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| oldbittyhen |
Posted - May 09 2013 : 12:20:22 PM
He had the main blood vessel into his eye rupture, the docter operated for 3 plus hours, and thought he had it repaired on monday, yesterday it started leaking again,more surgery, and today it blew again, he is in horrible agony, and they had to sedate him to keep him from thrashing, his white cell count is low, as well as his platlets, hes not clotting properly, and is developing fluid around his heart and in his lungs, they may have to remove the eye, and that is very dangerous because of the clotting problem, on top of his blood pressure is sky high...
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| Joey |
Posted - Jun 07 2013 : 10:34:36 AM
Tina, I just read all of this post for the first time. I am happy that your father is no longer struggling and that his dear wife was with him in the end.
I am so sorry for you and your family over the loss of your precious father. My prayers are with you all. He was a wonderful man to be surrounded by so much love.
It has been over a year since my Dad passed and I still miss him but it does get easier.
I know your memories of him will give you some comfort now. Many prayers for comfort and peace for you and your mother and family are being sent. Big hugs to you, Joey
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| oldbittyhen |
Posted - Jun 06 2013 : 2:07:45 PM
I want to thank everyone for their kind and moving words...I know that he is at peace and that we will be together again, but it;s still so hard, I miss him so much...
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| Cindy Lou |
Posted - Jun 06 2013 : 1:03:20 PM
Dear Tina,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad, but how wonderful the support from family and that your Mom was right there with him at the end. I believe that, even though they seem so changed many people take such comfort in loved ones being there at the end. Bless you all with the peace of knowing he is free of pain and now is the Dad you knew looking down from Heaven on you with love.
Susan
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| FARMALLChick |
Posted - Jun 06 2013 : 12:55:47 PM
So sorry to hear about your dad. Like many of you have told me to do with my grandpa - remember him as he was not how he was at the end.
big hugs to you and your family!
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| Blessed in Colorado |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 5:15:38 PM
Oh Sweet Tina I am so sorry you lost your Beloved Dad, so happy all of you were with him and he went peacefully surrounded by love. I will continue to keep you and your family in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
We are always here for you.
Hugs,
Debbie
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 4:51:47 PM
Wow! What beautiful words to Tina. Farm girls have such a big heart and such comforting words. Love and hugs to you Tina.
Marly
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| treelady |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 10:03:55 AM
Tina, I am so sorry for your loss.
A little rain can straighten a flower stem. A little love can change a life.
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| laurentany |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 09:50:49 AM
Tina,
I just read your update.
I am sorry for the loss of your dear father.
How sweet that he went peacefully with your mom-his loving wife of almost 64 years right by his side.
His love is shining down on all of you from heaven right now.
Hugs to you.
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
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~Robert Louis Stevenson |
| craftingram |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 05:31:30 AM
Tina, I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious father. I'm glad your mother was at his side and that he is no longer in pain. Keeping you and your family in prayer.
Karin
Farmgirl Sister #2708
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| Ninibini |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 05:07:03 AM
God bless you and your family, Tina. May He be a tremendous help to all of you right now, and always. I will be lifting you all up in prayer. Hugs - Nini
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| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Jun 02 2013 : 9:19:30 PM
Wow! Marly I sure am glad you were protected out there. That must have been totally scarey. We don't have many snakes here but one day years ago I was coming in my back door and I looked down and their was a snake next to my door and I thinking garter snake and I by passed it and thought I should get it but it slipped down in to a hole under the sidewalk but I got a good enough look at it and it was a rattler. We think that it came off of a logging truck that came through. Anyway the next day it was sunning itself in front of the post office and someone came up and grabbed it behind it's head and took it away. We figured it was too cold out here for it so was not moving as fast as it could. We have never had another one thank goodness, and that was freaky.
darlene
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by Frances Farmer
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Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Jun 02 2013 : 8:10:08 PM
Tina, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family. I wish I could be with you during your grief. I will be there in spirit. I will say many prayers for your dad, your mom, and your family members.
Big hugs to the boys. Please give each member of your family a personal hug from me. I love them all.
I was mowing some very thick & high grass today and I could feel J poking me. There was a rattle snake hanging on the fence I was about to pass by. Please tell J thank you. A million big hug to you dear Friend.
Marly
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| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 10:27:15 PM
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Originally posted by darlenelovesart
Oh Tina,
I am so glad he was able to go peacefully with your mom there with him. 64 wonderful years together how awesome that was.
I will put you and your mom in my prayers for comfort and knowing God was there to make him at peace and now out of pain.
I would love to send you mom and you a card if it is ok.
blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus...
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 10:23:54 PM
Oh Tina,
I am so glad he was able to go peacefully with your mom there with him. 64 wonderful years together how awesome that was.
I will put you and your mom in my prayers for comfort and knowing God was there to make him at peace and now out of pain.
blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
| HealingTouch |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 7:12:30 PM
Tina, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. How sweet that your mother was able to be next to him. 64 years is an amazing accomplishment of dedication and love. Peace and God's blessings in this time of sorrow.
Be Blessed,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
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| crafter |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 5:47:36 PM
Tina keeping you and your family in my prayers and very close to my heart. Sending you hug and strength. It is very good to know in your heart that he is at peace and in no more pain- but the loss we feel is so hard. Please feel the love I am sending your way.
Lori
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| wooliespinner |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 4:26:53 PM
So sorry Tina. Glad it was peaceful for him and your mother and you too. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. And wow what a long time to be married... thats incredible and wonderful. Peace and Hugs.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
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| jan49829 |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 2:11:20 PM
My condolences to you and your family. Know that he is in peace and no more pain. Praying for you.
Janet
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| oldbittyhen |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 1:56:14 PM
my Dad passed with the utmost peace today with my Mom laying next to him, they would have been married 64 yrs next month...he is with all family that has gone before him, and is no longer in pain...
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 09:32:29 AM
My love, hugs, and sympathy to my Friend. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| wooliespinner |
Posted - May 29 2013 : 09:52:21 AM
Tina prayers for your father and your family. I am so sorry you all have to go through this. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Hugs and comfort to you all.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
| laurentany |
Posted - May 29 2013 : 05:14:50 AM
Tina,
I am praying for peace and comfort. I've been where you are with my dad too, and it is so difficult. I'm sending you hugs and comfort and support.
God Bless,
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
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~Robert Louis Stevenson |
| Cindy Lou |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:33:19 PM
Dear Tina,
These last few weeks have been so hard for your family.The change have come so suddenly and drastically. Your love for your Dad tells you he needs to be free of pain. Just as you love him, his love for you,if he could act on it now, would want you to remember him as the person you knew and loved and not keep him lingering so changed. My prayers continue for all of you. Knowing what is right does not take away the loss,but I hope it gives you peace inn some way.
Susan
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| HealingTouch |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:27:02 PM
Tina, Just saw this. I am praying for his healing , comfort and peace. The Lord heals all of us. Some on this earth and all
of us in heaven where we are perfect and whole. My father had leukemia and my mother a brain hemorrhage. I had to make the
decisions also. Be at peace. You are doing the right thing. You are all in my prayers.
Be Blessed,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
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| darlenelovesart |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:13:19 PM
Tina, I am so sorry that things are going the way they are and am praying for the pain to be eased and your dad to be comfortable and for you and your family for strength to go through everything with God by your side.
Blessings and love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
