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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: I Have a Heavy Heart |
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4HMom
True Blue Farmgirl
720 Posts
Kelly
Montana
720 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 1:15:10 PM
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A dear friend of mine has taken a rapid turn for the worse in his battle against lymphoma. A couple of us are going to visit him today after work, but it feels so much like a "good-bye" visit. His children have been called home and the prognosis is grim. Please keep his family in your thoughts.....
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 1:23:53 PM
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Oh Kelly, that is so tragic. I'm so sorry. I will be thinking about him and wishing him a peaceful passing. His family are also in my thoughts. It's so hard to say good bye to some one you care about.
Love and light
Annika Farmgirl & sister #13
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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chaddsgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
843 Posts
Sarah
Farmgirl Sisterhood #639
MO
USA
843 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 2:13:12 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that, Kelly. It is so hard to watch someone you care about slip away slowly. Keeping you and the family in my thoughts.
A person is a success if they get up in the morning and get to bed at night and in between does what they want to do. Bob Dylan
Deeperrootsfarm.etsy.com |
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weaverchic
True Blue Farmgirl
362 Posts
gerri
Largo
Florida
USA
362 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 2:30:09 PM
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Kelly my thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend. Having to deal with a loss is difficult for us, however your friend is being set free to another world of peace. I will pray that he may have a peaceful transition to a greater place.
gerri
Happiness is in the comfortable companionship of friends. -Pam Brown |
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wild daisy
True Blue Farmgirl
503 Posts
Madelynne
Billings
Montana
USA
503 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 5:00:26 PM
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I know how you feel. My husband older sister is also dieing of leukemia. It is a fatal form and they are only giving her a few months at a time before she too will pass. My advise is to go and see him as much as possible. I mean if he is not feeling up to visits it's hard but keep him in your prayers. My husband's sister has been in the hospital since the first of September and can't go home due to her condition. My husband calls her every week. Most calls last only minutes as she is very weak but she waits each week for his calls. It might be a lot but it seems to keep her going. She lives outside of the state of Montana so to see her often is not possible.
Madelynne
johnandmadelynne.blogspot.com |
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Sarahpauline
True Blue Farmgirl
672 Posts
sarah
Ringgold
GA
USA
672 Posts |
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4HMom
True Blue Farmgirl
720 Posts
Kelly
Montana
720 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 6:40:28 PM
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My visit today was very difficult. He wasn't alert, but his wife (and me too) are sure that he could still hear us. I am glad that I went, but it was hard to see a man who was once larger than life be so sick and slipping away. Thanks, girls, for letting me share my sorrow and for your words of comfort. I really appreciate you!
"Be the change you want to see in the world" -Gandhi |
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clothedinscarlet
True Blue Farmgirl
1333 Posts
Siobhan
Battle Creek
MI
USA
1333 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 6:46:40 PM
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Praying for your friend. *hugs*
Siobhan, wife to my best friend, Trent, and mommy to Camden (11/28/05) and Bennett (7/11/07). and Truman (7/28/09) |
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Roxy7
True Blue Farmgirl
1083 Posts
Robin
Denver
CO
USA
1083 Posts |
Posted - Jan 14 2010 : 6:52:23 PM
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Prayers sent. |
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cajungal
True Blue Farmgirl
2349 Posts
Catherine Farmgirl Sister #76
Houston Area
Texas
2349 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 04:50:08 AM
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praying for you and his family.
One of the best compliments from one of my daughters: "Moma, you smell good...like dirt." |
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Beemoosie
True Blue Farmgirl
2077 Posts
Bonnie
New York
USA
2077 Posts |
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prayin granny
True Blue Farmgirl
1874 Posts
Linda
Kansas
1874 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 09:22:38 AM
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Kelly, I am so sorry. Praying for your friend. Our loved ones do sense our presence, I have no doubt. |
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Diane B Carter
True Blue Farmgirl
1270 Posts
Diane
Blasdell
N.Y.
USA
1270 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 12:32:23 PM
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Kelly, it is so sad to watch someone whom you love and respect slide on over to the other side. Sometimes I think it's harder on the ones left behind. My 87 yr.old dad passed away in September. It was hard but peaceful. He loved his visits with his friends who could come over. Some only stayed 15 minutes but he was so glad they came and so were mom and I. I'll be praying for all of you.
Hope all your days are Sunnydays. dianebcarterhotmailcom.blogspot.com |
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lilwing
True Blue Farmgirl
1403 Posts
Brooke
Fulshear
Texas
USA
1403 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 4:11:51 PM
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I am praying for you all.. My brother-in-law passed away from lymphoma...I totally understand.
~~~~ Proud Farmgirl #775
http://maggielousdaughter.blogspot.com (in construction!)
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 4:47:12 PM
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My prayers are with you and the family. Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Beverley
True Blue Farmgirl
2707 Posts
Beverley
atlanta
Michigan
USA
2707 Posts |
Posted - Jan 15 2010 : 9:07:24 PM
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my mom died of lymphoma also so I understand completely what you feel. God hand upon the whole situation is what I will pray for...
Folks will know how large your soul is by the way you treat a dog....Charles F. Doran beverley baggett Beverley with an extra E... http://bevsdoggies.googlepages.com/ |
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julia hayes
True Blue Farmgirl
1132 Posts
julia
medical lake
wa
USA
1132 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2010 : 09:08:23 AM
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Kelly...my thoughts are with you. THANK YOU for sharing this so we could be with you. End of life..transitioning to the great unknown is so natural and yet devastatingly difficult. I shall keep you in the light...close close close!! All my love, ~julia
being simple to simply be Farmgirl #30 www.julia42.etsy.com www.about-aria.blogspot.com |
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2010 : 2:47:47 PM
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Kelly, I do believe he knows you are there. See him as much as you can and I am sure his wife so much appreciates your visits to him and her. My heart is sad for you and your friends. I pray for all of you.
MJ
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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Betty J.
True Blue Farmgirl
1403 Posts
Betty
Pasco
WA
USA
1403 Posts |
Posted - Jan 18 2010 : 2:50:19 PM
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I'm sorry to learn of your friend's illness. I'm going in for removal of a lymph node tomorrow to find out what type of lymphoma I have to decide on the method of treatment. It's definitely scary. I'm going to be 68 next month and I'm still ready to live a long life. I have been told that lymphoma is easy to treat--probably not always the case.
Betty in Pasco |
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peachy
True Blue Farmgirl
593 Posts
Melissa
Fennville
MI
USA
593 Posts |
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4HMom
True Blue Farmgirl
720 Posts
Kelly
Montana
720 Posts |
Posted - Jan 19 2010 : 1:47:53 PM
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Thank you ALL for your kind words of support. My friend slipped quietly away in the presence of his family. His service is tomorrow...with all the Irish traditions he so loved. He will be missed.
"Be the change you want to see in the world" -Gandhi |
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Ga Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
2355 Posts
Karen
Meansville
Ga.
USA
2355 Posts |
Posted - Jan 19 2010 : 3:11:41 PM
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Kelly, Im so sorry to hear of your loss. It is so hard to loose a friend that means so much to you. I will be praying for you and his family. Blessings,Karen
Create in me a pure heart,O God and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10 www.KKJD1.etsy.com http://farmgirlingastyle.blogspot.com/ |
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amomfly
True Blue Farmgirl
658 Posts
Angie
LaGrange
IN
USA
658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 19 2010 : 3:14:38 PM
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I am so sorry for your lose and am praying for his family as they go thru this time.
God Bless you |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: I Have a Heavy Heart |
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