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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Dec 02 2012 : 7:47:03 PM
First an introduction is in order. My name is Tina, and who am I? Well im just a girl from a small town who just happens to likes different things. One of those things happens to be a love of animation. Yes that means cartoons  . Anime to be precise. So i take this trip to a Otakon (a cartoon convention)in Baltimore Maryland every couple of years. Its one of our guilty pleasures.People come from all over to dress up and celebrate our love of animation. It was the first day of our con.(july of this year) when i bumped into him on the sidewalk.His name was Bryan. He was new to this con. He had never been to Otakon before. so my friends and his all walked down the street until we reached the doors. we wished each other luck and fun, then we parted ways. Every night they hold a dance for all the con goers. oh how i love to dance. my friends and I are dancing for about 20 minutes when we bump into Bryan again. He couldn't find his friends, and so asked if we minded if he joined our group. No of course not, were nice welcoming people. We shared a couple of smiles and coy glances. This boy could dance. i think that was one of the things that drew me to him. night goes on and we get tired, we say goodnight. the following day we had fun and had lots of adventures. We didnt see him, no big we werent looking. We go to the dance again.One of my friend starts to get sick,I offer to walk her back. This was my 3rd year going to the convention and this her first. so even though she was taller and probably alot stronger than me i escorted her back to the hotel. im small and its the middle of the city, not the safest place to walk alone. I was just outside our hotel when i saw him standing on the corner talking to his friends. I yelled his name but he did not hear me. I remembered he told us that he was a Marine. So of course i deepened my pitch and used my best lunch lady voice and let out a big old call "MARINE". I got his attention he smiled and i ran on over. He introduced me to his friends and asked me to a party. Keep in mind i just met this boy, i didnt know him or how trust worthy he was.I have never ever in my life just gone with a person that i didnt know. It was foolish and daring. The summer night was warm and i was feeling good from dancing. I mulled it over in my brain, im a practical girl who doesnt take risks like that. But i took a risk, and it was well worth it. Not only was he a gentleman, he was funny. i kept in tabs via cell phone with my bestfriend letting her know exactly where i was. i wasnt exactly 100% foolish. We were there for a short time before we decided to do back to the dance. we danced all night. My best friend Jillian,Bryan, and I. We danced till 3:am. annd we were still pumped with energy. This was our vacation we were bound to let loose. so we three went to the pier. Where Bryan and I got to talk privatly. Really talking. We strolled among fountains and watched a small duck. The early morning wove us a romantic air.Time passed quickly for us. We talked till 5:00 am. All night! i couldnt believe it. he had to fly home in an hour so unfortunatly we knew we had to part. We walked together hand in hand all the way back to the hotel. Like a real gentleman he walked me to my door and left me with a chaste kiss on the forehead. that was it I was compleatly head over heels.We exchanged numbers. We talked close to everyday for months.It felt doomed. He lived in New Hampshire and I in Pennsylvannia. But each time we talked it was special. Soon we visited. Now im making a brave leap of faith. Im leaving everything. My dogs, livestock, just for that boy with the charming smile and wonderful dance moves. Wish me luck.
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Mar 24 2013 : 6:52:34 PM
so the boys and I have found a new place. Bryan and I will be staying in his parents basement. They have done such a wonderful job at making me feel welcome. Thank you guys. I'm still trying to find a job, No luck yet.Bryan has made me happy he intends to take me out at least once a week for a date, should be fun.
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Feb 09 2013 : 2:06:37 PM
okay so update: "I am not considered a tenet even though I have contributed rent. So we have to find a new place."
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Feb 06 2013 : 11:19:28 AM
Well she didn't make a lease for the boys. I thought perhaps she raised it because of utilities which would make sense. Except they pay their own utilities.She hasn't met me yet, and told the boys that she didn't want too. I have never had anybody that didn't meet me not like me before. I could understand it if she met me first. Some people just don't like other people. In which case i would have moved on but. The point being is she has never met me besides a hasty introduction. I believe I'd rather not be judged before I have even gotten to run the race. So to speak. Any-who I believe we will be just taking on this problem, all tight lipped, and short changed. Guess what else ladies. Job hunting is going okay too. i applied at a whole slew of stores hopefully someone will call me back.
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| Sandy Fields |
Posted - Feb 04 2013 : 3:15:40 PM
I also wondered about her raising the rent. Our state has a law that you can only raise the rent 10% per year, unless there are other circumstances... like moving pets in, etc.
I sure hope everything is calm by now!
Love writing about "My Field Days"
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| jenne.f |
Posted - Feb 04 2013 : 1:56:07 PM
Tina,
Can she legally do that? Did you have a signed
or even verbal agreement? Hang in there. Talk
with your beau. He may be able to smooth things
over for you.
~blessings~
Jenne
Farmgirl #4616
Let all that you do, be done in love. I Corinthians 16:14 |
| Sandy Fields |
Posted - Feb 03 2013 : 11:39:20 AM
It can be so terribly difficult to leave all the comforts of home... the sights, the sounds, the scents. It's amazing how stressful it can be to face all kinds of new decisions on a constant basis.
