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| melanie47601 |
Posted - Aug 22 2009 : 10:07:59 PM
Really I don't get it. My birthday is next month and my mom and my sister have been at me about what I want. They say I'm hard to buy for. I don't think so. Ok so I'm not in the habit of telling people what I want. I'm just one of those kinds, that if I want something I go and get it.
So anyway I thought about it a minute. To see if there was something I have been wanting and have put off buying since money has been tighter. This is what I came up with: an apple slicer, a couple of nice pearing knives, some new cookie sheets and a loaf pan or I summed up into: some new kitchen gadgets.
They seem to look at this as NOT a birthday gift. Maybe not so much my mom, but my sister. My sis is telling me to come up with something better or she's going to go spend like $100 on this membership to the jazzercize program she goes to and that's what I'll get for my birthday. Ok yes I need to workout. But jumping and dancing around in front of a bunch of women I don't know and being the size I am-- ummm NO this is NOT happening! I told her I would really rather she didn't do that. First of all because she cannot afford it and second of all because I wouldn't use it.
Did I make a silly request for a birthday gift? Maybe I'm crazy but I'd like to have something that I'll use rather than something that sits in the closet collecting dust.
Melanie
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| chaddsgirl |
Posted - Aug 31 2009 : 2:08:47 PM
When my DH and I got engaged I asked for an engagement saddle instead of and engagement ring. Had my eye on this fantastic Bob Marshall barrel saddle and I knew I'd get much more use out of it than I would the ring.
I think we farmgirls are just so easily satisfied no one believes us. LOL!!!
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| Montrose Girl |
Posted - Aug 31 2009 : 12:40:53 PM
Great ideas! You could always hand them a seed catalog with certain seeds circled. I managed to great seeds from my sister this year for my birthday. Practical is wonderful.
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| MissLiss |
Posted - Aug 30 2009 : 9:41:29 PM
I have this same problem. When I tell my DH that I want something for the kitchen for my birthday he tells me that either I should just go out and get one right now if I need it that bad or that it doesn't count as a gift for me because it's for the house. Well the house needs a birthday then because I'm tired of using that old busted mop! There are some things that I will go out and buy when I need them, but others, like you said - things that are *extra*, nice but not neccessary to make your job easier I ask for at Christmas or Birthdays. I don't tell anyone else what to ask for on their special days, so they should back off on my day! I also have seen the money thing with my daughter. I have a 3 year old and when people ask me what to get her for her birthday I'll tell them a coloring book or new crayons or something. They look at me like I'm nuts. That's only $3.00, that's not a present! Um, yes, it is. She loves to color and what do I or she care how much you spent on it, if it makes her happy it's a good present! If I ask for a new pair of bamboo knitting needles, I don't care if you pay $1.00 for them at a thrift store - in fact, I'd prefer you save the money and get them at the thrift store - if I want the needles, I'll be really happy with the needles!
Melissa
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| Bonnie Ellis |
Posted - Aug 29 2009 : 2:57:37 PM
Gosh, whether you like exercise or not try asking for a gift certificate to the bookstore or fabric or farmstore of your choice. Part of the fun of that kind of gift is the choosing. Books are great and expensive. But they make great gifts. Good luck and happy birthday.
Bonnie Ellis
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| Linder |
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 09:00:09 AM
I think your request was reasonable and wonderful! If they don't want to buy specifics for you have them purchase a gift certificate to Williams Sonoma, Macy's or some other great store that carries a lot of housewares so you can get everything you really want!
Geez, I ask for this stuff all the time. Williams Sonoma has great cookie sheets, super durable and they go on sale for about $17.00 every now and then.
Have fun!
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| ruralfarmgirl |
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 07:41:55 AM
I think it is the perfect request~ especially since it is your day.. and that is what YOU want. :)
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| geecheegirl2004 |
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 07:17:36 AM
Heavens no! That is not a strange request. It is your birthday, you get to choose if someone asks. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I am new to the space but have followed MaryJane for a while in the mag. One year my family who never seemed to know me well enough to buy for me!? said we don't know what to get you for anything, so what I did was start a picture request and posted it on my refrigerater. I made comments like must have this brand. Ok to choose any color, any size etc. Do you I got everything on that paper that I wanted. It was the best. Take care. geecheegirl2004
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| geecheegirl2004 |
Posted - Aug 28 2009 : 07:13:54 AM
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Originally posted by melanie47601
Really I don't get it. My birthday is next month and my mom and my sister have been at me about what I want. They say I'm hard to buy for. I don't think so. Ok so I'm not in the habit of telling people what I want. I'm just one of those kinds, that if I want something I go and get it.
So anyway I thought about it a minute. To see if there was something I have been wanting and have put off buying since money has been tighter. This is what I came up with: an apple slicer, a couple of nice pearing knives, some new cookie sheets and a loaf pan or I summed up into: some new kitchen gadgets.
They seem to look at this as NOT a birthday gift. Maybe not so much my mom, but my sister. My sis is telling me to come up with something better or she's going to go spend like $100 on this membership to the jazzercize program she goes to and that's what I'll get for my birthday. Ok yes I need to workout. But jumping and dancing around in front of a bunch of women I don't know and being the size I am-- ummm NO this is NOT happening! I told her I would really rather she didn't do that. First of all because she cannot afford it and second of all because I wouldn't use it.
Did I make a silly request for a birthday gift? Maybe I'm crazy but I'd like to have something that I'll use rather than something that sits in the closet collecting dust.
Melanie
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| goneriding |
Posted - Aug 27 2009 : 5:48:50 PM
I think the practical gifts are best too. However, if someone really wants to give me something 'special', I'd prefer to have something I could/would use but maybe put off buying for myself. Like a bit or headstall that I ogle but can't spring for it myself or clothes or even a really, really good haircut/coloring.
