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msdoolittle Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 10:18:58 AM
I'm sick of FB. I've been spending too much time on it, and also just tired of the whole social commenting thing. Also, the privacy on FB seems to be completely eroding. Anyone else?

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mudpony farmgirl Posted - Feb 14 2012 : 4:05:26 PM
I divorced facebook awhile ago and I don't miss it a bit. Would much rather spend an hour on the phone connecting with one old friend than an hour on the computer feeling like I'm stalking all my old friends. Glad to know there are some others out there who don't care for it either!
RosesAreRed Posted - Feb 14 2012 : 09:20:03 AM
love Facebook. I keep in touch with family and friends and from the drama people on my list I get free entertainment. I have learned so much from my friends posting interesting links and articles. I love the homesteading survival page and the news page and the local garden club page. The personal photos and the comedy stuff that are posted are nice and give me good laughs. I am not to worried about privacy. Nothing I post here is private. You search my username on the net, and you will find me all over the web on different forums and blogs. Nothing on the net is private. SO, I try not to post anything I don't want have to answer to down the road.

What I did give up was my addiction to my Blackberry phone. Whew that was rough. I couldn't go anywhere without that phone. I couldn't even put it down anymore. It emailed, it texted, it played games, it surfed the net, it Twittered, it Facebooked and it was constantly dinging and pinging with notices. That was way to much connectedness for me. I finally shut the phone down and purchased a standard NON Droid phone. It has been 3 weeks and yesterday I noticed that I no longer was afraid to walk away from the phone. I went hours without my phone on me. I had put it down somewhere and walked away. I didn't die. It took about 2 weeks to get over the bored and what do I do with my hands now feeling. It took about 1 week for the anxiety of missing something to wear off. Glad I did it.. but.. I miss the convenience of my Blackberry.
marlee Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 5:12:10 PM
Boy my typing is terrible tonight.
Marlee

God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
marlee Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 5:09:59 PM
Anna I saw a program how thiefs get your credit card numbers and bank card numbers. These people get these little black looking little boxes and when people are look they slide them over where you put your credit in.Leave it for a day or so then they go back and get it hook it to the computer and wa-la everyone that slide there cards thru it they have your number and pins. So when you strart to slide your just look and se if a small looking box is extended on it. If it is dont slide your card.

Also use gel pens on your checks you can get some kind of liquid at a farm store they can erase the writing on it and fill it in and take to banks and cash it.

There was another saety tips but it slipped my mind.

Marlee

God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
mickib Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 4:38:35 PM
I have a very small group of Facebook friends (mostly relatives) and we all seem to keep it pretty simple, sharing photos and stories about children and such. I'm pleased to be able to keep up with what is going on with relatives with whom I would otherwise have a hard time keeping in touch. If I don't like someone's post on their wall, I just hide it. I figure we're all entitled to our opinions.
acairnsmom Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 12:51:39 PM
I guess I am among those that don't care for facebook. I only got on it recently to do a little FB stalking (gasp!). While I was there I searched for co-workers, classmates, friends, family, if I can find them they aren't using it either so I'm not sure what all the fuss is about anyway. And the person I was stalking? Her page was enough for me to understand that what she portrayed to me as her "personality" was not based in truth which went a long way for me to understand the bad vibes I was getting off of her.

Audrey

Good boy Hobbs! I love and miss you.
msdoolittle Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 05:59:57 AM
It's a great platform for sharing, that's for sure. However, for myself it's just a time waster, which is my fault. I share farm pics on my blog from time to time and I like that format better.

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Annab Posted - Feb 13 2012 : 03:56:39 AM
Working at a zoo, makes it fun for non zoo friends and especially out of state family to see what's going on

We have been severely cautioned about what can and cannot be posted, so the super sensitive stuff I just save on my camera and wait to show family members when we visit in person.
FarmDream Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 8:04:10 PM
I like FB. I think my profile is rather boring. Nothing but gardening and crafting pics. I've learned a lot from some groups that I wouldn't know otherwise. Some things I choose not to click 'like' or comment on due to privacy concerns. I do get tired of sifting through the inspirational sayings and the abused/rescue animal pics/stories.

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Rosemary Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 11:16:47 AM
FaceBook has allowed me to reconnect with dear old friends from the past, and to mend some bridges that I thought had long ago been swept downstream. I'm glad I didn't start using it until I'd learned how different online communications are from face-to-face, and how to avoid unintended consequences. I do feel that we are generally spending too much time online -- but look how nice this very forum has been for so many of us! Like any tool, I guess it can be used to build or destroy -- or just as a paperweight! ;-)
msdoolittle Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 07:28:46 AM
I agree with all of you! I don't have any people on there that I don't know personally, and I do change my settings to where I can't see what they post (because frankly, some people are very odd/annoying). But I've also learned a LOT about people that are not close to me and often what some people post drives my blood pressure up! Anyway, it's just not worth it for me...I'm not close to any of my family, so I don't need it for that, and I talk to my friends on the phone very frequently. Back to email for me :0)

Fortunately, our winters are not very long at all, so I will be outside again this week as the temperatures rise again, and away from the internet, lol.

