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Family Matters:  Aria turned 5!!!  |
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julia hayes
True Blue Farmgirl
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julia
medical lake
wa
USA
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 Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 09:03:01 AM
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Ladies, I stepped away for several days but am back. Things are good! Aria turned 5 last Friday October 24! Kristin from GA, thank you for asking about Aria! She was diagnosed with leukemia in January and has been enduring chemotherapy ever since. I've been writing incessantly about it in the form of emails to anyone who is interested. Some of you get them and they are often really long detailed accounts of what it is like. Aria, as most of you know, is a warrior. She is so inspiring to me and every day she reminds me that the most important thing in life is to live! To really truly live.....love....play...The innocence of this child is so healing for me as an adult who has lost that innocence in some ways and has replaced it with independence. I think in some ways this is what we are fashioned to do but the process of innocence to independence can sure take a toll on actually living. Aria's leukemia has simplified this for me, right to the very core.
She had a spinal tap on Tuesday this week that went without a hitch. Every 3 months she has one to make sure that leukemia cells are not detected in her spinal fluid. They never have been seen there but research knows that spinal fluid is where leukemia likes to hide. Leukemia, like most cancers, is opportunistic and will reoccur if given any avenue to do so. She also had a chemotherapy drug injected into her spinal fluid to make sure that the leukemia doesn't get any bright ideas! Years ago this was a horribly painful procedure. Children were held down by several adults. I can't imagine the emotional trauma of such a thing. Now, kids are sedated with "conscious-sedation", which means that she can breathe on her own but is completely asleep and numb. It is full anesthesia with all of the risks involved so it is no routine thing but far less traumatic and painful. So far, she has never experienced any ill effect from this procedure.
As a matter of fact, after her spinal tap we all went as a family to our family doctor and got flu shots. Influenza is very dangerous for anyone going through chemotherapy or for anyone with any kind of suppressed immune system. I'd never had a flu shot before and our oncologist recommended it. I trust her completely. I swear, if she were to tell me that lighting my butt on fire and running down the streets with my bra shoved through my ears was going to help cure Aria's leukemia, I wouldn't give it a second thought! I'm serious! So we went to our doctor's office and Aria says, "Hey everybody, I'll race ya!!" She took off running. The child had just woken up from a spinal tap procedure no more than an hour before. Doc, my husband and I were just in awe of her.
I won't kid you. I've had a rough emotional few days leading up to her birthday and after...even now. It is such a peculiar thing to know that your child is living with a deadly illness on her way to being cured of it. I have been filled with this incredible sense of gratitude for her life. I can see so clearly that it is a gift. Not too long ago, leukemia treatment wasn't so successful and Aria would not have been alive to celebrate her 5th birthday. This is very real to me and feels like the air has been sucked from my lungs. I have found myself several times in the last few days on my knees in both thanksgiving and grief thinking about those families whose kids didn't live. They no longer have them with them to celebrate. I have a clearer sense of that grief now and am so thankful that I don't actually know it. It seems almost too much to bear and I suspect it is. Yet, people go on...I don't know how they do it, but they do. I'm in awe of them too.
Living.....there are many ways to live one's life. Aria is showing me how to live a more truthful life, and one that is genuine and rich.
This is my Aria! ~julia hayes
being simple to simply be
Farmgirl #30
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Tina Michelle
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sunshine state
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oldfashioned girl
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monica
oatman
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 09:18:49 AM
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Julia, I am so happy that Aria is doing well! She is just the loveliest little girl!
Aria, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Monica
farmgirls rule!
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JudyBlueEyes
True Blue Farmgirl
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Judith
Spokane
Washington
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 10:09:30 AM
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Julia, thank you so much for sharing! Aria is Beautiful, as is her mother. May blessings continue for Aria, you and your family. FarmGirl Hugs, J
We come from the earth, we go back to the earth, and in between, we garden! |
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Alee
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Worland
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USA
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
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Annika
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 11:36:31 AM
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Happy, happy birthday dear Aria!!!
