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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  hardships at home  |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
 Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 07:38:13 AM
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| I would appreciate any and all pryaers and advice I can get. I have been having some very hard financial times and my home is going into foreclosure and I feel like everything is closing in. My 13 year old daughter is home with me and as a single parents I feel like I have no one to turn to and have had some horrid thoughts go thru my head. Please keep my family in your prayers- I really appreciate it!! |
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl
4810 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 07:55:47 AM
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Lori, I'm thinking of you. I work for a real estate attorney who assists many folks with foreclosures...have you thought of a bankruptcy restructure wherein you can keep your home? It's possible, and please, please, don't feel like you are alone in this. It's all across this country--but there are options. Being together is the most important thing, whether it's in your home, a condo or a small rented house in the country. Shelter is vital, but a home is just a shell without family--and that's what you and your daughter make it. So anywhere you both go, and stay together, will be home.
Musings from our family in the Bluegrass http://sweetvioletmae.blogspot.com/ |
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MrsRooster
True Blue Farmgirl
1168 Posts
Amy
Seabrook
TX
USA
1168 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 08:17:07 AM
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Lots of prayers to you. God has a plan for you. It might not be what you think it is. You will be ok.
www.mrsrooster.blogspot.com
Farmgirl #1259
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Cherime
True Blue Farmgirl
1222 Posts
Cherime
Wasilla
Alaska
USA
1222 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 10:01:48 AM
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Praying for you. With all the flack about many foreclosures being done wrongly, perhaps you should really check and see if bankruptcy is an option. I had to file for that protection due to my husband's long illness and all the bills incurred. I got to keep the cabin I live in. I certainly could not afford to rent something, I would be at the food bank weekly. Please check all the options out and do not let anyone tell you that bankruptcy is wrong. It is there for those are caught in situations just like these times.
CMF |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 10:22:46 AM
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| thank you for the support- I feel like such a failure! And I really need the support- last weekend was very hard and horrid thoughts went thru my head-thank the Good Lord that I have my daughter that is counting on me- the only thing that really stopped me from doing something very stupid!! |
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl
4810 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts |
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 2:49:17 PM
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Lori, listen to what Jonni said, she is so right. I don't care if you and your daughter live in a studio apartment. The fact that you are together is what will make it home. Times are very hard for so many people right now. Sweetie there has always been hard times for people. You stick together and stick it out. Things do get better. You never know what good thing may turn up tomorrow, and you don't want to miss it!
Hugs MJ
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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farmmilkmama
True Blue Farmgirl
2027 Posts
Amy
Central MN
USA
2027 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 3:33:00 PM
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My thoughts are with you, Lori. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this...these sure are tough times. We went through foreclosure a couple years ago. Hang in there. :)
--* FarmMilkMama *--
Farmgirl Sister #1086
Be yourself.
Everyone else is already taken.
-Oscar Wilde
www.farmfoodmama.blogspot.com |
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medievalcat
True Blue Farmgirl
256 Posts
Cynthia
White County
Arkansas
USA
256 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2010 : 5:36:15 PM
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Lori.. we are with you! I know how bleak everything is for you right now but as long as you are here you have a family.. a family that loves you and wants to know how you are doing. Doing something 'stupid' won't solve anything. There are options..and check with your state for free legal help. I read yesterday that most states have something set up to keep families in their homes. So please take a deep breath and look into it.. and know I'm holding your hand.
Love ya and big sister hug,
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 05:45:34 AM
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Lori, I sent you an e-mail. Please keep your daughter in your head at all times and don't even think desperate thoughts. I know we are close to each other. Let me know what I can do. Maybe we can get together and you can cry on my shoulder. I have big shoulders. Please look into all the options out there for foreclosures, the banks are trying to keep people in their homes. Praying for you.
