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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl

11303 Posts

kristin
chickamauga ga
USA
11303 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  5:07:12 PM  Show Profile
Will ya'll please pray for my daughter H. Her husband is taking her right now to try to get her into detox. It's a long story but she just needs help right now. He needs help, too. But right now she is the one crying out for it.

And my other daughter A. just called and said she got laid off today.

So all in all not a good day here. It's just too sad.

Kris

Happiness is simple.

Cabinprincess
True Blue Farmgirl

682 Posts

Melody June
Athens TX
USA
682 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  6:37:19 PM  Show Profile
Will pray for both D's! What a blessing already that she is asking for help, it's a long road to get there sometimes. Special prayer's for him being there for her. A huge prayer for you being the mom, our hearts wrench when our children hurt, no matter how old they are.

Blessings, Melody June

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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl

1545 Posts

Mary Jane
New York
USA
1545 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  6:40:50 PM  Show Profile
Praying for both of your daughters, Her husband and you. That was a really terrible day I'm sorry any of you have to go through this tough time.

MJ

There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark
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Sue Feely
True Blue Farmgirl

1044 Posts

Sue
Buffalo New York
USA
1044 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  7:20:52 PM  Show Profile
So sorry Kristin; why do things happen in multiples when the are not good things? I am praying...
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laurzgot
True Blue Farmgirl

1704 Posts

Laurie
Alvin Texas
USA
1704 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  7:58:25 PM  Show Profile
Sorry Kris, I'll pray for your family.
Laurie

suburban countrygirl at heart
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl

5216 Posts

Sharon
Bruce Crossing Michigan
USA
5216 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  8:07:47 PM  Show Profile
I am sorry Kris, but am glad to hear that H is seeking help, that is a huge step! I am praying for strength for her and her husband and also for provision for A. I'm praying for you too!

~Sharon

By His Grace, For His Glory

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Roxy7
True Blue Farmgirl

1083 Posts

Robin
Denver CO
USA
1083 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  9:27:27 PM  Show Profile
Prayers sent.
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Aug 28 2009 :  9:46:58 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
You got it Kristin!!

Alee
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Especially For You
True Blue Farmgirl

541 Posts

Tina
Watkinsville GA
541 Posts

Posted - Aug 29 2009 :  05:19:35 AM  Show Profile
Kris,
I am so sorry!!! I am praying!!! Would you mind if I put them on the prayer chain at church?

Luv ya!!

Tina
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Ga Girl
True Blue Farmgirl

2355 Posts

Karen
Meansville Ga.
USA
2355 Posts

Posted - Aug 29 2009 :  07:08:15 AM  Show Profile
Kris, they are both in prayers and so are you. We mothers hurt when our kids hurt, keep us updated when you can. Blessings,Karen

Create in me a pure heart,O God and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalms 51:10
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl

5602 Posts

Annika

USA
5602 Posts

Posted - Aug 29 2009 :  08:40:48 AM  Show Profile
Of course Kris, what a horrible day for all of you. I'm so sorry that you all have to go through this. I hope that daughter H gets the help that she badly needs and sticks with it through recovery and that her hubby gets with the program too. My prayers are with them and you through this.

I hope that daughter A finds a good job, it's so hard right now to keep or find jobs. I wish her the best luck and a hopeful new start soon.

Hugs to you for being such a caring mom and good soul. It's so hard watching those that we love go through pain and hard times.

Blessings to you all.

Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13


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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl

11303 Posts

kristin
chickamauga ga
USA
11303 Posts

Posted - Aug 29 2009 :  12:59:45 PM  Show Profile
Thank you all so very much for all your thoughts and prayers. YES, please put them on your prayer cahins at church!! I know it helps and the more the better!

H is staying at the hospital for 72 hours for observation. She's been on anti-depressant drugs for awhile now and then drinking vodka doesn't help at all. She really hates drinking and would much rather be doing drugs but thought this would be less obvious. It's kind of funny because she said she had heard when you drink vodka your breath doesn't smell like liquer. Ha! I talked to my mom who has worked as a counselor in the addiction field for over 30 years now and she can't tell you how many addicts say the very same thing. Well, it ain't true. Her hubby doesn't think they will put her in treatment but that she will need to be in a AA or Na progarm every day and get her meds fixed right for her. She needs to have a job and go to meetings and just needs a reason to get up in the mornings.

