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Across the Fence:  Update from BareFootGoatGirl  |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
 Posted - Oct 19 2007 : 7:35:01 PM
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This just in from an email from Trina that she said I could share!
there have been several big changes in my life since i last visited MJ's Farm, but overall the children and i doing very well. i came to grips with the truth about my marriage to martin (it has been bad for quite awhile and the abuse started long before Iraq) and we are getting divorced. the kids and i have relocated and are currently living in town. getting rid of the animals hurt, but sometimes that's the way life goes. we are living near some wonderful extended family and are staying with one of my dearest friends from highschool. she and her husband have 37 acres that they are turning into an organic vegetable farm compleat with green houses and i am looking forward to working with them in the next few years. she wants to open a whole foods restraunt in town and have me run the green houses as well as advise on animal husbandry. her dear hubby has even offered to build a house on the property for the children and i! they are the most amazing Christian people!
for the first time in many years i feel compleatly myself. i use to love visiting MJ's farm because there i could be me for a few minutes a day, now i get to be me all day! it is amazing to see the kids turning around since they are now away from the place we were hurt so badly and are being surrounded with some amazing loving people. there is much more to the story, but i am not sure i am ready to tell it now. i'll let everybody adjust to the shock of the divorce first. just be assured that i think of you all frequently and am eternaly greatful for your love and support.
love,trina
Alee
The amazing one handed typist! One hand for typing, one hand to hold Nora!
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Edited by - Alee on Oct 19 2007 7:35:48 PM |
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Aunt Jenny
True Blue Farmgirl
11381 Posts
Jenny
middle of
Utah
USA
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Posted - Oct 19 2007 : 7:39:09 PM
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I have often wondered how Trina was doing. Sounds like she is making some very positive choices! Thanks so much for posting her email for us to read Alee..be sure to tell her I said Hello if you hear from her sometime soon.
Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22941 Posts
Alee
Worland
Wy
USA
22941 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2007 : 8:05:10 PM
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I passed on your message Aunt Jenny :D I am sure she will love to read it!
Alee
The amazing one handed typist! One hand for typing, one hand to hold Nora!
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Marybeth
True Blue Farmgirl
6418 Posts
Mary Beth
Stanwood
Wa 98292
USA
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Carol Sue
True Blue Farmgirl
4033 Posts
Carol Sue
Washingtonian
USA
4033 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2007 : 9:46:16 PM
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Alee,
She has been on my heart for the last week, thank you.
Carol Sue
listening to the quiet moments |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9439 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9439 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 02:57:22 AM
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Alee,
Thanks for sharing with us. I'm sure it is a very difficult time and what a blessing to have such loving friends.
Let her know we are thinking of her and praying all will turn out well. Sounds like she has a plan and that is always a good thing.
"The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof and all that dwell therein."
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Mumof3
True Blue Farmgirl
3890 Posts
Karin
Ellenwood
GA
USA
3890 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 05:16:51 AM
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Thank you for sharing that with us, Alee. Trina is a strong, brave girl and I know that she and the children are going to blossom with the tender care of her friends. Please let her know how happy we are to hear her good news!!
Karin
Wherever you go, there you are.
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Past Blessings
True Blue Farmgirl
1083 Posts
Brenda
Orchard Prairie
WA
USA
1083 Posts |
Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 06:25:21 AM
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Wow . . . I had no idea things were that bad for her. Don't you just wish we could all join go to her and give her hugs and let her share her heart over a cup of tea? Trina, we are all rooting for you. While I know divorce is a hard choice to make, especially with children, if there was abuse involved, it sounds like you are making a wise choice.
So since we can't be there in person, if you get a chance to read this, know you are being "cyber hugged" by farmgirls across the country.
In the end, God will bring you out stronger than ever and the story you will have will bless other women in similar situations. Just remember, "darkness only lasts for the night, then comes the morning . . ."
Alee, thanks for having the sensitivity and compassion to share this.
