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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 06:51:09 AM
Hey all--I wanted to get some opinions on whether you (or the men in your life) would appreciate this...

My husband is a working musician, and last Spring bought a vintage Gibson Gospel guitar (1972). It was a consignment item, one owner, with all the original paperwork (including the sales slip!!!), and about two months of having it, the frets separated from the sound hole...so he couldn't play it anymore. He's been heartbroken ever since, and thinks it's a goner. He last remarked that it would cost at least as much as he paid for it originally to get it fixed....Money has been terribly tight, and we just haven't had it to spare. Heat and electric come before a guitar. He doesn't say much to me about it, but I know from his bandmates that it really makes him sad.

So, I got it in my head that as a Christmas gift, I would get it repaired. I asked music folks around the area for referrals, and found this AMAZING luthier in Rising Sun, Indiana who fixes instruments for Ricky Skaggs and Vince Gill etc...so I swiped the guitar from the practice space and took it to get an estimate. It's fixable and fairly reasonable, too.

I was going to get him a few other smaller "tangible" things, but this would be his major gift. What do you think? Is that stupid? I mean, it's not NEW or anything like that, but it would be a great surprise. That is, if he doesn't notice it's missing from the practice space!!!!!




Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
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Nance in France Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 09:40:13 AM
Looks deep to me (ha), just like your love for each other! Bask in the glory of a deed well done and appreciated!!! Nance
KYgurlsrbest Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 08:30:40 AM
Ok...here we go. Hopefully this will work!!!







The first is the label inset in the guitar, the second is the guitar, and the third is the headstock..I think that's my favorite.

Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
bramble Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 07:34:57 AM
Hopefully you get seranaded today as well!

with a happy heart
KYgurlsrbest Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 07:31:59 AM
You gals are sweet...I really love to give gifts--so much more than I like getting them. I think I get that by my mom.

The guitar went over sooo well, and I guess it does sound "deep"--it's really beautiful, and our trip to Rising Sun, Indiana to pick it up is one of my favorite memories already, in our 6 years together.

I have lovely pictures of it, but we got a new computer and printer and I'm trying to figure it all out! I am stuck inside, today, so maybe all the time will be spent working it out!

Look for them here, that is, if I can figure it all out!



Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
Miss Bee Haven Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 07:23:11 AM
I missed this, too. Did you post a picture? Jonni, you are one of the most thoughtful gift givers ever. The signed Tasha Tudor book for your godson, and fixing this wonderful, vintage(gee, it's hard for me to call stuff from my youth 'vintage') guitar. You rock! You really do!!!

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Aunt George Posted - Feb 14 2007 : 04:30:47 AM
Don't know how I missed this thread earlier.....Wow, wonderful story. I agree that this was the most thoughtful, loving gift and afterall, isn't that what it is all about?

AND.....how did it all turn out. Is it deep?

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bramble Posted - Jan 10 2007 : 06:11:56 AM
What fun to get to watch him write at home with this guitar. You will be twice blessed with knowing how much the gift meant to him and the pleasure of listening to them both! I'm glad this turned out so well! YAHOO! (and I don't mean the internet!)

with a happy heart
Beemoosie Posted - Jan 10 2007 : 06:11:11 AM
Oh how exciting Jonni! I am so glad it worked out! Yes yes yes, show us pictures!


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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Jan 10 2007 : 06:05:22 AM
*update*
I just wanted to tell you girls that we are heading to Indiana on Saturday morning to pick up the guitar. It's fixed and the luthier said, "sounding deep", which I think is hippy speak for "great"!

I just wanted to thank you all for your kind words and encouragement in this. I'm really very glad that I brought my question to such thoughtful people, and that you were so kind to help.

I'll take a photo of it maybe, if you're interested, and post it when we get it back. I think it's going to be the "home" writing guitar, from now on, so he can keep an eye on it!

Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
horse Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 1:52:03 PM
I know that fixing the guitar was the perfect gift for him. My husband fixed up my Grandfathers old rocker for me for my b-day. Everytime I sit in it I can see my Daddy Jack. That was the BEST gift I had ever recieved.
So.....how did it go?
Laura
abbasgurl Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 1:04:05 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhh Jonni! I have been wondering how this all turned out. It's like a Christmas love story. Perfect. You have all our little romantic girl hearts a flutter!
Rhonda

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Beemoosie Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 08:46:44 AM
Awwww...it turned out just how I imagined!!! I am so glad!
Thanks for sharing!

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jpbluesky Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 08:38:30 AM
This has been the best thread to read! I feel like a story should be written for your family to read through the years about how you found, and fixed the wonderful guitar. Write it down! Keep it in your heart and your family. A lovely lovely gift you gave!