http://studiodiphotosite.shutterfly.com/
farmgirl sister #922
Happy to be a "Raggedy Ann" in a Barbie World!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
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sherrye
True Blue Farmgirl
3775 Posts
sherry
bend in the high desert
oregon
USA
3775 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 10:27:18 AM
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oh lori, please listen to jonni and diane. i was in foreclosure, felt bad scared etc. these farmgirls helped me privately and on here to get through this tough time. we were told over and over by mortgage co. pay up or move. now we have a permanent loan modification. i make my second payment today. they said no right up to the end. 1 year i made no house pymts. they forgave the past due and the latefees etc. dropped my pymt. by $900.00 a month.its an obama house affordable plan. please keep fighting. are you working? do you have unemployment. we are both. part work part unemployment. worked the numbers out and it worked. i will say a prayer for you. be strong its the system failing not you farmgirl. sincerely sherrye
the learn as we go silk purse farm
farm girl #1014
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 12:11:12 PM
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Lori - please also remember that the measure of who you are is not found in owning a home, in the car you drive, the clothes you wear nor in anything you own.... You find it in your reflection seen in your daughter's eyes and in the love felt for you in her heart. And I am sure that in her your measure is beyond words. Nothing else really matters. I've been there, and I plan to email you later tonight. Please know that here with your farmgirl sisters you are in a safe place. We care deeply and give you our full, loving support. The other girls seem to have some really great advice - please heed it. And always remember you can lean on us as much as you need. That's what sisters are for! You are in my constant thoughts and prayers. Hugs - Nini
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
Farmgirl Sister #1974 |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 12:26:15 PM
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Oh Lori, you are not a failure. The world is in a bit of bad shape right now and many, many people are suffering. Listen to these smart ladies =) They helped Sherry stay in her home. Anything is possible.
I, too, have been to the point of considering "desperate" things for various reasons and it isn't worth it. ((((hugs)))))) Remember that your daughter is here needing her mama. I know we all can help each other if we stick together as farmgirls are so good at doing! Hugs and courage to face these hard times coming your way!
Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13
Palouse Prairie Girls Chapter
http://palouseprairiegirls.blogspot.com/
http://prairiegirlsjournal.blogspot.com/
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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traildancer
True Blue Farmgirl
485 Posts
Loyce
Glide
OR
USA
485 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 1:17:13 PM
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Hi, Lori. I don't know where you live, but know that I care about you. I know about desperate thoughts and I earnestly pray that you will not act on them. Like the others have posted--think of your daughter.
Also, no matter how bleak and discouraging life seems, this too shall pass. Things do change; sometimes slowly, other times unbelievably quickly.
I don't know if you are religious, but God is in control and He knows what is going on. You can rely on Him.
Take care of yourself and your daughter. And check in to any and all options that may be available. Sometimes help comes from unexpected directions.
The trail is the thing.... Louis L'Amour |
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LindaJo
True Blue Farmgirl
650 Posts
Linda
Fargo
ND
USA
650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 2:57:11 PM
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Holding you up in prayer. Lots of good advice.
Art cleans the dust of everyday life from the soul. Picasso |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2010 : 3:12:54 PM
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| Thank you dear friends for the love and support- I am a Christian and that in itself is why I haven't acted on my horrid thoughts- as a Christian that is one thing I do not believe in. I am working hard on trying to contact the correct people and organizations for guidance and help. Every day is very hard, and I am trying to have faith. Thank you for all of the love and support you all show to me and my daughter. |
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highlandviewpantry
True Blue Farmgirl
214 Posts
WV
USA
214 Posts |
Posted - Oct 22 2010 : 10:49:57 AM
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Lori - I am praying for you. All things pass and this hard situation will one day be a distant memory for you and your daughter. She will look back on your stregth through this time as an example for how to get through tough times. I will keep you both in my prayers.
www.thehighlandviewpantry.blogspot.com |
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violetrose
True Blue Farmgirl
960 Posts
Ruth
Epworth
GA
USA
960 Posts |
Posted - Oct 24 2010 : 1:50:50 PM
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Hi Lori, I'm just checking in to see how you are doing? You have been in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm asking the Lord to send you guidance and peace.
