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| melody |
Posted - Feb 19 2024 : 12:24:21 PM
UPDATE: Cancer Stage III - We were informed this morning after the fourth biopsy results were reviewed. We will head to the oncologist locally, tomorrow morning to develop a chemo regimen to begin immediately. I am stunned. Since February we have been trying to get a diagnosis once in Green Bay with an 11 day stay in hospital with severe pancreatitis, twice out at Mayo and then to Milwaukee at Froedtert-who ultimately was able to get a biopsy that actually contained cancer cells. So now the journey really begins. I am so scared. Please continue your prayers sweet farmgirls-we will need every voice. I will keep you updated. Thank you so much, Love Mel
we are going thru a difficult time these last few weeks with scans and a multitude of tests and tomorrow another scan to determine what a 2.5 cm mass is doing inside my husbands pancreas. He is asymptomatic other than some gi issues and has lost 40 pounds in six months. All other gi scans came back clear until they found this on a CT scan last week.
I am scared to death--having a terrible time trying to gain control of my crying so that I can be a supportive wife. I consider myself a strong no nonsense kind of woman, but I am floundering.
Anyone out there experiencing a similar situation? Any advice would be grateful.
Mel |
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| Red Tractor Girl |
Posted - Jul 05 2024 : 4:50:18 PM
Melody, thank-you for your update on Hubby's situation. Sending you both lots of prayers, hugs, and hope!!
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015
FGOTM- October 2018 |
| ceejay48 |
Posted - Jul 05 2024 : 1:59:39 PM
Been thinking of and praying for you guys, Melody. Glad to hear your update and will continue prayers!
HUGS!
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665.
2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
living life - www.snippetscja.blogspot.com
from my heart - www.fromacelticheart.blogspot.com
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| levisgrammy |
Posted - Jul 04 2024 : 05:08:16 AM
Praying for you both Melody and for his doctors as they need wisdom in caring for him.
~Denise
Sister #43~
"I am a bookaholic and I have no desire to be cured." 
"Home is where we find comfort, security, memories, friendship, hospitality, and above all, family. It is the place that deserves our commitment and loyalty." William J. Bennett
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
http://www.ladybugsandlilacs.blogspot.com/
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| ddmashayekhi |
Posted - Jul 03 2024 : 2:36:31 PM
Sending you both hugs and prayers.
Dawn in IL
“If you’re not barefoot, then you’re overdressed.” Unknown
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| Wanda Sue |
Posted - Jul 03 2024 : 2:20:56 PM
Hugs and prayers for you both Melody!!
A day hemmed in prayer is less likely to unravel.
Farm Girl #3677
Farmgirl of the Month: Aug/2022
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| MBurns |
Posted - Jul 03 2024 : 1:30:47 PM
Prayers
Farmgirl friends are fun. Farmgirl of the month 8/2016 and 9/2019
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| melody |
Posted - Jul 02 2024 : 8:10:59 PM
UPDATE: Almost made it to our 4th chemo treatment this week but unfortunately husband is experiencing cancer pain and has been admitted to hospital to control the pain and begin pain management. He was doing so well! I am home now only ten minutes away and will return tomorrow morning with his necessities. He's not discouraged, but in pain and hopefully we will be able to manage that quickly and resume the chemo. Just thought I'd update you guys and let you know I haven't fallen off the face of the earth - YET.
Please continue with the good and positive thoughts and PRAYERS...it really, really does help us on this journey.
love,
Mel |
| Red Tractor Girl |
Posted - May 22 2024 : 08:14:39 AM
Mel, thank-you for your update and I continue to keep you and hubby in my thoughts and prayers. It is also wonderful to hear that the place you are at is cheerful and supportive which will make the many weeks easier on everyone. Hubby looks wonderful with that smile and I am happy you are feeling calmer about all that is happening. Take care and when you get a chance, I look forward to your updates. Big Hugs to you and your loved ones from Florida!
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015
FGOTM- October 2018 |
| Jokamartell |
Posted - May 20 2024 : 6:12:46 PM
Thank you for the update, Mel! You both continue to be in my prayers. I’m so glad that some of your fears have been put to rest. Grab onto that and let it feed you the energy that you need. You are in great hands with the nurses and the drs as well as our greatest healer, our Lord. Hugs to you! :)
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
| melody |
Posted - May 20 2024 : 3:19:33 PM
Debbie: He's SO thin--lost 70 plus pounds. He used to big hunk of a guy....his color is good and he is very positive which is what we need. Scary first day we did not know what to expect-the nurses are wonderful-they were on top of things all day long---thank you for the continued prayers.
love,
Mel |
| Blessed in Colorado |
Posted - May 20 2024 : 2:48:28 PM
Oh Mel thank you so much for the photo of your hubby. He looks like he has a positive attitude and ready to kick Cancers butt. Continued prayers.
Big Hugs,
Debbie
#1582
Blessed in Oregon
With Colorado on My Mind
Farmgirl of the Month September 2012, February 2018, September 2022
“My altars are My Mountains
and the Ocean.” Lord Byron”
When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple, I am Old now!!
