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Barnyard Buddies:  How? Why? Sad news.  |
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
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 Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 7:38:55 PM
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I just returned from the vet. He determined that Howie's back had been fractured, without a doubt from being shaken by that woman's dog. He had no feeling in his legs at all, which I could have dealt with, but he would have had no control over his bladder or bowels as that part of him was paralyzed as well. After asking the vet what he would do, I went with his recommendation and had Howie euthanized. It is such a cruel end for a kitten that did nothing but be small and innocent. We are all heartbroken.
Our cat, Meredith, had kittens six weeks ago and my mom found a home for the two males with a friend of hers. Well, yesterday Howie, a little orange and white sweetheart, and Tobais, his cute-as-pie brother left to begin a great adventure. Or so I thought. They came home today.
Apparently the woman's dog had Howie in his mouth within 20 minutes and she had to command him to drop the kitten. After that, who knows what happened, but this morning I got a phone call from her telling me that Howie began dragging his legs behind him last night and she had no explanation as to why. She said that she was going to have to return both kittens because she cannot afford a vet visit. I am so heartsick. This poor baby cannot move his back legs and has to fling himself to get on his side. It took most of the morning to get his mother to nurse him, probably because he now smelled like somone else's house. My sister is visiting and she called the woman, who promptly called our mother to tell her that she just received a phone call from her rude daughter. All she asked was for an explanation as to what happened and this woman changed her story at every turn.
Now it is me who will have to take the kitten to the vet on Monday (their appointment schedule is full until then), which I cannot really afford to do myself. My fear is that they will have to euthanize Howie and the thought makes me ill.
I am so mad I could spit and, more so, disappointed that this "friend" of my mother's had no problem returning an injured cat and shifting the burden of care to someone else.
Some friend, huh?
Karin
Farmgirl Sister
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1badmamawolf
True Blue Farmgirl
2199 Posts
Teresa
"Bent Fence Farms"
Ca
USA
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Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 8:30:57 PM
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That is not any kind of friend, period! People like that should NEVER be allowed to have pets, cause as you have seen, they don't really care. When you bring that poor baby to the vet, get a written report of his injuries and what was recommended, then I would go straight to the humane society and file a report. This is a case of cruelty, and she should answer for it, because if she doesn't, she will do it again down the line to other babies.
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oldfashioned girl
True Blue Farmgirl
2391 Posts
monica
oatman
az
USA
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Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 8:57:35 PM
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Karin, I would be giving her a piece of my mind! If my dog got a hold of the cat I would have immediately called to return them because of incompatibility before there were any injuries! That is so wrong to return an animal after it gets hurt in your care because you can't afford vet bills! she should have thought of that before and should have NEVER taken the cats! As Teresa said I would file a report!
Monica
farmgirls rule!
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Aug 14 2009 : 10:46:24 PM
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Teresa said it all!!!! That is exactly what I was going to say. Evidently these people are NOT animal-loving people. I would report them ASAP. I am madder than mad just reading this. Keep us posted.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
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nut4fabric
True Blue Farmgirl
885 Posts
Kathy
Morgan Hill
CA
USA
885 Posts |
Posted - Aug 15 2009 : 08:12:04 AM
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Years ago we had a friend that had a cat that couldn't move his hind legs, that goofy cat lived a very long healthy life as an indoor cat.
Kathy |
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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl
2544 Posts
Karin
Belmont
ME
USA
2544 Posts |
Posted - Aug 15 2009 : 09:04:22 AM
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What an awful thing, poor little mite. People who are so rotten about their animals shouldn't have any. I am so sorry to hear about this, I don't wonder that you are so upset....
Karin
Farmgirl Sister #153
"Give me shelter from the storm" - Bob Dylan
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aunt boby
True Blue Farmgirl
173 Posts
toby
polo
illinois
USA
173 Posts |
Posted - Aug 15 2009 : 3:06:51 PM
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Sick!! Some people are just plain SICK!!!
POOR IS THE MAN WHO CANNOT ENJOY THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE- anonymous |
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Farmtopia
True Blue Farmgirl
1465 Posts
Zan
New York
New York
USA
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Hosanna
True Blue Farmgirl
466 Posts
Hosanna
Alton
Virginia
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goneriding
True Blue Farmgirl
1599 Posts
Winona
Central Oregon
USA
1599 Posts |
Posted - Aug 16 2009 : 08:46:32 AM
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No, the lady shouldn't have taken them but, I'm looking at the silver lining here, at least she is returning them so they can get help. She's offloading a problem, sure, but the kittens are better off with Karin than with her. It's a no-win situ but at least the blessed little kitties may have a better chance.
No way would I ever let this lady take another animal of mine!
