Personally, I would look at it as your hubby was helping his friend - not the wife. He was there for the friend. Yes, I know it was her garden - but it's up to her husband to stand up to her.
It was probably a good thing that she left the house when your husband was there. I wouldn't want a woman like that around my husband. Even though I trust him - I don't like women like that around my man.
It amazes me when my hubby goes to help out at someones house and hospitality isn't extended. But I'm learning that not everyone has that gift. Sadly.
I don't know what else to add. Perhaps the husband will see the light. Do you know if it bothers him? Sometimes men like that type of woman - that gets along with all his buddies. Or perhaps she does this when he's not looking?
Exactly!! Try to focus on the relationship between your husband and his friend, that is what will last and it sounds like he will need your and your husband's support. Not really easy, but if you think of the good thing you are doing for your husband's friend maybe it will make you feel better - it sounds like maybe he has his hands full. Good luck sister!! Amy Grace
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Posted - Oct 25 2008 : 10:06:57 PM
