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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  Please Say A Prayer For My Dad.. UPDATE  |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
 Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 1:35:50 PM
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1/4/13 UPDATE:
Hi girls -
Just a quick update. He's back in the hospital with full-blown pneumonia. Apparently when he left the hospital the other day, the doctor would have liked to prescribe prednisone for his condition, but knowing that he is allergic to prednisone (news to me!), she released him without any prescription at all. That, compounded by my Dad's personal "habits" that he just will not relinquish, made him worse. He wasn't feeling well yesterday, but insisted on holding out for the visiting nurse to come today. Last night, however, it got too scarey and he had my stepmother take him to the hospital, and then he was admitted.
We're going to probably be dealing with this in an ongoing manner, so instead of posting every new update, I'm just going to ask for you to continue to pray for him. If anything major develops, I promise to keep you posted. For now, though, I think we're just going to be dealing with this on an ongoing manner, and that it truly is a matter of time. God is so gracious, though. Out of His Loving Heart, He continues to provide my Dad with many chances. I know, however, it won't be like this forever.
Please know I truly appreciate everything you all do - your love, your prayers, your support. I love you girls dearly.
Hugs -
Nini
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12/21/12
Hi girls -
Please say a prayer for my Dad. As some of you know, he has serious health issues, particularly with his heart and is on oxygen 24/7. He was admitted to the hospital last night with edema in his legs and in his back. He has been experiencing bouts of edema for weeks now, but it was getting a lot worse and he knew it was time to go. They have him on "all sorts of medications," as he said, and he said this is definitely putting stress on the heart, so him being at the hospital will ensure it doesn't go too far. He's not in a lot of pain, he said he just feels pressure. I asked him about the edema in his back, and he said he had no idea what that meant, only that they told him that he has it. He didn't talk for very long before he said he felt shakey and decided to get off the phone. He sounded very tired and a little bit weak. But he was cranky enough to snap at my stepmom for trying to talk when he was on the phone so that's actually a good sign (not good for her, of course, but still a good sign). He just sounds so old, you know? My poor Dad. Anyway, he said that as soon as the edema subsides, they'll let him go. Right now, it's just a waiting game.
I'll keep you posted. He sounds like he's going to be okay, but you know he's like the Energizer bunny and always manages to get better when he's at his scariest worst. My fear is that it'll end up being the not-so-worrysome time like this that something happens. :( Well, let's just not think about it.
Please just say prayers for him. We're in the midst of another snowstorm right now so if he takes a downward turn, heading up to MA to be with him won't be possible until the weather clears. A little stressful? Yes. But we're okay. Just hoping and praying for good news soon! :)
Thank you so much in advance for your prayers. You all are the best!
Hugs,
Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Edited by - Ninibini on Jan 04 2013 12:44:15 PM |
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jan49829
True Blue Farmgirl
2428 Posts
Janet
Gladstone
Mi.
USA
2428 Posts |
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Emily Anna
True Blue Farmgirl
863 Posts
Emily
Fort Atkinson
WI
USA
863 Posts |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 2:43:11 PM
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Nini,
So sorry you all are going through this. I'll pray that the swelling goes down quickly so he can go back to the comfort of his home.
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lovinRchickens
True Blue Farmgirl
3464 Posts
Kelly
Pipe Creek
Texas
USA
3464 Posts |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 5:04:03 PM
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Nini..Prayers are sent, I hope he is back at home soon.
Blessings
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
3259 Posts |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 8:20:00 PM
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Oh Nini, I am so sorry to hear that your dad is in the hospital. I will pray for his quick recovery, and also keep you in prayer. It must be very difficult, to be far away, and only able to communicate by phone during a time like this. Stay strong.
Hugs,
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 8:44:44 PM
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Nini, I will be praying for you dad, and for you. Please, keep us posted. Many hugs to you. Happy New Year!
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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jenne.f
True Blue Farmgirl
643 Posts
Jenne
Wagontown
PA
USA
643 Posts |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 9:00:55 PM
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Nini,
Prayers being sent for your dad and your family.
Keep us posted.
~blessings~
Jenne
Farmgirl #4616 |
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FieldsofThyme
Farmgirl Guide & Schoolmarm / Chapter Leader
4928 Posts
USA
4928 Posts |
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Sue Feely
True Blue Farmgirl
1044 Posts
Sue
Buffalo
New York
USA
1044 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 07:16:10 AM
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| Nini - sending my prayers for him and you! |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13639 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13639 Posts |
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buzzn bee
True Blue Farmgirl
1061 Posts
Deborah
Muncie
Indiana
USA
1061 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 08:19:21 AM
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Nini,
Prayers going up for your Dad, Family, and you. I know how special Dad's can be. My Dad is 84. He lives right next door to me, so I am
able to check on him daily.
Tell your Dad, that we farmsisters will hold him close in our thoughts and prayers, and that we will pray for a speedy recovery, and soon he will be on his way home.
Hugs Friend,
Debbie H.
Buzzn Bee |
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 10:50:13 AM
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Nini,
Prayers out to your Dad and family. It is very hard when our parents are ill. Hoping that he gets better and can go home.
