My hubby said I can't believe you brought the book and I said I thought it would be fun to do together and he said but I hate to read so I said I would do it and tell him about it the next day. Well the next day I called to tell him something and he said Honey do what you need to do. I read the first day and it said not to complain about anything your spouse does. I am sooooooo glad he's my hubby.