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| myfairlady636 |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 4:20:16 PM
I am sad today. My daughter Katheran has miscarried at 8 weeks into her first pregnancy. Maybe it was too soon for me to put my hope into the future for having a new life to bring joy to our family. I admit at first I was deeply discouraged by the news that she was going to have a baby because of her age and the place she is in her life, but I had grown somewhat accustomed to the idea and was actually starting to think ... ok, well this can be something postitive. A new baby always brings joy and hope. For me it was like a light of hope for helping me deal with the loss of my mom. I was actually getting cozy with the idea... the sweetness of a newborn, a possible connection with my daughter and a hope that she would find it easy to come to me with questions about her changing body and about the growth and development of her baby. I was looking forward to witnessing the miracle of pregnancy. Today.. that too is gone and I feel empty.
My Fair Lady Farm Girl Sister # 92
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| mima |
Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:11:21 AM
Oh I'm so deeply sorry!! sending your LOTS of cyper Hugs! (and REAL prayers!!!!)
"No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars,or sailed to an uncharted land or opened a new heaven to the human spirit." Helen Keller |
| Lainey |
Posted - Apr 09 2008 : 11:05:38 AM
Janice, I just saw this. I'm so very sorry. You will be in my prayers. I know it has to be hard with everything that's gone on the past few months. I'm sending you warm thoughts and hugs.
Farmgirl Sister #25
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| Utahfarmgirl |
Posted - Mar 17 2008 : 11:19:58 AM
Janice, the phrase "everything happens for a reason" is getting trite these days but it's still true. Don't try to second-guess it. Just know that when the time is right, that little bundle of love will visit you all again. Asking God's blessings to flow abundantly on you all.
Patricia
Proud Farmgirl Sister #19
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| Mumof3 |
Posted - Mar 17 2008 : 06:42:39 AM
Janice- I am so sorry. That type of loss is a pain that runs deep in the soul. But maybe this is a gift in a way, for you to be able to become closer to your daughter and to cradle and comfort her in her time of loss, and to help you overcome your own. You are both in my prayers.
Karin
Farmgirl Sister
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| Nance in France |
Posted - Mar 17 2008 : 03:51:19 AM
Janice, Jen said something so simple but so powerful. The future and all that it holds, is in the hands of our Creator. He does not try us beyond what we are able to bear, and He has given you incredible strenghth and the ability to hope for the days ahead. You and your family are in my prayers for the sadness you are having to endure right now. I wish for you the blessing of peace. Hugs, Nance |
| farminmama |
Posted - Mar 15 2008 : 09:01:22 AM
Janice, I will remember you all in my prayers. Don't give up o the fact that this too can bring you closer together. We may not know what the future holds, but we know who holds the future. With love for your family,
Jen
sweetheart to Harley
mama to 3 beautiful angels...^i^ ^i^ ^i^
farmgirl Sister #151 |
| sleepless reader |
Posted - Mar 15 2008 : 07:01:31 AM
So sorry to hear of the loss for the entire family. I will be praying for you all.
Sharon
Farmgirl Sister #74
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| Aunt Jenny |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 10:19:19 PM
I am sorry to hear about your and your daughter's loss too. I misscarried my first pregnancy too. It was hard. I will sure keep you both in my prayers.
Jenny in Utah
Proud Farmgirl sister #24
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
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| lilyblossom |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 8:32:45 PM
Janice,
Sending you big hugs and prayers.
Donna...true blue KY farm girl, farmgirl #86 |
| Tina Michelle |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 7:25:43 PM
so very sorry for the loss to both your daughter and yourself. sending a big hug to you both.
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| Alee |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 6:54:18 PM
I am so sorry for the loss that you and your daughter are suffering through. A miscarriage is so hard, especially when you find out early and start to get bonded. I have had two miscarriages within that same general time frame. I really empathize with the feeling of loss and helplessness that this situation can create. If you need a sympathetic ear, please feel free to email me, or even call.
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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| Firemama |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 5:50:55 PM
I am so sorry for both of you.
Mama to 2
FarmGirl# 20
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| CountryBorn |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 5:40:43 PM
Janice, I am so sorry for you and your daughter's loss. I'm thinking and praying for you both.
MJ
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do. Freya Stark |
| EnchantedWoodsGirl |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 5:28:15 PM
Janice, I am very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and those you love. May tomorrow bring you renewed hope and faith...
Hugs,
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
Kathy of the Enchanted Wood
Farmgirl Sister #59
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| joyfulmama |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 4:48:45 PM
Janice, I am soooo sorry. as a mom who has had a couple of miscarriages I understand the loss.. wish I was there to give you both a hug and a cuppa tea..
Blessings, Debra
Psalms 23:1 "The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want."
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| therusticcottage |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 4:45:06 PM
Janice, I am so sorry to hear this news. Hugs to you and your daughter!! I will be praying for all of you.
Hugs,
Kay
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| Carolinagirl |
Posted - Mar 14 2008 : 4:31:31 PM
My heart and thoughts go out to you, your daughter and her significant other. I was always afraid, even though there was no reason, that the same would happen to me. Creating such a fragile being is scary work. My best to you all.
Kim in NC |