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farmgirl sister #922
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I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl
1868 Posts
Joey
Gulf Coast
FL
USA
1868 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 11:09:55 AM
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First Nini, I am sending big farmgirl hugs to you and a gentle hug to him and your step-mom. You, who shares in prayers for all of us should be comforted by all the prayers going up now for your father. It is SOOOOO hard when family members are sick and especially so when we can't be with them. So we are wrapping our arms around you and praying for all of your family. Please keep us posted. Joey
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britchickny
True Blue Farmgirl
1048 Posts
Angie
Port Orange
Florida
1048 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 2:24:01 PM
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Nini, I'm adding my prayers to all here. And praying that you will have peace during this difficult time. If you can get there, then ok, but if not, your dad will understand and know that you are safe at home.
God Bless.
ANGIE
"Mercy, peace and love be yours in abundance" JUDE 1:2
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 4:27:52 PM
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Nini-
I will be keeping your dad and your family in my prayers. It is so frightening when our parents are not feeling well. Praying for healing and peace for your family.
Love and Hugs to you!!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
1650 Posts |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 6:48:27 PM
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Sending prayers Nini!!
Hugs Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 10:46:21 AM
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Hi everyone -
I just called the hospital and Dad was just released. No details, of course. I left a message on their home phone and asked that one of them call when things settle down to give us an update.
I'm a little surprised because we called him last night and he sounded terrible - very weak, unable to speak very long. He said they were doing all sorts of tests to rule things out. Even my husband was worried when he hung up with him. 'Guess this is to be expected, though, as he hasn't been able to talk on the phone very long for a while now. He struggles to breathe despite being on oxygen 24/7.
Thank you, as always for your prayers and your kindest words. I did mention to him that everyone was praying for him, and he found great comfort in knowing that. So did I. You all are the best! :)
I'll keep you posted, for sure. If you would please keep him in your prayers, I'd SO appreciate it. We know that his time with us is limited, but he insists we not come. He had been through this with his own father, and I think deep down he feels that 1) seeing us pity him and hurting would break his heart and crush his spirit; 2) he just doesn't want us to see him this way, because this is not how he wants us to remember him and 3) perhaps the emotion of seeing us would cause his heart too much stress, and that frightens him. I don't know. What I do know is that he has been distancing himself from us emotionally for a long time, whether or not it's intentional, I simply haven't a clue. We've only experienced rare glimpses of expressions of love from him over the past couple of years. I think he's scared, and I think in some ways he's turning inward to fight it. It's very strange. Then again, everyone deals with this kind of thing differently, you know? Having said that, however, we were ready to leave at a moment's notice, and were possibly going to make a trip up to see him this weekend. We'll see how he does and honor his wishes - either way. It's his life, and he's fighting for it, so we take his cue. He knows we've got the best prayer warriors fighting for him (thank God for you and our family and other friends!), and that we're armed with all the love, support and faith he needs to help him. Right now, it's his call. Whatever he needs - we're ready.
Don't you just wish you could love disease and death away? If only the love in hearts could do that when people suffer. I am thankful for The One whose love can and does. I just wish... well... you know.
Thanks again, and thank you SO much for being the wonderful farmgirls you are!
Hugs -
Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 12:43:50 PM
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Just me again!
My Dad just called. Sounds SO much stronger, so much better. Still weak, still strained breathing, but sounds just so much better. He was in congesive heart failure, but caught it early enough (didn't play around this time and went straight to the hospital at the first sign of stress), so he was lucky. He said he must've eaten something that blew him up with the swelling, so now he's going to be on a whole new diet. He said the reason he sounded so terrible over the phone was because they had him all drugged up. Now he sounds so clear and strong. I am so relieved. Being home is a very good thing for him.
My hubby just reminded me that now it's only a matter of time. We went through this with his Mom, too. I know. It's always in the back of my mind, but when he is laying in a hospital bed 600+ miles away, that thought sure is driven home. I told my husband it's not so much the quantity of time that matters as it is the quality of the time we spend with each other. We just have to make it count. And we will. :)
Thanks again so much for everything!
Hugs -
Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4740 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
4740 Posts |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 2:16:04 PM
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You're all still in my prayers! I hope your father sticks with the new diet. It will make a world of difference for his health.
Dawn in IL |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 2:50:10 PM
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Nini, I am so sorry I am just seeing this now. I have not been on the forum as much as usual in the last few weeks. I am emailing you now.
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
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Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 3:04:00 PM
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Thank you SO much, girls - you're the best! Hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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jenne.f
True Blue Farmgirl
643 Posts
Jenne
Wagontown
PA
USA
643 Posts |
Posted - Jan 04 2013 : 06:08:43 AM
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Nini,
I am glad to hear things are looking better. I will continue to
keep you all in my prayers. ((HUGGGS))
~blessings~
Jenne
Farmgirl #4616 |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13639 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13639 Posts |
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
3259 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2013 : 12:10:23 PM
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Oh Nini,
I am sorry to hear that your dad is back in the hospital. I will continue to pray for everyone in your family- for your Dad, your Brother, and for everyone else to find strength during these trying times.
So often we take our health for granted, myself included. Life is very fragile indeed, and we truly must cherish every minute we are given.
Hugs,
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
View my New Blog:
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musicmommy
True Blue Farmgirl
430 Posts
Wendy
Oregon
USA
430 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2013 : 3:57:27 PM
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Aw...Nini...so much going on in your life. I will continue to keep your dad, your family and you in my prayers!
One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.
Bob Marley
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7625 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7625 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2013 : 8:56:23 PM
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Nini,
I sent you an email before I saw this, You are in my prayers and I certainly will put your Dad and his health in my prayers also. You take care ok. God is with you all, I really believe this and he will bring you all through this.
blessings and love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
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