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catscharm74
True Blue Farmgirl

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Heather
Texas
USA
4687 Posts

Posted - Dec 07 2008 :  4:58:56 PM  Show Profile  Send catscharm74 a Yahoo! Message
Are you like me, that no matter how much you accomplish in your life, no matter what it is, it never seems like enough? Well hubby opened my eyes today and gave me great perspective. He pulled out all of my certificates, Charlie's birth certificate, college paper and achievements, military honors, my current college transcript,etc...and put them all on the table for me see. I was getting down on myself for not doing enough or getting ahead and WOW!!! Seeing all that stuff puts things in perspective for me. So no more getting down on myself...I have come a L O N G way baby!!!

Heather

Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!

Sitnalta
True Blue Farmgirl

4208 Posts

Jessica
NJ
USA
4208 Posts

Posted - Dec 07 2008 :  6:01:58 PM  Show Profile
Yay for you! Isn't it wonderful when we get down that we have people who love us enough to show us how much reall yhave accomplished. What a blessing to get a new perspective!
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Jessie
Farmgirl Sister #235


Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing.

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catscharm74
True Blue Farmgirl

4687 Posts

Heather
Texas
USA
4687 Posts

Posted - Dec 07 2008 :  6:09:59 PM  Show Profile  Send catscharm74 a Yahoo! Message
I get so down because I feel like I have been trugging uphill, never feeling accomplished in anything. I know once I get my Bachelor's, that will be a HUGE relief. Just a little perspective on how far I have come helps. : )

Heather

Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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Sitnalta
True Blue Farmgirl

4208 Posts

Jessica
NJ
USA
4208 Posts

Posted - Dec 07 2008 :  6:36:43 PM  Show Profile
Heather,
It is great that you are encouraged! That trudging uphill means you are headed the right way. One of my favorite quotes says Anything worth doing is worth doing well. Keep up the great work!
hugs

Jessie
Farmgirl Sister #235


Cleaning your house while your kids are still growing is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing.

Stop by my blog for a visit www.messiejessie2.blogspot.com
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl

22941 Posts

Alee
Worland Wy
USA
22941 Posts

Posted - Dec 07 2008 :  6:56:00 PM  Show Profile  Send Alee a Yahoo! Message
What a clever idea for him to do! You should get all of those framed and pick a wall to hang them on to show your progression!

Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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Annab
True Blue Farmgirl

2900 Posts

Anna
Seagrove NC
USA
2900 Posts

Posted - Dec 08 2008 :  03:30:24 AM  Show Profile
That's something we should have tried for my mom.

She had a litle mid life crisis and was in a quandry about her life a few years ago.

These days she volunteers at the habitat for humanity thrift store and, has really brought in more revenu thanks to her sharp eye and expertese in antiquing. She also continues to keep her nursing license current and uses this to assist in their comunity. Since her children have left home, both she and my dad are busier now than they ever were.

My life has been based on multiple failures......all thus far have turned out for the better. So sometimes when I'm having one of those down moments, I think about graduating college, living on my own successfully, 1000 + miles from home and never quitting no matter what the nay sayers say or predict.

It's the fires we come out of that make us the diamonds in the end
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therusticcottage
True Blue Farmgirl

4439 Posts

Kay
Vancouver WA
USA
4439 Posts

Posted - Dec 08 2008 :  10:18:35 AM  Show Profile
Heather - what a great hubby you have!! I agree with Alee - frame them!!



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K-Falls Farmgirl
Chapter Leader

2096 Posts

Cheryl
Klamath Falls Oregon
USA
2096 Posts

Posted - Dec 08 2008 :  3:10:39 PM  Show Profile
We often don't give ourselves credit.. Glad your husband had the wisdom to guide you to realization.

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Cheryl #309
Farm girl sister

Enjoy the little things in life....someday you'll look back and realize they were the big things.
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yarnmamma
True Blue Farmgirl

4247 Posts

Linda
Clarks Summit PA
USA
4247 Posts

Posted - Dec 08 2008 :  4:09:11 PM  Show Profile  Send yarnmamma a Yahoo! Message
what a great idea! thanks hubby!! and thanks for telling us about it...inspiring and could help alot of us too!

Linda in Scranton, PA
farmgirl #71
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lacisne88
True Blue Farmgirl

1181 Posts

Chelsey
Lake Stevens Washington
USA
1181 Posts

Posted - Dec 08 2008 :  7:52:10 PM  Show Profile
Yay! That is awesome! I'm so happy for you...what a great way to see things and to put things in perspective! I should try that. Thanks!

Chelsey
Farmgirl Sister #283

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