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| melody |
Posted - May 20 2024 : 1:51:48 PM
what a super long day-at the clinic for blood tests and dr. consult at 7:30 started his first chemo session-one of 8 sessions every other week and we were the last to leave at 2:45. Everything went VERY well. So many added meds for nausea and diarrhea etc to buffer any side effects from the chemo which is very strong. He left with a fanny pack for a slow drip of the last chemo med thru his port and will have 48 hours of that only to return to the hospital on Wednesday when it's empty-We are relieved that he did well-but we are holding our collective breaths as the day isn't over yet, but so far so good. Thank you ladies for all the support and prayers-we are so grateful. Love, Mel |
| windypines |
Posted - May 18 2024 : 04:32:37 AM
Prayers to all. And some hugs too.
Farming in WI
Michele
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| melody |
Posted - May 17 2024 : 8:45:33 PM
Port was placed on Tuesday without difficulty-Chemo begins early Monday morning with blood tests first and consult with the oncology Dr. then his first treatment lasting five hours-six including the morning blood test/consult time. Amazingly, I feel pretty calm.
My daughter will move back into the old home place this Sunday afternoon and spend one week at a time specifically the week he has chemo and head back to her apartment for two weeks-this will go on for 16 weeks-after two months he will have a cT scan to see if the chemo is shrinking the tumor so surgery can hopefully be done to remove it.
The Cancer Center is beautiful and currently they are landscaping the grounds directly facing the huge glass windows in the chemo area-Waterfall, walking garden...it will be quite lovely for all of the patients sitting in the area with a green and flowering view. We had a walk thru last week and it put many fears to rest-I was imagining florescent lights somewhere in the basement kinda atmosphere, but this will be comfortable and bright with a lovey view.
Please continue with prayers and support as we open a new chapter in our pancreatic cancer journey.
Love you guys, Mel |
| MBurns |
Posted - May 16 2024 : 05:18:37 AM
Prayers for treatment
Farmgirl friends are fun. Farmgirl of the month 8/2016 and 9/2019
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| Jokamartell |
Posted - May 10 2024 : 7:07:36 PM
Prayers for you and hubby.
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
| MaryJanesNiece |
Posted - May 10 2024 : 1:05:33 PM
Melody, I am happy to hear you are finally making some progress. Wrapping you in the biggest Farmgirl hug.
Krista |
| StitchinWitch |
Posted - May 09 2024 : 4:35:41 PM
Finally a diagnosis so progress can occur. My thoughts are with you still.
Judith
7932 FGOTM 6/21
I'm old and I do wear purple |
| Blessed in Colorado |
Posted - May 09 2024 : 3:49:10 PM
Continuing to pray Mel for you and your husband. I am happy that you have a diagnosis at last and he can start his Chemo. Hang in there Mel and take each day as it comes with love and joy, you have proven to yourself that you are a Strong Woman who does not give up.
Big Hugs,
Debbie
#1582
Blessed in Oregon
With Colorado on My Mind
Farmgirl of the Month September 2012, February 2018, September 2022
“My altars are My Mountains
and the Ocean.” Lord Byron”
When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple, I am Old now!!
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| melody |
Posted - May 09 2024 : 3:25:26 PM
UPDATE: Cancer Stage III - We were informed this morning after the fourth biopsy results were reviewed. We will head to the oncologist locally, tomorrow morning to develop a chemo regimen to begin immediately. I am stunned. Since February we have been trying to get a diagnosis once in Green Bay with an 11 day stay in hospital with severe pancreatitis, twice out at Mayo and then to Milwaukee at Froedtert-who ultimately was able to get a biopsy that actually contained cancer cells. So now the journey really begins. I am so scared. Please continue your prayers sweet farmgirls-we will need every voice. I will keep you updated. Thank you so much, Love Mel |
| Wanda Sue |
Posted - May 07 2024 : 9:10:33 PM
Loving thoughts and prayers going up for you both Melody.
A day hemmed in prayer is less likely to unravel.
Farm Girl #3677
Farmgirl of the Month: Aug/2022
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| Jokamartell |
Posted - May 07 2024 : 8:08:00 PM
You and your hubby continue to be in my prayers, Melody. Hugs to you both.
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
| ceejay48 |
Posted - May 07 2024 : 08:40:51 AM
Melody,
I sent you an email response yesterday, but reading your post from yesterday gives me an update too. I'm sorry the experience at Mayo was so disappointing, especially when you hear so much about the Mayo Clinic.
I will be praying for you and Bruce in the new situation . . . for answers, for healing, for hope!
Love, Hugs and Prayers!
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665.
2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
living life - www.snippetscja.blogspot.com
from my heart - www.fromacelticheart.blogspot.com
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| Wanda Sue |
Posted - May 07 2024 : 02:57:38 AM
Loving thoughts and prayers going up for you both Melody.
A day hemmed in prayer is less likely to unravel.
Farm Girl #3677
Farmgirl of the Month: Aug/2022
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| melody |
Posted - May 06 2024 : 6:53:01 PM
i'm writing this at an airbnb in milwaukee-another biopsy ERCP is scheduled for tomorrow before noon at froedtert cancer clinic-no more Mayo for us-they just didn't know what was up and time is of the essence so we contacted our 1st gi specialist who knows a very renowned pancreas man at froedert and got us in within days of contacting his old new england friend-for that we are eternally grateful-this will be his 4th biopsy-if this is found 'inconclusive' then the dr. will open him up for a birds eye view of his pancreas. we are collectively holding our breath-but i have a feeling they will not find anything and will have to schedule an open laparotomy which frankly, scares me more than any of his previous ERCP's. think positive thoughts ladies and continue with prayers-we surely do appreciate it. i will keep you updated. love, Mel |