Annika
Farmgirl & sister #13
Mud Hen Queen
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junkjunkie
True Blue Farmgirl
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Judy
Lawrenceville
NJ
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 4:44:05 PM
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Happy 5th birthday, Aria! It looks like a fun birthday party....love the 'paint job'! :)
"To have life in focus, we must have death in our field of vision." Benedictine monk John Main |
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jpbluesky
True Blue Farmgirl
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Jeannie
Florida
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 5:03:24 PM
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May many happy days and years and decades follow for all of your family. You certainly derseve the best and greatest gifts of life there are. When I read your posts, I can see that you have chosen to learn and grow from all the heartache and worry. So much admiration I feel for you! Love to you all.
Farmgirl Sister # 31
www.blueskyjeannie.blogspot.com
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Marybeth
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Stanwood
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Firemama
True Blue Farmgirl
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Amanda
Medical Lake
WA
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 7:37:16 PM
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Happy Birthday Aria!! I get so much joy seeing her thrive. I love to get to say Good Morning to Rio too!! They are both such sweet kids..
Mama to 2
FarmGirl# 20
People can only make you feel inferior with your permission, and you dont have my permission......
Dont let the chain of love end with you.....
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Ronna
True Blue Farmgirl
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Ronna
Fernley
NV
USA
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Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 9:40:31 PM
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Julia! I've tried emailing you both through the farm and privately and they are sent back as being unable to deliver. Could you possibly email me when you have time? Happy Happy to Aria, a true cause for celebration!
Ronna |
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julia hayes
True Blue Farmgirl
1132 Posts
julia
medical lake
wa
USA
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Posted - Oct 31 2008 : 07:19:08 AM
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Thank you Farmgirls. Ronna, I just fired off an email to you! Judy, how did summer go by without you coming over and seeing me in my bathing suit? honestly, I really do wear other things than my swimsuits but it sure didn't seem that way when you were around last year! Crack me up! I hope you are well. Amanda, I haven't seen you at all and I'm not running into Autumn much anymore either! BUMMER! Dad take the kids into school most mornings these days, which is so huge for me! yippppppeeeeee! hope you are well. Give that sweetheart of a daughter of yours a big farmgirl squeeze for me!
Here's to you all! ~julia
being simple to simply be
Farmgirl #30
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Tammy Claxton
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Glen Burnie
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Moscow
ID
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Posted - Nov 01 2008 : 09:10:55 AM
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Aria-
Happy Happy Birthday! Isabella says that 5 is a good age, because she is five;) I just love seeing Aria all painted up- savoring the moment.
Happy Birthing Day to you as well Julia- you are quite the Mama and you inspire me to no end.
LOVEloveLOVE,
Rebekka
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katmom
True Blue Farmgirl
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Grace
WACAL Gal
WashCalif.
USA
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Posted - Nov 03 2008 : 3:44:41 PM
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Hugz Hugz & more Birthday Hugz to sweet Aria.
>^..^< Happiness is being a katmom.
mjf#72
Sisters on the Fly#472
www.katmom4.blogspot.com
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cinnamongirl
True Blue Farmgirl
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Carrie
Canada
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Posted - Nov 04 2008 : 11:46:34 AM
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| Happy Birthday Aria!! Many more will come your way I see it in the sparkle of your eyes!! Hang in there Julia! |
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sleepless reader
True Blue Farmgirl
1022 Posts
CA
USA
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Posted - Nov 07 2008 : 08:39:36 AM
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Happy Birthday, sweet girl! And MANY more!!!!Blessings to you and mom.
Sharon
Farmgirl Sister #74
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K-Falls Farmgirl
Chapter Leader
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Cheryl
Klamath Falls
Oregon
USA
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Posted - Nov 07 2008 : 1:44:02 PM
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Happy Birthday! 5 years old and You are a cutie! Thank you for sharing her story mom.. Bless you.
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Cheryl #309
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Family Matters: Aria turned 5!!! |
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Aria turned 5!!!