I just feel like a total idiot. When both my kids were younger and doing all the crazy things teenagers do, I always said I'd know it because I did the same things. Well, no, I didn't know it. They were doing things right in the house and under my nose practically and I never knew. They were just that good at hiding things. And to this day I have no clue what's going on under my nose. Again!

I also feel like I should have seen the clues for depression in her. She has gained quite a bit of weight. Doesn't care what she looks like. Never dressed or even put on a bra. Just all hung out. Never went anywhere. She'd get K. up for school then would get back in bed for most of the day. Ate all the time she was up. Her and her DH fought constantly when he was home. There were so many things that I should have seen to know this was going to happen again.

I hope she'll be ok. It's just not good to see all this again. I always have that little nagging doubt in the back of my head that something's going to happen any time. It always does. Sooner or later. I don't know how many of you deal with addiction with family members. If you do, you know exactly what I'm going through with this. It's just always going to be there. I want to trust her and see the good and the progress. But then this happens. Every time. Over and over again.

Thanks again for all the prayers.

Kris

Happiness is simple.
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter

13645 Posts

CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores Colorado
USA
13645 Posts

Posted - Aug 30 2009 :  10:08:31 AM  Show Profile  Send ceejay48 a Yahoo! Message
Kris,
You can count on me as a prayer warrior too!!!

CJ


...from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado
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Tapestry
True Blue Farmgirl

1223 Posts

Cheryl
Wisconsin
USA
1223 Posts

Posted - Aug 30 2009 :  11:21:56 PM  Show Profile  Send Tapestry a Yahoo! Message
I'm so sorry Kris. This has to be so very difficult for your daughter, her DH, you and the whole family. Also your other daughter's DH getting laid off is rough too. Prayers being sent for comfort, help, funds, release from addiction and a sense of peace for all.
Hugs

Happy farmgirl sister #353


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Aunty Krys
Farmgirl in Training

21 Posts

Krystal
Vancouver Wa
USA
21 Posts

Posted - Sep 02 2009 :  7:57:56 PM  Show Profile
Kris, you have my prayers! Being the momma--we want to fix all the boo-boos and make everything okay--and sometimes you just can't. I have a 19 year old with aspergers and its a struggle every day. All you can do is love them and pray. So, I'll pray with you and for you for strength and peace and comfort for you all.

Be the person your dog thinks you are.
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl

6784 Posts

Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts

Posted - Sep 09 2009 :  3:19:24 PM  Show Profile  Send maggie14 a Yahoo! Message
You also have my prayers.
Maggie
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl

11303 Posts

kristin
chickamauga ga
USA
11303 Posts

Posted - Sep 09 2009 :  5:11:59 PM  Show Profile
Thank you all for your prayers. I am sorry I haven't been around lately. I'll just update a little now.

H just got home from a treatment center after 7 days. Before that 4 days in hospital under constant watch. They now have her on Remron (?) and antidepressant plus another one to help her sleep. She's always had a sleeping problem. Anyway, we'll see. Her hubby is trying to get some groups started at their little church right up the road. She really needs to go to AA meeteings all she can. They are all around here. She just needs to go and be accountable. No one can do this on their own. I hope she will be ok. I always tend to think of when something else will happen. I don't need to do that. That's already admitting defeat for her. So I just need to put all this in God's hands and leave it alone.

A has started her other class on Tues. nights now. So she goes Tues. And Thurs. She is working when she can for a friend with a cleaning business. Still putting aps. and resumes in all over. Signed up for unemployment. Should get that next week.

Thanks so much for all the prayers, ya'll. It really helps and means so much to me.

Krystal, I don't know what that is your DD has. But I know you are doing all you can do for her. We just do.

Kris

Happiness is simple.
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl

2313 Posts

lori
Fort Atkinson Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts

Posted - Sep 09 2009 :  6:28:18 PM  Show Profile
Keeping the prayers coming your way!
Lori
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