I've been there. I wouldn't change one thing about the adventurous paths I've taken. They've led me into one great moment after another through the chapters of my life.
Hugs to you. It will all work out!
Love writing about "My Field Days"
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Feb 03 2013 : 09:43:38 AM
the land lady just raised the rent $ 200-220 extra a month, now i dont think i can afford to live here. That upsets me because now i may not have a choice.
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Feb 01 2013 : 1:39:50 PM
thanks for all your support ladies. I think i will be making a journal of good things.
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| Bear5 |
Posted - Jan 29 2013 : 4:50:00 PM
Tina, I so enjoy reading your journey. Wow! Makes me smile! You should be a writer!!!!
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
| Joey |
Posted - Jan 29 2013 : 12:19:37 PM
Hi Tina,
I know how homesick you are. It's not easy in a new place and you just moved in. I know you are not where you want to be but you are with the man you've decided to share this adventure with and maybe it will be enough of a tradeoff. Give yourself some time. Maybe write down something that went well there every day as you explore your new life. Know that we are thinking about you and are here to support you. Keep us posted. Hugs, Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Jan 28 2013 : 3:18:28 PM
So now its been a few days in my new apt. in N.h.. I miss the farm most terribly, and everyone in it. I knew this when i decided to take the chance. That doesn't make it any easier. Bryan is accommodating and warm. I know I'm home sick. I'm hoping i find a job soon so that I can take my mind off of moping. My imagination races across the snow covered yard back home, and into the barn that i had built. It races across the open spaces where i know the creek still flows, and my mountains still stand. To the smell of hay, and horse, To the friendly noises of chickens and the loud laughter of the blue jays. I miss home.
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| texdane |
Posted - Jan 24 2013 : 04:54:41 AM
Good luck, Tina!
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger
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| jenne.f |
Posted - Jan 23 2013 : 05:17:14 AM
Wow! Best of luck. (not that you really need any)
~blessings~
Jenne
Farmgirl #4616
Let all that you do, be done in love. I Corinthians 16:14 |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Jan 22 2013 : 8:05:20 PM
Moving day is upon us. Thursday is creeping up fast.
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| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Jan 03 2013 : 4:40:06 PM
Thank you for the advice Nicole, and Joey. I'll keep that all in mind. Bryan likes to talk about guns, he works at a gun range in the mean time. He gets so excited when he talks of guns and being a marine, and his face gets all animated. I have a limited knowledge of firearms, but i can tell hes passionate about what he does. I can sit there for hours while hes talking about it and just listen. His excitement is contagious. Even though i haven't grasped about one third of what hes saying, i cant help but smile. I've only seen him agitated once ( a car pulled out in front of us all the sudden) and he was pretty amazing. I'll tell you the truth I expected cussing and loud angry noises. because in my experiences that's what happened in the past. But he just took a deep breath and I kind of held my breath waiting for an explosion, and all that happened was like a minute of silence. after that minute was over he looked over at me and smiled and said " im better now". I was so shocked and a bit uneasy. He had such a mild temper I was amazed. No temper tantrums thank heavens!
Well Kathy that's all that has happened as of yet. My last day of work is the 21st of this January. and then i move on the 28- 29th. so I most certainly hope that I haven't hit the best part. I feel like there will be more. lets cross are fingers.
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| Joey |
Posted - Jan 03 2013 : 10:27:46 AM
Thanks Nicole, we certainly enjoyed meeting youand Kim and Audrey too. What a fun day that was!
I agree with Nicole..be good friends. There certainly have been a few days when Rod was certainly not my favorite person. On those days I remember that we are good friends and I treat hom like a friend instead of the husband who has made me mad. We work it out.
We also have very different interests. We have a few we share and many we don't but we are supportive of and interested in each others activities. It gives us something new to talk about at the dinner table. I will never golf or fish but he really enjoys it. It makes him happy and that makes me happy. I always love to hear about "the big one that got away."
Please keep us posted on how this all goes for you. We're rooting for you and your handsome Marine. Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. |
| IdahoShamrock |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 8:08:44 PM
That is suuuuucch an awesome tail, Black Rabbit! (Pardon the pun, I couldn't resist!) Is this a serial, or has the best part not happened yet? I am looking forward to reading the rest...
Oohrah!
Farmgirl #2125
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| texdane |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 6:42:54 PM
Tina, Thank you! Umm...secrets for a good and happy life? Well, I would say, be best friends, most importantly. :) Mutual respect is important, too.
Hugs,
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger
http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/ |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 1:41:46 PM
ohhhhh MY! i love it! i cant believe you had a police escort to boot. I love the pictures as well, you just look so pretty. I do have to say that i think my favorite picture is the last one. You both look so happy together and so comfortable in each others presence. Do you guys have an secrets for a good and happy life? would love to know. This world is crazy and i would accept any pointers.
