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*Farmgirl Swap:  Feels so bad....  |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
 Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 12:37:15 PM
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All of my wonderful farmgirl friends keep sending me cards and packages and I feel so bad because I'm pinching my pennies and can't afford to send everyone packages back and I feel that sending a card just isn't enough.
What would/do you guys do?!
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
Edited by - maggie14 on Dec 11 2010 12:38:50 PM |
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njaw09
True Blue Farmgirl
397 Posts
Annie
NJ
USA
397 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 1:23:00 PM
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| Don't feel so bad. is the thought that counts so don't feel it is obligated. |
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karla
True Blue Farmgirl
1308 Posts
karla
Pella
Iowa
USA
1308 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 1:59:33 PM
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Just know that everyone loves ya! Enjoy it-it is not a tit for tat all the time! We just want to bless you for a change!!! I have been praying for you everyday so just know that you are not alone & you are being thought about!!
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 2:18:22 PM
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Hannah, you are one loved little being! Do not even worry about it...Just say hi here and let us know how you are doing....You cannot fuss too much when money is tight, it'll drive you crazy...just look at me  I need your addy again too! I have a little something for you!
It may not get there for Christmas, as we are pinching pennies too 
Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13
Palouse Prairie Girls Chapter
http://palouseprairiegirls.blogspot.com/
http://prairiegirlsjournal.blogspot.com/
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 2:44:07 PM
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Oh, Hannah! Please don't think like that or feel that way! When a person gives a gift, it's out of love, not out of the hope of the gift being reciprocated. Gifts are meant to bring smiles and joy - they don't come with expectations. (If they did, then what they give wouldn't be a gift, right?) You are a very loved, very special young lady. It gives people joy to celebrate having you in their lives, so naturally they want to tell you, and maybe even send a little something special every now and then. By all means, girl, enjoy it! Embrace and celebrate how so many of your farmgirl sisters love you! (Me included!) That's a wonderful thing! :) - Nini
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
Farmgirl Sister #1974 |
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 2:56:52 PM
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Just say Thank You!
No body here expects anything in return. It is just fun to give, especially to someone like you, who really appreciates it.
http://studiodiphotosite.shutterfly.com/
farmgirl sister #922
Happy to be a "Raggedy Ann" in a Barbie World!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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Edited by - Fiddlehead Farm on Dec 11 2010 2:58:47 PM |
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl
11303 Posts
kristin
chickamauga
ga
USA
11303 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 3:53:44 PM
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Hannah, I am in the same boat right now. I have not even thought about sending cards. I did get one from you today. And I have gotten a few others from some of the farmgirls here. It is si nice to be thought of. It really lifts my spirits. I am just poor right now. Hubby's a truck driver. Anyway, don't feel bad at all. We all love you. And Diane's right.
Kris
Happiness is simple. |
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ayates
True Blue Farmgirl
170 Posts
anna
hailey
id
USA
170 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 5:15:07 PM
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| Sometimes it isn't about money! You can be creative and thoughtful without spending alot. For instance, a farmgirl might collect buttons and a few packaged up with care would delight her. Or you may own something and not need/want it anymore that would be of value to another. A hand written poem ... favorite recipe ... bits of old lace or trim. Put your thinking cap on and get in the game. It'll boost your self esteem! |
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urban chickie
True Blue Farmgirl
734 Posts
Catherine
Niles
IL
USA
734 Posts |
Posted - Dec 11 2010 : 5:17:57 PM
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I agree with what everyone else said! I have been on both sides of this, there have been times when I had not two pennies to rub together, and other times when things were rather abundant. Luckily I have the attitude that if I can't afford it, it doesn't happen. And when I do have the $$ or time or whatever, I get to spoil those I love. We would all like to have more, no matter what we have - but that's not reality LOL. I just do what I can, when I can. It's not tit for tat through life, but overall with the right attitude I think we all give more than we receive. So when you don't have it to give, enjoy the receiving! I used to be real bad about that, I hated asking folk for help or just accepting what they offered. Took me years to realize that they were enjoying the same feeling I get when I help them and I had no right to deprive them of that. Sounds silly but it's true! It's easier for me now but I still like to do more for others than let them do for me. It can be a true art to graciously accept when you wish you were giving, but I think it's really an important life skill. I really believe humans are hard wired to need to do for others as much as have done for them.
Catherine
Farmgirl #1370
City Girl By Birth,
Suburbanite By Location,
Farmgirl at Heart
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dutchy
True Blue Farmgirl
4427 Posts
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Posted - Dec 12 2010 : 12:01:01 AM
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I agree, I have received some cards from Farmsisters. It is so nice to get them eventhough I too can't send back (this year, hope next year I can)
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
http://pinkprincessdecorating.blogspot.com/
Almost daily updates on me, my home and my crafts
Farmgirl sister # 2410 |
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chick-chick
True Blue Farmgirl
322 Posts
Liz
New Britain
CT
USA
322 Posts |
Posted - Dec 12 2010 : 05:19:56 AM
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Cards and presents are sent out of love, no strings attached, smile, and enjoy the love being sent
Liz
In God We Trust |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Dec 12 2010 : 9:11:15 PM
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All of you are so awesome and amazing!
