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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
 Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 07:17:21 AM
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How do you show you are a farmgirl in your day to day real life? I don't have the farm with animals so for right now farmgirl really IS a condition of that heart- but I take that with me wherever I go.
I think that farmgirls are in many ways loving and caring- nurturers. When I am at work I try to put myself in my customer's shoes.
Farmgirls also need to get things done so I roll up my sleeves and get to the point and get the problem solved.
At home I struggle to get things done. It is easy to be in my comfort zone and just let things be- but I WANT the beautifully organized house that I have always dreamed about.
Anyway so I was wondering what you ladies do to take the farmgirl spirit with you throughout the day?
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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smiley
True Blue Farmgirl
650 Posts
lea
pea ridge
arkansas
USA
650 Posts |
Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 10:36:20 AM
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| I constantly remind people that there are still good folks out there. When I listen to the news or read the paper I am in search of at least one good samaritan story that I can share with my clients thru out the day. I own a salon and have lots of opportunities to remind people that deep within us all usually is a desire for the simply joys of life that have always been. |
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herblady55
True Blue Farmgirl
3470 Posts
Judy
Louisville
Ohio(Stark Co)
USA
3470 Posts |
Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 11:06:10 AM
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I always look for the good in everybody. Everybody has at least (1)good attribute, right? haha I try to remind myself that I don't know what's going on in their world, I can't walk in their shoes. That's how I was raised. Sometimes(many times)that's gotten me the name"goody-two-shoes", but I don't care anymore. I'm too old to care. I just try to be "Nice!"
Sister-chick# 905
Judy
Hugs&Squeezles!
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mscountrygirl
True Blue Farmgirl
552 Posts
Michelle
Lucedale
Mississippi
USA
552 Posts |
Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 3:15:40 PM
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I think being a farmgirl is a matter of the heart. Even if someone doesn't live in the country with animals there are other things that can be done like canning, sewing, and going to farmer's markets. Plus I wear aprons and hats and read encouraging things.
Michelle
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donna rae
True Blue Farmgirl
52 Posts
Donna Rae
Virginia Beach
VA
USA
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Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 4:15:17 PM
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Hi, Alee!
I, like you, give my all throughout the day, but sometimes struggle to get it all done at home. Sssooooo... I organize one spot at a time: today I cleaned off the dining room table, added a clean, fresh red tablecloth and added a red vase with hearts hanging from white branches. My dog's toys may still be all over the living room floor, and my laundry pile may be overflowing, but this little spot of 'lovely' makes me smile.
Donna Rae
Farmgirl Sister # 593
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Choctaw Farm Gal
Farmgirl in Training
46 Posts
Nancy
Oklahoma
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Posted - Jan 30 2010 : 4:37:53 PM
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Hi Alee!
One thing that comes to mind is how we farmgirls tend to mix a little something fresh and pretty into everything practical and useful. For instance, going into town unexpectedly for a broken part or tool may find me in my rubber mud boots, work jeans and a worn work shirt. But I still have on my best make-up (including lip gloss )and will take a few seconds to tie a colorful, clean scarf around my neck or a ribbon in my hair braid. I can pluck a fresh flower or herb spring to poke in my pocket or rolled-up sleeve. And lastly, it is most natural to offer a kind smile or a simple compliment to anyone I run into town before heading back home to my chores. The older farm women I know have a quality about them that lets everyone know they really do place a high priority on beauty - in their appearance, their homes & most of all the beauty of their spirit & attitude. That beauty is lasting and is what is seen and heard - but most importantly is felt by others - even when the dishes are stacked high in the sink or the laundry is piled high in the mud room.
My Mother taught me this, as I was growing up on our family farm.
Nancy
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knitnpickinatune
True Blue Farmgirl
1140 Posts
Sherrie
Gardena
California
USA
1140 Posts |
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tea_lady_tammy
True Blue Farmgirl
1485 Posts
Tammy
NE
USA
1485 Posts |
Posted - Jan 31 2010 : 11:47:38 AM
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I believe kindness goes a long way as well. It is a matter of the heart. Treating others as you would like to be treated. I have never understood why people can be so unkind.
blessings
Tammy
Tea is like being in the stars with God.
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Candy C.
True Blue Farmgirl
823 Posts
Candy
Mescal
AZ
USA
823 Posts |
Posted - Jan 31 2010 : 3:45:20 PM
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I have a ring that has an inscription on it that says "Let Your Life Speak." I try to remember that saying in everything I do. I agree with Tammy, I don't understand why people are so unkind either! It is SOOOO much easier to be pleasant!
Candy C.
Farmgirl Sister #977
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
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Annab
True Blue Farmgirl
2900 Posts
Anna
Seagrove
NC
USA
2900 Posts |
Posted - Feb 01 2010 : 04:04:04 AM
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I too try to be kind with a smile and helping hand whenever and wherever possible.
Some days it's easier than others, that's for sure.
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mscountrygirl
True Blue Farmgirl
552 Posts
Michelle
Lucedale
Mississippi
USA
552 Posts |
Posted - Feb 01 2010 : 08:20:16 AM
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I was thinking about the Amish. Those women are farmgirls! I read a novel about an "English" woman who stayed with an Amish friend. I would love to see that type of farmgirlness lived out.
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Sue Feely
True Blue Farmgirl
1044 Posts
Sue
Buffalo
New York
USA
1044 Posts |
Posted - Feb 01 2010 : 08:23:37 AM
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| Alee - I, too, am with Donna, things are so overwhelming here as my husband is a I guess you can say a hoarder and I am not, he saves way to much as it may be useful in the future but anyway, I do try to "freshen" little areas at a time and that makes me feel better! |
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Ingrid
True Blue Farmgirl
432 Posts
Ingrid
BC
Canada
432 Posts |
Posted - Feb 01 2010 : 08:31:55 AM
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Treating others as you wish to be treated is what I do and also try very hard to teach my children. I have also learned from my father that respect is earned not automatic. He was right. I have also taught my children this as well and it works for them. As for lack of kindness in others my only explanation is they are unhappy with their own lives and have no idea how to fix this or don't want to because it is easier to blame the world than to take responsibility for their own actions.
Give thanks to yourself everyday for all the wonderful things you do! |
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paradiseplantation
True Blue Farmgirl
1277 Posts
julie
social springs community
Louisiana
USA
1277 Posts |
Posted - Feb 02 2010 : 05:59:15 AM
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I try to have a smile ready and possibly a compliment or a cheerful greeting to everyone I meet. And, once they have passed, I usually pray that they receive one special blessing in their life that day -- something they really need or something that will really make their heart sing with joy.
from the hearts of paradise... |
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