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| texdane |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 1:20:10 PM
Hi Tina,
I haven't logged on as often as usual the last two weeks, and your post is the first one I see. Boy...I was hooked on your story from the beginning. I love that there are still sweet gentlemen like Bryan. Sounds like a nice boy. I love the picture of you two...your dress is beautiful and you look so sweet and vintage...stunning!! And of course, Bryan is so handsome in his uniform.
I, like Joey, have a romantic tale, too. I met my husband Kim when I was very young, and ended taking a leap of faith, moving across country from Texas to Pennsylvania, (he moved here from Denmark for me) and finally settling here in Connecticut. Well, guess what...in September we celebrated our twentieth wedding anniversary! Now, I don't want to push ya too far ahead, but I'm just sayin' that often when we KNOW we KNOW, and I knew my dh was the one for me. I wrote a blog about how we met, back in September on our twentieth anniversary, if you are interested in reading it, here it is:
http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/default.asp?Display=88
Oh, and I am blessed to call farmsister Joey one of my friends, and I got to meet Joey and Rod last Fall in person...let me just say they are the cutest, sweetest couple!!
So, keep us posted. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world.
Big hugs!
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
Suburban Farmgirl Blogger
http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/ |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Jan 02 2013 : 11:26:25 AM
Oh I love this, I have to look for this episode. I am a sucker for a romance story. I may not show it but after you read so many books you kinda find your men lacking. I believe the romance novels have ruined our ideals; but then I think, why cant we have it all, why not shoot for the stars and the moon. Why do we even belittle ourselves by settling. We are goddesses and we deserve someone who will makes us feel like one. Now don't get me wrong they don't have to bow and throw flowery phrases at us, just make us feel important and special. Joey im so happy you found someone that can make you feel like that. You must have had him popping into your head every once in awhile. Kinda like one of those" blink spiders" (my own coined phrase. spider on the wall, blink, look again spider is no longer there. then you just mull it over. where, where, where. that's a blink spider.)It must have been maddening. Now im gonna see if i can find the video. You should post the link if you could find it.
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| Joey |
Posted - Jan 01 2013 : 11:46:02 AM
OK. Some of the farmgirls know this but for those that don't...
I met Rod and John in 1974 when they were both in the Navy but not on the same ship. I volunteered with the USO show troop and we all met at the USO in Philadelphia. John and Rod did not like each other. Rod had gotten married 1 month before he met me. Had he been single I would probably have married him then but since he was already married, we just became good friends. I married John and we moved to Virginia. Rod got out of the Navy and went home to New York and his wife. We did not keep in touch.
My marriage to John was a terrible thing (except that I did get my amazing daughter) and I divorced him years later, swearing that I would never get married again. I loved my job, put myself thru college, raised my daughter and loved my life. I dated some but never enough to EVER consider marriage.
When my DD was a Junior in High School, I got a phone call out of the blue from Rod. He was living in Florida, had been divorced from his 2nd wife for almost a year and said he couldn't stop thinking about me. The next thing I knew, the producer from the Montel Williams TV talk show was on the phone wanting me to come to New York City to be on the show when they "reunite lost loves." So the next day my DD, my Mom and my SIL go to NYC and Rod and I are reunited after almost 20 years of not seeing each other! It was amazing and he looked totally different than I remembered him but he was so cute.
The show aired in May 1994. We got engaged 7/1/1994. He moved from Florida to my house in Philly and we got married 9/24/1994 in Florida because his mother was too sick to travel. 7/1/1995 we had another whole completely different wedding at our church in Phila, so we celebrate both anniversaries. Rod says it makes up for all the years we got gipped out of.
I am still the love of his life. It is still a great marriage. We are still happy. He's a great guy. We are still great friends.We are very, very different people but we go together well.I felt Gods hand all over this from the beginning and couldn't be happier.
So that's why I say believe in the magic. SOmetimes it just happens and you know..you just know. Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Dec 31 2012 : 2:42:42 PM
oh joey, perhaps you can share some of your tale. in fact why not? im sure all of you have tales of love. we should give each other hope. if so just put it in here, its nice to read other peoples experiences.
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| Joey |
Posted - Dec 30 2012 : 9:17:46 PM
Oh Tina, what a wonderful,fabulous story. I can feel your passion and it puts a smile on my face. I am wishing you get love and great joy. Believe the magic. I think you just know when it is right.
My DH and I have a romance story courtship. He waited almost 20 years for me and says he knew day 1 that I was the one for him. It also played out as a fairy tale, and we've been married now for 18 years and it is still the best.
I am soooooo happy for you and your Marine. Happy move. Happy 2013. Keep us posted. Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. |
| BlackRabbit |
Posted - Dec 29 2012 : 3:52:27 PM
yes he is quite dapper isn't he. if only you guys could see the ridiculous grin i wear when i see him. im so besotted. and thank you for the compliment on my phrases. typing and writing are about the only times i feel eloquent. In reality my speech more or less stumbles along. I am excitable and i talk fast. so im quite pleased with how my story is written. ill keep up with the delightful phrases.
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