| T O P I C R E V I E W |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 05 2012 : 9:16:39 PM
Today at the school where I work cleaning part time, I went to the 7-8 grade class and was cleaning the sink and asked how the teacher was doing and she said she had a really long day and it was a bad one, I asked her how come and she said that last night she had a miscarriage. She was about 2 months along. she had been excited about the pregnancy. I told her I would put her in my prayers and ask my friends to pray as well. while I was cleaning I was thinking about this and I just could not imagine how I would feel at the loss of this new baby coming even though it was still so small. You wouldn't be able to feel it yet but your heart and your thoughts would know it was there. I think that the loss had to be devistating mentally and physically. It would be to me anyway, I am asking for prayer for her. Her name is Jackie and prayer for her husband and two boys also. she is 36,
Thank you for being there.
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| 14 L A T E S T R E P L I E S (Newest First) |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 10 2012 : 6:40:51 PM
Thank you Ruth,
I will ask her.
hugs,
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| violetrose |
Posted - Nov 10 2012 : 5:23:15 PM
Darlene, I miscarried my first child at only 7 or 8 weeks and it was extremely hard on me. I read the book "Until I hold you in Heaven" about 25 years later and I have to say it was a healing point for me. Just to know that one day I will see that precious child in Heaven was such a blessing!
Thanks for being there for her. The Lord had you right where He wanted you and you touched her for Him! She just might need a hug from you! You can ask :) !
Praying for her and her family.
Hugs, Ruth
Farmgirl Sister # 1738
God loves each one of us as if there were only one of us!
St. Augustine |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 10 2012 : 11:18:16 AM
Thanks CJ
I will let her know when I see her next week...
You all are so special.
I ordered that book Until I hold you in Heaven I will give that to her as well and
Joey would you send me your email so that I can give that to her as well
thank you
love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| ceejay48 |
Posted - Nov 09 2012 : 5:44:23 PM
Praying Darlene,
My daughter went through that several years ago . . . no matter how small they are they ARE and it is a devastating loss!
I will pray!
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665.
2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
Mother Hen: FARMGIRLS SOUTHWEST HENHOUSE
living life - www.snippetscja.blogspot.com
from my hands - www.cjscreations-ceejay.blogspot.com
the "Purple Thistle" http://www.ceejay48.etsy.com
from my heart - www.fromacelticheart.blogspot.com
from my hubby - www.aspenforge.blogspot.com |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 08 2012 : 9:36:02 PM
Hi Debbie
Thank you for the tip. I am new at the school so I probably won't hug her but I sure will give her the book if I find it and tell her it is from you. I will look on Amazon. Most of our good book stores have gone out of business up here.
I talked to her substitute and he said she is doing ok but not ready to deal with it yet. I will see what I can do. Thank you again and prayers for you also...
hugs
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| buzzn bee |
Posted - Nov 08 2012 : 5:19:18 PM
Darlene,
37 years ago, my hubby and I miscarried our first child. Then our next child passed away at 6 months of age. A friend at my church gave
me a little small book to read. The title is "Until I Hold You in Heaven". I found so much comfort in that little read. Maybe you could
check the bookstores and see if they have it or can get it. You might
try the religious bookshops in your area if you have one. I passed
the book on to another family many years ago. How sad and heartbreaking for your friend. She needs to give herself time to grieve her loss. Hug her for me. Please let her know that she has
many many prayers going up for her and her family during their time
of sadness and sorrow.
I am glad she has you to talk to. You are a real sweetie.
Hugs to you also!
Debbie H
Buzzn Bee |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 08 2012 : 1:48:11 PM
Thanks Joey,
It was hard to say anything when she told me. You just can't ask what comes to you mind at the time because it just wasn't the time to ask it. I think she will be back next Tues. I will mention it to her about you.
You take care too Joey.
prayers for you also
love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| Joey |
Posted - Nov 08 2012 : 08:19:03 AM
Darlene, I am so sorry for Jackie and her family. I had multiple miscarriages and each one hurt SO much. People often just don't know how to talk about it. I know there are support groups. If you or Jackie want to e-mail me I can provide support. Sending prayers and warm hugs to you all. Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. |
| darlenelovesart |
Posted - Nov 06 2012 : 2:29:06 PM
Thank you I know the prayer will help.
hugs
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer |
| jenne.f |
Posted - Nov 06 2012 : 10:32:59 AM
I will pray for Jackie and her family. A hard loss for them all, but especially Jackie.
Jenne
"Follow your bliss"
Farmgirl sister #4616 |
| crafter |
Posted - Nov 06 2012 : 09:59:05 AM
I am praying for Jackie and her family..such a hard loss!!
Lori
Gernerosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need! |
| marlee |
Posted - Nov 06 2012 : 09:47:59 AM
Prayers on the way.
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
Silly Boys Trucks Are For Girls |
| ClaireSky |
Posted - Nov 06 2012 : 03:55:49 AM
Prayers being sent.
Julie
Farmgirl #399
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful. |
| Bear5 |
Posted - Nov 05 2012 : 9:29:47 PM
Darlene, you have a big heart. I'm glad you chatted with the teacher. I will certainly pray for her and the baby she lost. Thanks for sharing her story with us.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