Ephesians 1:17
KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 08:32:46 AM
Oh!!! I only had the call ticket because the luthier was really busy making guitars for Ricky Skagg's bluegrass band (!!!!), so it won't be ready until after the 2nd. But, I put the tag in a beautiful little box that hung on the tree and kindof forgot about it! When we were opening gifts, I kept thinking, "seems like there's something else...." Duh!!!! When I gave it to him, he was just gobsmacked. He can't wait to go and pick it up from the shop with me. He wanted to hear EVERY detail from the very beginning--how did I know about this luthier (Jamon Zeiler--great name or what???)? What does his shop look like? And ultimately, how did I swipe the guitar without him noticing?
You girls were SO right--he said it was the best and most thoughtful gift anyone has given him besides me saying "yes"....Awww.

Thanks for asking, Bonnie!

Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
Beemoosie Posted - Dec 29 2006 : 08:11:20 AM
So Jonni,
Please tell us, how did it turn out!
Xo
Bonnie

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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 05 2006 : 12:41:02 PM
Oh, Bramble! What a lovely story. I hope he gets as much joy from his fixed guitar as I have gotten from the encouragement and reminders about what "gifts" truly are. Loving thoughts and selfless acts from the heart.

Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
bramble Posted - Dec 05 2006 : 12:07:56 PM
Jonni- I hope he doesn't notice! I think it is a wonderful and thoughtful gift that will tell him you were thinking about him. You did good! I think he will be so surprised and touched that you did this!
One Christmas without me knowing my dh took a very special watch that my Dad had given to my Mom when he returned from Iceland. It had needed to be repaired for a long time, so I hoped that someday we would fix it. You can't imagine the surprise and pure shock I had when he put that box on our bed as we were getting ready for a Christmas party. I just looked and he said" You're not done getting dressed yet". This was the watch my Mom always wore for" good" and I couldn't stop crying after I opened it! The jeweler's sister was at the party and she said "Do you know how much that watch is worth now?" I just smiled and said "It's always been priceless to me". I hope your husband feels the same way about the gift and especially YOU!!

with a happy heart
KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 05 2006 : 09:38:24 AM
Well, tonight's the night if he'll notice--they practice, so I'm hoping he doesn't notice the void behind the bass amp!

Has anyone seen the commercial for Travelocity (I think?) where the couple is approaching the front door of a relative, and the husband asks her name again, and the wife reminds him NOT to stare at her mole, and then he says, "Hello Aunt Mole"... That's me.

So, farmgal sisters, cross fingers. I have 20 more days.



Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
abbasgurl Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 3:27:57 PM
Jonni, My musician son would love a gift like that more than most anything, so I suspect your hubby will too! Boys & their gee-tars! And don't you are tell! LOL
Rhonda

I'm a one girl revolution.
Bluewrenn Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 2:58:05 PM
LOL, the hardest part is keeping it a secret!

Fixing the guitar is probably the perfect gift. Brings the story of the Magi to mind.

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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 12:54:30 PM
Thanks so much---now I'm excited, too! Now, if I can just keep my mouth shut about it--I'm really terrible at keeping surprises!


Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.
Beemoosie Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 10:18:34 AM
Jonni,
Seriously, if you can afford it, fix it! I got goosebumps just thinking about what a wonderful gift that will be to him. It doesn't matter at all that it's not a "new" gift. That guitar means something to him, and the fact that you realize that will mean even more to him. You go girl!!!
xo
Bonnie

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Prov 31:10
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ArmyWifey Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 08:25:26 AM
I would say it's the perfect gift. Gifts aren't about money but about the love and thought you put into them and I'm sure it would mean more to him than anything new.





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willowtreecreek Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 08:05:12 AM
Definatly the guitar!!!!!

Jewelry, art, baskets, etc.

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KYgurlsrbest Posted - Dec 04 2006 : 07:49:17 AM
Thanks so much! I don't know about you, but sometimes I get "ideas" that I think are brilliant, and then I tell someone and they go, "oh. hm.", so I wanted to make sure this wasn't one of those times :)

I don't know how I'm going to disguise that it's missing from the practice space, but there are about thirty guitars (all in black cases) there, so I'm sure it will just look like it's been misplaced....according to his bandmate, he hasn't picked it up since the summer, so I think I'm safe (cross fingers!)

Sunshine--how nice of your husband to fix your lovely watch for you. Little brothers!!!! My husband is like you--he really laments that this guitar can't be played. He was SO happy when he bought it, and showed it off for weeks on end, and though we discussed getting it fixed, he seemed to think it was a lost cause.

Tasha Rose--that's funny that you bought a "backup" watch! I think I learned my lessons on those with my husband--I bought a 1943 Bulova for our first Christmas together, totally reworked and gorgeous. A few months later on vacation, he jumped in the pool with it on--1943 Bulova's aren't waterproof to my knowledge. I ended up paying MORE than I originally purchased it for to fix it, but he wanted THAT watch. It really meant the world to him... Silly boys.


Just think of all of the roads there are...all of the things I haven't seen....yet.

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