Hugs and prayers, Ruth
Farmgirl Sister # 1738
God loves each one of us as if there were only one of us!
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 12:00:22 PM
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| today has been a very hard day- can't stop crying and my mind in working overtime trying to keep things straight and figure things out, I know I need to try and stay calm, easier said than done!! |
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
6066 Posts
Jeannie
Florida
USA
6066 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 12:30:20 PM
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Keep touching base here with everyone. There are women who know good advice for you, and then there are those of us who are praying alongside of you and your daughter. In the midst of this, tell her how much you love her, that you are always there for her, and hug her, and pray to God that the way will be made known to you.
Farmgirl Sister # 31
www.blueskyjeannie.blogspot.com
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violetrose
True Blue Farmgirl
960 Posts
Ruth
Epworth
GA
USA
960 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 2:13:34 PM
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Lori, Do you have a pastor you can go to and talk with? A good friend, sister or a mature lady? I am feeling your pain, please know you are not alone - your sisters are here to help.
Please keep in touch and know that you are in my heart and prayers.
You and your daughter just hang on to each other and the Lord, this storm will pass by and the sky will be blue once again.
The Lord will never leave you nor forsake you.
many hugs and prayers,
Ruth
Farmgirl Sister # 1738
God loves each one of us as if there were only one of us!
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smiley
True Blue Farmgirl
650 Posts
lea
pea ridge
arkansas
USA
650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 7:39:17 PM
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| I dont have the words of wisdom the other ladies gave but know I am praying for you and your daughter. Dont give up. It always works out somehow. |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13816 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13816 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 9:35:48 PM
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Lori,
I am praying as well . . . that the Lord will give you peace, strength, wisdom and encouragement. That He will enfold you with His love and care. He will never leave you or forsake you. I wish I could be of more tangible help. The bond between you and your daughter is life-giving! My prayers are with you and your daughter.
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665
From my Heart - www.fromacelticheart.blogspot.com
From my Hands - www.cjscreations-ceejay.blogspot.com
From my Hubby - www.aspenforge.blogspot.com |
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sherrye
True Blue Farmgirl
3775 Posts
sherry
bend in the high desert
oregon
USA
3775 Posts |
Posted - Oct 25 2010 : 9:41:46 PM
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lori we are concerned for you. are you ok tonight. i am moved to suggest you sleep with your daughter for awhile. when i was down and out and alone except my son. i would sleep and snuggle him to find peace inside me. it also put in front of me why i shall not give up. he needed me. she needs you. we are praying for you. you are a fine farmgirl. sometimes we need a leg up. where are you? its darkest before dawn. you have your child hand on tight. when i was down i had to ask for help. i hate asking. any way... there are organizations that help in these difficult times. ours here is called neighbor impact. see whats out there. use food bank food and save your dollars. fight the mortgage deal. ours is disolved so we were shifted back to wells fargo bank. they helped us. keep trying. let us know how you are. crying can be good. winners can get down but we dont stay there long. i am sending you a leg up. tell us where you are. like state or something. more ideas may come up that way. sending love hugs and prayers for you. sincerely sherrye
the learn as we go silk purse farm
farm girl #1014
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Oct 26 2010 : 08:42:46 AM
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Thank you all so much for your thoughts and prayers- I know that they are carrying me thru. I'm in Wisconsin, and I am trying avenue that I can travel . It's most frustrating that people dont call back or follow thru and I so desperately need. I'm trying not to worry my daughter and she knows because I haven't been myself and so sad most of the time. I'm trying to do the right things to help my family- I just hope and pray that people will follow thru when I call.
Thank you again for the love thru the computer!!
Lori |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Oct 26 2010 : 08:55:33 AM
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I hope that people get back to you today...keep calling, don't give up. So many of us are here cheering and praying for you to get the help that you need. Wish I lived closer and could just be there to help =(
Stay strong and please let us know what is going on . Hugs and love!
Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13
Palouse Prairie Girls Chapter
http://palouseprairiegirls.blogspot.com/
http://prairiegirlsjournal.blogspot.com/
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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