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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: State Kidnapped my Neice  |
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sherone_13
True Blue Farmgirl
    
2460 Posts
Sherone
Evanston
WY
USA
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Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 08:07:05 AM
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To make a long story short, the State of Utah has denied my nephew's parental rights of his daughter because the mother was married to another man when she got pregnant by my nephew. They gave parental rights to her husband, saying that the nuclear family overrides DNA proof of paternity. this is an antiquated law that needs to be changed.

Please pray for my disabled Navy Veteran nephew (he was injured while serving on an aircraft carrier in the Gulf during Desert Storm) and for his beautiful daughter, Cadence. He hasn't seen her for 6 months.
If you would like to help, see this link. http://chardalescuriousjourney.blogspot.com/2013/10/your-help-needed-birthday-card-drive.html We are doing a birthday card drive (Cadence will be two on Halloween) If you decide you want to send a card, please include a note that says that you are a friend of mine and that you know how much her Aunt Sherone loves her.
We don't want her to grow up not knowing about a whole family that adores her.
Thanks for your prayers and for your hogs and quiches!
Sherone
Farmgirl Sister #1682
Thirty-One Independent Consultant
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Edited by - sherone_13 on Oct 15 2013 08:07:32 AM |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
    
7853 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7853 Posts |
Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 10:46:52 AM
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Sherone
That is an awesome blog and video.
My prayers are there for you all. Thanks to Nephew who served for the USA and I pray that the state will give back his parental rights.
Blessings darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
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AnnieinIdaho
True Blue Farmgirl
   
437 Posts
Annie
ID
USA
437 Posts |
Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 11:21:13 AM
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Hi Sherone,
Time may go by (even decades) but I know from experience that truth sifts through the "sands of time" to the surface revealing the hidden secrets.
"The turnings of life seldom show a sign-post; or rather, though the sign is always there, it is usually placed some distance back, like the notices that give warning of a bad hill or a level railway-crossing." Edith Wharton, 1913 from 'The Custom of the Country'. |
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
    
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 11:39:04 AM
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Wow Sherone, I am sorry. I am praying for the Lord to grant your nephew custody and for little Cadence to be able to really know and love her Dad. Please thank your Nephew for his service to our country.
Farmgirl Sister #5392
By His Grace, For His Glory ~Sharon
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
    
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
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Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 12:00:00 PM
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Sherone, this brings me to tears. Such a difficult, painful situation. I will be praying for them. And yes, please do thank him for his service. God bless him! Hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
    
3509 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3509 Posts |
Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 12:16:18 PM
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Sherone How awful, this is so terribly sad. Prayers for her to get back with her father soon. How wonderful for your nephew to have served our country, God Bless him.
Farmgirl #5111 Blessings ~Kelly~ |
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ptroupe
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1752 Posts
Portia
Johnson City
NY
USA
1752 Posts |
Posted - Oct 15 2013 : 7:27:04 PM
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I never heard of such! I thought DNA was always the clincher. I understand the family part but am surprised that he would not have some rights if DNA has proven him to be the father. Visitation? Something? Is Utah the only state that does this? My prayers are with the family and abundance thank-you's to your nephew for serving our country.
Blessings, Portia
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sherone_13
True Blue Farmgirl
    
2460 Posts
Sherone
Evanston
WY
USA
2460 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 06:42:18 AM
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As far as I know, Utah is the only state that does this. There are many cases of children being taken away from their fathers in Utah. Women are even going to Utah to have their babies, because they can give them up for adoption without the father's consent. He had visitation for 16 months and then the judge said that he would not enforce the visitation order. My nephew is taking it to the Supreme Court. He is not going to give her up without a fight. He is an amazing dad!
Sherone
Farmgirl Sister #1682
Thirty-One Independent Consultant
www.mythirtyone.com
My Blog
www.annapearlsattic.blogspot.com
My Etsy
www.etsy.com/shop/annapearlsattic
Women are angels. When someone breaks our wings, we just jump on our broomsticks and fly! We are flexible that way! |
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
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Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 08:16:50 AM
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Sherone praying that they will be reunited very soon. I can't imagine how he must feel. I hope they let him and your family see her very soon.
Linda
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Edited by - wooliespinner on Oct 16 2013 08:17:29 AM |
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ptroupe
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1752 Posts
Portia
Johnson City
NY
USA
1752 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 2:49:29 PM
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Prayers will continue. That all seems unreal. I don't blame him for fighting.
Hugs, Portia
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nndairy
True Blue Farmgirl
    
3263 Posts

Heather
Wapakoneta
Ohio
USA
3263 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 5:44:55 PM
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He is a great dad to keep on fighting. I pray he will get to be with his daughter soon.
Heather Farmgirl Sister #4701 http://nndairy.blogspot.com/
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
1650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 17 2013 : 7:52:11 PM
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If the women don't want them why don't they give them to the fathers and give up their parental right to them.
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
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