Hugs & blessings,
Brenda
Past Blessings . . . Celebrating Life as it used to be . . . when people loved God, loved their families and loved their country. |
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Cheryl
True Blue Farmgirl
919 Posts
Cheryl
Magalia
CA
USA
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Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 06:39:13 AM
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Alee, Thank you so much for posting her email. I also, have been thinking about her. Please tell her that she is in my prayers. I would love to have her new mailing address if she is comfortable giving it. Thanks, Cheryl
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 |
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KYgurlsrbest
True Blue Farmgirl
4853 Posts
Jonni
Elsmere
Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 07:49:49 AM
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Alee, thanks for that--I was really hoping that things were going well for her, and she was away, just concentrating on "things"...that was what I'd hoped, but it sure sounds like she's on the road now. I admire her so much for thinking of herself and the safety of those children--it broke my heart to think of her leaving her home, and giving the animals away.
"She was built like a watch, a study in balance ... with a neck and head so refined, like a drawing by DaVinci"...
NY Newsday sportswriter Bill Nack describing filly, Ruffian. |
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CountryBorn
True Blue Farmgirl
1545 Posts
Mary Jane
New York
USA
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Posted - Oct 20 2007 : 11:34:13 AM
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Alee, thanks for posting her letter and thank her for having you do it. Trina, you and your children are on the road to a new and happy life.God Bless you and your children, and these wonderful people you are living with. What a blessing for you to have such kind and caring friends. You and your children will be fine now. Being yourself with no fear or anxiety is such a wonderful feeling. I am very happy for you.
Mary Jane
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
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Shirlaroo
True Blue Farmgirl
297 Posts
Shirley
Australia
297 Posts |
Posted - Oct 21 2007 : 12:57:52 AM
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Sounds like Trina has found a sanctuary to heal in. Please pass on my well wishes Alee.
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Edited by - Shirlaroo on Oct 21 2007 12:59:56 AM |
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abbasgurl
True Blue Farmgirl
1262 Posts
Rhonda
USA
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Posted - Oct 21 2007 : 1:00:34 PM
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Thanks so much for letting us know how Trina & her family are doing Alee. I'm so happy to know they are somewhere they are SURROUNDED by love! Awesome!
Rhonda
I'm a one girl revolution. |
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mikesgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3659 Posts
Sherri
Elma
WA
USA
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Posted - Oct 21 2007 : 8:22:47 PM
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BarefootGoatGirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1495 Posts
Corrine
North Carolina
USA
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Posted - Oct 22 2007 : 12:59:54 PM
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Hey, girls, I'm here. Thankyou all for the love and prayers. We really are doing much better and well on our way to healing emotionaly and spiritualy. I am waiting on a house and job now, so please pray that the Lord provides as he sees fit. I don't know how often I'll be around the board since I am borrowing a friends computer, but I'll check in once in a while.
Love you all, Trina
http://glitteringgoat.blogspot.com/
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junkjunkie
True Blue Farmgirl
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Judy
Lawrenceville
NJ
USA
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Posted - Oct 22 2007 : 1:06:12 PM
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Good luck to you, Trina! Judy
"To have life in focus, we must have death in our field of vision." Benedictine monk John Main |
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ddmashayekhi
True Blue Farmgirl
4759 Posts
Dawn
Naperville
Illinois
USA
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Posted - Oct 22 2007 : 6:11:43 PM
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Good luck Trina! It sounds like you are coming in to your own! Change is always good, you just have to look a little harder for the bright side sometimes. Best wishes & prayers to you & your children.
Thanks for the update Alee!
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daffodil dreamer
True Blue Farmgirl
805 Posts
Jayne
Hamilton
Victoria
Australia
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Posted - Oct 24 2007 : 11:01:50 PM
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Trina,
I am so happy that everything is working out well for you. We would love to hear from you again someday. You are in my thoughts.
Best wishes,
Jayne |
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Kathie
True Blue Farmgirl
2436 Posts
Kathie
Thonotosassa
Florida
USA
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Posted - Oct 25 2007 : 05:54:10 AM
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Sending all my love & Strength Sweet Trina..
In a World Where you Can Be Anything, Be Yourself.. |
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Hideaway Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
1553 Posts
Jo
Virginia
USA
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Posted - Oct 25 2007 : 06:39:24 AM
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So glad to hear that things are turning around for you, Trina.
Happy thoughts and prayers go out to you and your kids...lots of farmgirl hugs, too!
Glad you will be able to stay in touch with us as your time and computer access permits.
Jo
"Wish I had time to work with herbs all day!" |
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