So my cousin I told her about here and said try it out. We were chatting yesterday online about how we wish we were near eachother to have a cup of tea or coffee and chat and just be there like women used to do. Not sure if this is her style but I think she'd like it. Anyway we thought we'd start our own chapter :-D finally someone to be with and that but I think she isn't able to access yet...? I hope :-p