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bohemiangel
True Blue Farmgirl
2087 Posts
Bridget
Ligonier
pa
USA
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 Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 4:53:22 PM
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Girls if I'm not myself this is why, I've been having some relationship issues as most of you know. I got out of a relationship in august of 3 years then met someone in october not really wanting someone and we clicked. All was fine till his friend got involved and started trouble. We've been rocky. Well Monday made me realize some things. I can't wait around for a man to call or text or see me. It drives me nutty. Today when I finally heard from him I wanted to talk and he wouldn't so I broke up. I'm not feeling like it was the right thing. Everyone tells me it is but in my heart I don't feel that it is. I am sorry if those of you have contacted me about things or if I'm not myself. I am hurting right now and upset. Thanks.
**~~Farmgirl Sister #60~~**
"... to thine ownself be true."
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 5:46:42 PM
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Honey, you may be hurting right now, but, I have a feeling you have saved yourself a whole lot worse hurting later on. If he is choosing friends all the time over you and just calling and texting when he feels like it,something is not right with your relationship. He certainly doesn't sound ready to give up the time with his buddies or even divide his time between them and you. He shouldn't have to give them up, but, they would probaqbly always be an issue. When your inner voice is telling you something is wrong, listen. It is very seldon wrong. I hope you start feeling more yourself very soon. Honey, you deserve to have a man that wants you to be his top priority. Give yourself some "me" time, pamper yourself and give yourself the love and attention you need. Put yourself at the top of your list.
Hugs, Mary Jane
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 6:54:34 PM
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Bridget-
I am so sorry you are going through a rough patch right now. I hope something comes along to brighten your day. *hugs*
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
Please come visit Nora and I our our new blog:
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chicken necker
True Blue Farmgirl
509 Posts
Sherry
Eastern Shore
Maryland
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 7:24:03 PM
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Dear Bridget, I am sorry you are going through a rough time. But here's just a little advice, and I don't pretend to be an expert...Trust Me. LOL. But seriously, maybe you need to relax a tad. Guys are much, much, much slower to start to acknowledge a relationship. They usually figure it out once we have given up. If you don't feel it's right to completely give up, maybe there's a reason why.
I love deadlines. I especially like the whooshing sound they make as they go flying by. ~anon |
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mima
True Blue Farmgirl
1573 Posts
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 7:27:17 PM
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Hugs sweetie!!!
"No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars,or sailed to an uncharted land or opened a new heaven to the human spirit." Helen Keller |
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Tina Michelle
True Blue Farmgirl
6948 Posts
Tina
sunshine state
FL
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 7:35:21 PM
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hey Bridget..head on over to my blog and let "Collin" give you a puppy hug. :0)
Seriously though..I'm so very,very sorry to hear you are going through a rough time.Sending a hug your way..and this time not just from "Collin".
Hang in there..there will be someone very special for you...and I agree..you deserve someone that will give you the time and attention to a relationship that you deserve..and for whom you are their top priority.
Hugs to you.
~Seize the Day! Live, Love, Laugh~
visit me at:
http://gardengoose.blogspot.com/
and at www.stliving.net
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one_dog_per_acre
True Blue Farmgirl
1572 Posts
Trish
Sandpoint
ID
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 8:55:00 PM
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I have read some of your past posts, and I kept my mouth shut, but now I can say: YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL TO HAVE A MAN THAT IS NOT TOTALLY CRAZY FOR YOU!!!!
Now eat a brownie. XXOO Trish
Farmgirl Sister #91
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
5602 Posts
Annika
USA
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Posted - Feb 19 2008 : 9:09:11 PM
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Sweetheart, grab some chocolate, put your feet up and thank yourself for being bold enough to stick up for your future. You DO need a man who is crazy for you and isn't going to ignore you when you talk to him. Your prince will come, don't settle for someone who has no respect for you and your needs. You both need to be committed and part of each others lives.
* HUGS *
Annika
Farmgirl sister #13
Mud Hen Queen
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BarefootGoatGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1495 Posts
Corrine
North Carolina
USA
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Posted - Feb 20 2008 : 2:08:02 PM
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I'm sorry your having a rough time, Bridget. I had wondered where you were. IM me...or send me an email.
What we write today slipped into our souls some other day when we were alone and doing nothing.
-Brenda Ueland
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