessings
~Kelly~ |
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prariehawk
True Blue Farmgirl
2914 Posts
Cindy
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Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 2:49:28 PM
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This person sounds like a sociopath--and they can do ANYTHING and not feel guilty about it. Keep the police informed about this guy and document anything you see pertaining to him. Good luck.
Cindy
"Vast floods can't quench love, no matter what love did/ Rivers can't drown love, no matter where love's hid"--Sinead O'Connor
"In many ways, you don't just live in the country, it lives inside you"--Ellen Eilers
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4739 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
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Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 2:54:04 PM
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Unnecessary and cruel. Please watch your back with this nutcase. You may want to talk to the police and make them aware of the situation. They can make sure your house is routinely checked by a squad, same goes for your place of business.
I agree, document everything carefully for your boss and your own protection. Be very careful!
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rphelps4
True Blue Farmgirl
620 Posts
roxanna
westport
indiana
USA
620 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 2:56:39 PM
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| Wow why is he on work release, it would be nice to know what this person past history is, I think he sounds scary, you be careful. Roxanna |
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CindyG
True Blue Farmgirl
293 Posts
Cindy
Fairfax
VA
USA
293 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 4:00:20 PM
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Here's the deal: absolutely report it to the police - no question.
Why?
If you report something now and it is on the record even though it might not be anything illegal, then if he does anything else, the police are IMMEDIATELY aware of the situation. Plus you don't have to wait for him to do a THIRD thing before the police act on it.
Also report it because what he is doing to you could be something he has done before and the police (and his Work Release Director) might know this is the beginning of a pattern with him. |
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Killarney
True Blue Farmgirl
5151 Posts
Connie
Arlington
TN
USA
5151 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 5:54:59 PM
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Lora, That is absolutely unacceptable behavior! Cindy is right! Make a report with Law enforcement! Prayers coming your way!
Connie
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
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Posted - Oct 25 2013 : 6:10:14 PM
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I'm totally with Cindy on this one, too, Lora. PLEASE be careful. Someone who does that kind of thing is just NOT right. Who is in charge while the boss is gone? You? Is there anyone above your boss you can contact? This kind of person should NOT be working in the public, and nobody should have to work with them. This is so not sitting well with me. Please trust your instincts. And you know, I'm sorry, but I thought if you were on work release it was a privilege due to good behavior. You absolutely MUST alert the Director of the work release program. This person is totally NOT safe for the public if he behaves like this. All I can think of is how you would feel if this guy hurt anyone. So please, don't wait. Call. NOW. And if you can't speak to the director because it's after hours or the weekend or whatever, then you find someone in charge and don't let it go. Once you call them and make your report (to both them AND the police), the responsibility is theirs. Please do this, Lora. Don't wait. Hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13639 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
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FARMALLChick
True Blue Farmgirl
978 Posts
Lora
Alexandria
IN
USA
978 Posts |
Posted - Oct 28 2013 : 10:02:30 AM
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The Prosecutor's office and the Work Release Director are both aware of what is going on. The boss got back and supposedly talked to him. Boss man has promised it will not happen again. I always have my .380 with me and I know what he drives. I know how to fight thanks to defensive tactics training while with the state police. This guy is on the sex offender registry and this latest arrest was due to a big drug bust. Thankfully I don't have to work directly with him since he works different days than I do.
He'll screw up again - they always do.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway" -John Wayne
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
3602 Posts |
Posted - Oct 28 2013 : 7:24:05 PM
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I'm praying for your safety Lora. You did the right thing in reporting this.
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Oct 30 2013 : 09:19:15 AM
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This is so scary! Please be careful! I am praying for wisdom, peace and safety for you!
Farmgirl Sister #5392
By His Grace, For His Glory
~Sharon
http://amerryheartjournal.blogspot.com/
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
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Posted - Oct 30 2013 : 12:06:28 PM
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Lora I agree with everyone on here. Just keep alert. Let friends and family know. I am praying for protection around you sister.
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Nov 27 2013 : 2:11:09 PM
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That is a blessing, please continue to be careful though Lora. Have you considered a restraining order against him?
Farmgirl Sister #5392
By His Grace, For His Glory
~Sharon
http://amerryheartjournal.blogspot.com/
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FARMALLChick
True Blue Farmgirl
978 Posts
Lora
Alexandria
IN
USA
978 Posts |
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