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queenmushroom Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 06:20:30 AM
I have my own policy on FB. I post nothing personal on it. Basically a hi what's up? deal and cute things my little man says or does. Alot of my family lives out of state so I rarely get to see them. I did have to ban a childhood friend from it because she posts alot of her beliefs on there, which I don't necessarily agree with (mostly christian bashing. She's an atheist, which, if that's what she want's to be then fine, but don't cram it down my throat.), then turns around and says to me, when I call her out on it and tell her that I'm offended, Oh, I know you don't do this stuff or feel this way. So I dumped her. I also dump alot of people that post their fb games on my page too. Basically, if you don't want anything posted on the front page of your local paper, then don't put it on fb.

Patience is worth a bushel of brains...from a chinese fortune cookie
prayin granny Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 05:01:10 AM
I still use fb, have reconnected with old friends on it and enjoy the pics shared by family/friends.
Wish they would work on the privacy thing tho!

I use email, text and Mjf forum more tha fb tho! Loved the 'Farmbook' phrase Laurie!!!

Enjoy your day, ladies!

Blessings,
Linda
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Country at Heart
one_dog_per_acre Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 04:28:30 AM
I win prizes from business I like. I'm not giving it up. I get all my favorite chicken updates in one place! If I don't know you, we're not friends. I only have three FB friends that I have never met, Marilyn Edlund, The Chicken Whisperer, who I have talked to, and some hilarious horse lady in Florida. I feel like that keeps it real for me. Most of my friends ae my cousins.


“It always looks darkest just before it gets totally black.”-Charlie Brown
Annab Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 03:52:47 AM
I've had more security issues here lately by way of dishonest people at gas stations lifting my credit card number from the pump.

Thought it could only be done with debit cards, but it can also be done with credit too. So be sure to press the CLEAR button - or better yet use cash!

And be sure to check you statements!!
Annab Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 03:49:21 AM
I keep in touch with my old highschool buds and work plas in other states. Some days we do carry on "conversations" in realtime.

True- not the same as hearing a voice but still keeping in touch just the same and quicker than letter writing

For these winter months it passes the time. True, I could be reading a good book, but that's my choice. When summer gets here, I'll be out the door 'till it's dark
Ruby V Posted - Feb 12 2012 : 12:35:11 AM
The only reason I occasionally check Facebook is to see pics family members have posted. Otherwise, I don't use it, never post myself. I do spend alot of time on the net though, living in a virtual world, which I love. It's been a real life-saver for me. So I can understand that some folks feel the same about Facebook.

Ruby ~ Sister #3597
ceejay48 Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 8:09:08 PM
I spend almost NO time on FB . . . once in a blue moon I see pics from family members there. Some are good and I've seen some from family members that I've just been baffled, embarrassed and astonished by! I kept hearing that you'll be able to communicate with your family. BOSH!!!
I said that if they can't communicate on the phone or acknowledge an email or even be polite, they're not going to conmmunicate on Facebook!
CJ

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gspringman Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 6:38:54 PM
Amanda I am right there with you. My daughter got it started for me, I'm rarely on it as I too, think it's too 'out' there for too many to see. Have been recently thinking of cancelling my account, just gotta figure out how.

Gail
Farmgirl #486

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laurentany Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 4:39:23 PM
Never had it never will. Seems like nothing but trouble if you ask me.
Whatever one chooses to do or whatever makes them happy...as for me...I love my "FARMBOOK" (that is what my husband calls MJF) LOL!
Smiles,


~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403


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rough start farmgirl Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 4:36:29 PM
I never started FB, so I don't have any quitting issues. But, I think Sheila is smart to use FB to keep her mind off her pain. Whatever works when it comes to pain!
Marianne
pinkroses Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 2:58:45 PM
Luckily I have had no privacy issues with it
I have quit quite a few games .
I do spend quite a bit of time there; but I find it helps to get my mind off my diseases and pain I deal with all the time . hugs sheila

http://www.sheilascreativetouches.blogspot.com/

http://www.ohkayteagirl2.blogspot.com
Okie Farm Girl Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 12:49:08 PM
Still active on my business FB site, but the personal one is starting to go by the wayside. Good grief..family on FB is like purposely looking for a fight. Write something that is taken the wrong way and kablooey. Soooo...I am starting to move away from my personal site.

Mary Beth

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www.Oklahomapastrycloth.com/blog
The Sovereign Lord is my strength - Habakkuk 3:19
goneriding Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 12:38:54 PM
I am one of those people who don't 'get' FB. I have a page and have happily found a lot of childhood friends. That's the good news. The bad news is I'm afraid of losing my privacy PLUS, it seems, quite a few friends are just reposting pictures and cute sayings. I locked my FB page down but not sure how much of my info goes out on others' pages.

Also, I don't quite understand Twitter. I think it's mainly for advertising blogs and news info pieces. I can read news sites for that.

For some 'venting'-type of entertainment, please read my blog, http://lostadventuresintrucking.blogspot.com . Now with pictures!!

Also, http://lostadventuresincooking.blogspot.com is back up and running! Please check it out! Puh-leeze...??

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farmmilkmama Posted - Feb 11 2012 : 12:19:16 PM
Gave it up as well. Was tired of extended family members(who all live within five miles) forgetting how to talk to each other and getting upset with my family when we didn't know the latest gossip at family get togethers. :)

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Everyone else is already taken.
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