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laurzgot
True Blue Farmgirl
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Laurie
Alvin
Texas
USA
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 Posted - Sep 04 2009 : 6:54:38 PM
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I can sleep so much better if hubby falls asleep on couch watching t.v. He now works graveyards so the house is quite and I've got the bed to myself. We love each other very much. But everyone needs their space. We have all the same issuses that everyone has mentioned. But at nite I have our bed and during the day hubby has it. no complaints.
Laurie
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5 acre Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1007 Posts
~~~*Terri*~~~
WA.
USA
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Posted - Sep 04 2009 : 7:23:20 PM
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My DH says; "that does it", when we have seperate beds....He's a snuggler....   
Farmgirl Sister #368
"It is most common for man to value most what has least worth."
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pinkroses
True Blue Farmgirl
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Sheila
Virginia
USA
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AmethystRose
True Blue Farmgirl
254 Posts
Rosemary
Huntingdon
PA
USA
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Posted - Sep 05 2009 : 11:29:56 AM
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DH and I sleep in the same bed, same bedroom, but at different times. I'm a night owl, he's a lark. As soon as he sits in his "command module" recliner, he's asleep within ten minutes. He wakes up, goes to bed around 9:30 with the dog following. Around 2AM he lets the dog out, I turn off the TV and go to bed, and DH returns to the recliner until around 5:30. At any time during the day either of us will call for "break time", which means both lying down on the bed for fifteen minutes and just talking things over.
This has nothing to do with affection, it's a matter of comfort and getting a good night's rest. Once you're on the treadmill of doctors appointments and medications, it's more important that the person is still in your life, not where they sleep. |
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Separate Bedrooms