Winona ;-)
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
3890 Posts |
Posted - Aug 16 2009 : 10:12:02 AM
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You have all so eloquently expressed the same sadness I feel about our poor kitten. Howie is trying to hitch himself up upon his back legs today. He is a very determined to get where he needs to be. He will pull himself along on his front legs and raise his back legs under him- he looks like a caterpillar inching across the floor. I am taking this as a good sign. The back right leg is still limp but the left appears to have a bit of strength to it. Tomorrow I take him to the vet to be checked. He does not have bladder control so I have to clean him frequently during the day. A quick spritz with the spray at the sink and he is good to go! He hates it.
I will let you know what the vet says. Please pray for a positive visit.
Karin
Farmgirl Sister
# 18 :)
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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl
2544 Posts
Karin
Belmont
ME
USA
2544 Posts |
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Tapestry
True Blue Farmgirl
1223 Posts
Cheryl
Wisconsin
USA
1223 Posts |
Posted - Aug 16 2009 : 8:25:01 PM
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Awwww this is so sad :( Why in the world did this woman offer to take the kittens if she had dogs who weren't used to cats? This sounds like the poor wee kitten might have spinal cord injuries. Maybe if he's lucky it's just bruising and once the trauma heals he'll be okay. I'd definitely file a report and file a lawsuit in small claims for the amount it costs you for the vet services. This woman should be made to pay for this situation she allowed to happen.
Happy farmgirl sister #353
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl
11303 Posts
kristin
chickamauga
ga
USA
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Posted - Aug 17 2009 : 1:29:10 PM
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Karin, that is sad. But he's not suffering anymore and you did all you could do to make the last few days better for him. I am so sorry this has happened. The dog probably didn't mean to do that but that lady should not have put small kittens in with big dogs. And she should have been more responsible. Most people are. Sorry you had to deal with her problem but the poor kitten was better off with you for sure. You did the right thing.
Hugs, Kris
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maggie14
True Blue Farmgirl
6784 Posts
Hannah
Washington
USA
6784 Posts |
Posted - Aug 17 2009 : 2:21:43 PM
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Thats so sad. But I'm glad he's no longer suffering.
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electricdunce
True Blue Farmgirl
2544 Posts
Karin
Belmont
ME
USA
2544 Posts |
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Miss Bee Haven
True Blue Farmgirl
4331 Posts
Janice
Louisville/Irvington
Kentucky
USA
4331 Posts |
Posted - Aug 17 2009 : 2:34:25 PM
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That is very sad. I'm so sorry for you all. I truly believe there's a special place in Dante's inferno for people like her.
Farmgirl Sister #50
"If you think you've got it nailed down, then what's all that around it?"
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1badmamawolf
True Blue Farmgirl
2199 Posts
Teresa
"Bent Fence Farms"
Ca
USA
2199 Posts |
Posted - Aug 17 2009 : 3:30:48 PM
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That women should be horse whipped, I just DO NOT understand how a human being can be so cold , and cruel to some of Gods littlest creatures. I really hope you have filed a report against her, and will let the humane dept prosecute to the fullest extent of the law!
"Treat the earth well, it was not given to you by your parents, it was loaned to you by your children" |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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prariehawk
True Blue Farmgirl
2914 Posts
Cindy
2914 Posts |
Posted - Aug 17 2009 : 7:17:43 PM
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I am so sorry. God bless poor little Howie and may He do something to shake that woman up.
Cindy
"Dog is my co-pilot"
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Amie C.
True Blue Farmgirl
2099 Posts
Finger Lakes Region
NY
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Posted - Aug 18 2009 : 05:44:25 AM
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| Poor baby! I'm sorry it ended this way, and I agree with everything you all are saying about the woman with the dog. I hope she's not somebody you have to deal with on a regular basis, I'd have a hard time speaking to her again. |
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FebruaryViolet
True Blue Farmgirl
4810 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
4810 Posts |
Posted - Aug 18 2009 : 06:01:25 AM
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Oh, Karin, I am so sad and so sorry for the situation. Poor little man. I can NEVER understand why these little ones suffer. I commend you for being strong and doing what is right for Howie..it is never easy, but he will no longer suffer. Ugh. I'm at work and my mascara is all over my face. I will say a prayer for his little soul...
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aunt boby
True Blue Farmgirl
173 Posts
toby
polo
illinois
USA
173 Posts |
Posted - Aug 18 2009 : 07:24:58 AM
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That is just awful. If this woman had any sort of conscious at all she would pay your vet bill. You should mail it to her!
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Lessie Louise
True Blue Farmgirl
1406 Posts
Carol
PECULIAR
MO
USA
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Posted - Aug 18 2009 : 11:32:17 AM
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I am so sorry for your kitty. You did the right thing. I don't know how that woman can sleep at night. You were a blessing to that kitty.
how sweet it is to love some one, how right itis to care |
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Lainey
True Blue Farmgirl
2401 Posts
Elaine
Waco
Kentucky
USA
2401 Posts |
Posted - Aug 18 2009 : 1:14:53 PM
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This is so sad. You all are in my prayers. I don't understand people like that at all.
(((Hug)))
Farmgirl Sister #25
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