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| Dorinda |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 05:13:41 AM
My son and his live in girl friend broke up about 6 weeks ago. They have an 8 month old son together. He broke up with her because she keeps using drugs. She has taken off with my grand son whom I was so attached to. I kept him about 4 days out of the week. My heart is broken. I miss him so much. We called the cops and they said there was nothing they could do. They did contact one of her sisters who lives in Livingston, Montana. She would not give her where abouts but said her and the baby was fine. We have hired an attorney who is filing an emergency hearing at the court house. We think her brother who lives in Rifle, Colorado, flew down and drove her and the baby back there to Rifle, Colorado. They took a car that my son bought. The car was in both of their names. My son was told yesterday that word is she is having problems with the brother already and may drive on up to her sisters house in Livingston, Montana. She has 2 sisters and one brother who lives in Livingston Montana. One sister had all 3 of her kids taking away by DCF. because she is an alcoholic. The other sister is suppose to be a pretty good person. Don't know about the brother. We are going to need to find her to serve papers on her to get her back here in Florida. The attorney told us we would have to be patient that this would probably take about 4 months. I have some friends who live in Bozeman, Montana in a couple of days I am going to call them and see if they will ride by her sisters address and see if the car is parked out front. The attorney told us taht we may have to hie a Private Investergator to locate her. This is costing us a fortune. Do any of you girls live near Rifle, Colorado?
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| crafter |
Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 07:36:15 AM
I'm so sorry! Sorry that little pumpkin has been put in this situation. I pray for his safety and strength for you and your family.
Lori |
| Dorinda |
Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 05:59:25 AM
Oh Susan Thanks for the offer. But she has left Rifle Colorado and is now in Livingston Montana with her sister. we have been keeping an eye on her sisters Facebook and she was asking for a crib and said her sister was coming back to live in Livingston Montana. The next day she made a comment she was keeping the baby for the night. So already she is back out on the streets for the night. Great I hope her sister is a good person. She will probably be the one raising him until we can get him back, if we ever do. The attorney said it was going to take a long time. I worry every day and pray for his safty. He was so attached to me. I bet he is wondering what happened to his Grammy and Popps.
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Dorinda |
| adnama |
Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 7:36:26 PM
Oh Susan if you could help that would make you a hero in my book. As the grandparent of one that was also in this situation, this holds a dear special place in my heart. My grandbaby was also taken, and it did not end happily. I miss my Kalab every day and I believe that grandparents need to get more rights to find and if needed keep their rights to knowledge if not actual control of the child.. I know there are so off the wall grandparents out there, but I think for the most part we act on the best interest of the child. Lots of love and hope to you Dorinda, stay strong and committed. I know the cost is staggering at times but do the best you can to bring baby home with those that will keep him safe and loved. |
| coloquilter |
Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 7:03:25 PM
Well this explains why you wanted airport info for Rifle. I am so sorry. I know how I would feel if one of my grandbabys was missing . My oldest was gone with his other grandparents for 9 days and I almost had a meltdown. I am about 2 hours from Rifle. I don't know if I can help but I will be driving through there on Sat
Susan |
| Turtlemoon |
Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 4:07:07 PM
How horribly frustrating and scary. I so hope things work out fro your family on this.
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| brightmeadow |
Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 01:35:01 AM
You have my prayers. My daughter put us in a similar situation when my grandson was six-months old, I can sympathize with your pain. I hope everything works out for the best.
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| embchicken |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 1:31:47 PM
Praiyng for your peace of mind and the well being of the little one.
~ Elaine
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| oldbittyhen |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 1:00:23 PM
your son is the one who needs to get a lawyer and start custody precedings, the mother has no right to disappear with their son, he has rights also, and if she is useing drugs than that will make it easier, if he gets custody where he lives, then the law will be on his side in the state where she is at, and will order her to give him to his father. If your son is not able to do this, then you will have to fight tooth and nail to prove her an unfit mother, and go for guardianship and/or adoption, it can turn into a long drawn out battle, if will cost alot of money, as you will need a good lawyer in both states...I wish you the best of luck, and pray that your grandson is kept safe thru all of this...
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| Fiddlehead Farm |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 10:50:07 AM
Dorinda, I will be praying too. I hope you find your Grandson and that your Daughter is OK. I think you need to take custody of him.
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| kristin sherrill |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 10:17:31 AM
Dorinda, I will be praying that y'all find the baby and his mother and that they are ok. I am so sorry this is happening. I pray that they are found soon and come back home.
Kris
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| crafter |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 07:39:17 AM
Sending Prayers right now!! |
| Dorinda |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 07:33:58 AM
Thank You for your prayers. Baby Andrew needs them.
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Dorinda |
| CMac |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 07:22:49 AM
How stressful this must be. I am so sorry. I'm sending love and light to all of you and praying for safety for the baby.
Connie
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| beekeepersgirl |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 07:20:48 AM
Hi Dorinda -
I'll be praying for you and your grandson - how terrible!
Luanne
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| Caron |
Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 06:22:04 AM
Dorinda,I'm so sorry for all you are going through now. I will be praying!
Caron
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