Karla, Thank you so much for praying for me! You are so sweet and thoughtful!
Annika, you always manage to make me smile! I will send you my address asap but I'll need yours too! :)
Nini, you are so right! Thank you!!
Diane, you are the best! I really, truly appreciate all the cards and packages. They make my day so much brighter!
Kristin, Please, please don't feel like you have to send me something back. You have blessed me so much with your friendship and that is enough for me. :)
Anna, I love your ideas! Thank you so much for sharing them with me!
Catherine, I agree! When ever I have an abundance I try to share it with everyone. :) Thank you for posting!
Marian, I feel so sick that I haven't sent you your package yet. It's been a long time since I said I would mail it. Truth is money is tight for me but I'm looking for a job so hopefully soon. I'm so sorry dear friend that I haven't kept my word. Please forgive me.
Liz, Thank you! I just feel so guilty when I recive something. I'll work on it. :)
Thank you all again so much!
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
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TexBetsy
True Blue Farmgirl
322 Posts
Betsy
Princeton
TX
USA
322 Posts |
Posted - Dec 13 2010 : 10:16:05 AM
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Hannah - During my morning devotions today, while I was praying for you, the Lord impressed upon me that He gave us the greatest gift of all in His Son, Jesus Christ. God doesn't ask for anything from us in return, just that we accept his Gift! We love you dear one!
Betsy
"God does not command that we do great things, only little things with great love" Mother Teresa |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Dec 14 2010 : 09:34:09 AM
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Betsy, Thank you for praying for me and posting. :) You are so right. :)
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
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horseychick
True Blue Farmgirl
140 Posts
Melanie
Clarkston
MI
USA
140 Posts |
Posted - Dec 19 2010 : 06:19:54 AM
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urban chickie,
Just happened to see you here. I sent you an email. Received a card from you. What a nice surprise! thank you.
I agree with all everyone has said. I think the majority of farmgirls here are not here to "receive". We are here to give, mostly. As women, we naturally nurture. I often think of a quote that Oprah uses via Maya Angelou " When you know better, you do better." In some cases it isn't a question of knowing, it is a question of being able- be it monitarilly(sp? ,) psycologically or in having the time. I have neglected my Farmgirls sisters in the RAOK group. I have had too many irons in the fire the past several months but things are slowing down a bit and I will catch up.
And so to Maggie, let everyone nurture you now. When you are in a better place, and feel you can, then you can nurture another. Keep your head up Framgirl! Enjoy a little TLC.
Farmgirl Sister #1706 You can take the girl out of the country but her soul will bring her back.-mlp
www.thestitchincoop.etsy.com
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Dec 19 2010 : 9:53:40 PM
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Thank you Melanie! I will try to do that. :)
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
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horseychick
True Blue Farmgirl
140 Posts
Melanie
Clarkston
MI
USA
140 Posts |
Posted - Dec 20 2010 : 05:16:06 AM
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Maggie14/Hannah,
I ended up having 3 boys but the "girl name" we picked out was Hannah. Never got to use it but still love it
melanie
Farmgirl Sister #1706 You can take the girl out of the country but her soul will bring her back.-mlp
www.thestitchincoop.etsy.com
www.ThePatternShack.etsy.com |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Dec 20 2010 : 09:32:33 AM
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Awe, Thank you! I love my name alot and wouldn't change it. :)
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
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rachaeltolliver
Farmgirl in Training
35 Posts
Rachael
Petersburg
VA
USA
35 Posts |
Posted - Dec 21 2010 : 07:47:21 AM
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| A simple thank you online is more than enough. Everyone just wants to let you knwo that you are loved & are thought about & that you are not alone. No one is expecting anythign in return just a smile. |
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LucyMae
Farmgirl at Heart
8 Posts
Lisa
Jasper
Al
USA
8 Posts |
Posted - Dec 22 2010 : 7:16:20 PM
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| Please realize when someone gives, be if financially, of their time, or efforts, it is their blessing to be fortunate enough to be able to do so..... please don't ever feel bad or not accept when someone offers any of the above, you could be stealing their blessing from them. I learned the true meaning of "it is better to give than receive". We as women find it hard to "receive" because we are such givers. Remember when someone gives, it is their blessing to be able to do so..... |
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Dec 28 2010 : 6:22:30 PM
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Thank you Rachael and Lisa!
Hugs,
Hannah
Farmgirl sister #1219
Lifes not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away.
Just a small town country girl, farmgirl,loggergirl, trying to live her dreams. :)
P.s. I've been playing around with the spelling of my name ( weird I know) and I've decided that I will stick with Hannah for good. Sorry I got you all confused. Hugs!! |
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