Winona ;-)
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| MagnoliaWhisper |
Posted - Aug 27 2009 : 06:42:25 AM
Not at all! I have always wanted the same kind of gifts you are requesting.
I remember even as a child when it would be on cartoons or sitcoms that the wife would be mad that the husband bought her things like you listed or a vaccuum she would be mad it wasn't jewelry or what ever. And I would think, what? What's wrong with that gift. After a few years, I finally concluded once I grew up maybe, I would understand. Hmmm, I turned 21 and still didn't understand why they were mad! lol So I concluded, hmmm maybe once I'm married I'll understand. I've been married 10 years, and for my anniversary you know what I request you guessed it, kitchen equipment! My husband knows I want a kitchen aid mixer! lol hahaha And I won't be upset if that's what he gets me!
I'll tell you though the first three years of our marriage I endured jewelry as gifts. lol I would smile and say thankyou. Then by year 4 I said, honey, I can only wear so much jewelry, I would love a new toaster oven though! lol hahaha
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| Ga Girl |
Posted - Aug 26 2009 : 05:37:15 AM
I think your request was great. I love to get things I need or use. My mom always wants me to make a christmas list so I do and then she fusses cause I dont put anything precisely for me. Well I see it as it is for me like one of the other girls said, my list includes towels, kleenex, energy saving bulbs, toothpaste ans ect. But I do use each one and it saves me money in the long run so I feel like its for me in more than one way. So hey if they dont want to give you something you want for the kitchen maybe they can just give you a gift card and you can go get what you want yourself! Blessings,Karen
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| paradiseplantation |
Posted - Aug 25 2009 : 10:26:12 AM
I think they would be wonderful birthday gifts! Of course, you have to stop and consider that I've asked for a galvanized bucket, some cypress boards and other crazy stuff for my farm and garden! Ooh, Sherrie! You got a GREAT gift!
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| knitnpickinatune |
Posted - Aug 24 2009 : 2:31:40 PM
I don't see anything wrong with that-after all,it's your birthday,not theirs! My b-day request was to get my mandolin set up properly (which was done!) saved on wrapping something up and I now have a very beautiful sounding instrument!
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| melanie47601 |
Posted - Aug 24 2009 : 2:22:37 PM
I told them I would ask for fabric but knew that would be a definate no. Too funny Jonni! I didn't realize what I had done until I hit the submit button. Then I thought, 'Yeah the girls are gonna pick my side!" LOL I've also had the thought that if my sister asks me again, I may just tell her I want a bucket of roof coating and for her to get up on my roof and patch the couple of little spots that like to leak when it rains. I think then she might not see much of a problem with the kitchen things. hahahhaa
Melanie
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| FebruaryViolet |
Posted - Aug 24 2009 : 1:32:08 PM
Well, I think you're asking the wrong (well, right!) group of girls--of course we all agree--we looove this stuff! I have asked for the same type of things for *gasp* Christmas from my dh. He made it really special by putting vintage cookie cutters and vintage cookbooks in my stocking in addition to the utlitiarian things I requested.
Most people think of birthdays as the one day to splurge on yourself and go get a mani/pedi or something like that. Farmgirls just think a little differently :) Why don't you ask them for a gift cert. to a cooking store (like Williams Sonoma, or Macy's Home Store, or whatever or even online cooking places), you can get what you want and they don't have to feel weird about it!
For my anniversary gift, I asked for a ball wool spinner for my knitting...heck, it was $41 bucks I'd NEVER spend on myself!
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| Miss Bee Haven |
Posted - Aug 24 2009 : 11:01:09 AM
I'd be excited about some nice paring knives. Especially if they had those easy grip handles! :) And they did ask. And you did tell them. My birthday wish for you is that they respect your wishes.
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| laurzgot |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 6:56:42 PM
I think that practical gifts are super. Anything for the kitchen would be great. Your Mom and sister asked you and you told them what you really want. It's not how much the gift costs, it's the thought that went into buying or making it.
Laurie
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| melanie47601 |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 5:33:24 PM
I think what it is with my sister is she doesn't see it as "gift worthy" if it doesn't mean spending a big chunk of money. I don't see the sense in that. It's just really hard to explain to her that to me it's not about the price tag it's about the simple thought. But I talked to my mom again today and I think she's got it now.
Melanie
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| asnedecor |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 2:59:08 PM
Asking for kitchen stuff for your birthday is fine - if cooking is your thing and you could use them then that is what they should get you. I asked for a few good knives for Christmas one year and my Mom & Dad got me a whole set along with the butcher block knife holder for them. I was thrilled. DH got me a kitchen aid mixer one year. I got a copper bird bath last year for my birthday from DH and it was exactly what I wanted. It is whatever makes you happy, not the giver.
Anne in Portland, OR
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| KayB |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 10:54:28 AM
I was looking at my neice's birthday pictures from a year or so ago and I said, "Is that a Kitchen Aid mixer?" My sister looked at me like I was nuts and said, "Yeah, that's what she said she wanted, so that's what he (her hubby) got her. Can you believe that?" I told her I would be tickled to death to get one and that's what I've told my hubby I want for Christmas.
KayB
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| CountryBorn |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 10:18:23 AM
I think thats a great gift idea. I do that all the time when someone asks me I tell them what I want and it is usually things like that. Those nice little gadgets that you want but won't necessarily get for yourself. I love that!
MJ
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| Diane B Carter |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 09:36:51 AM
I think practical gifts are the best. I gave my best friend a pepsi glass and pepsi once and to this day she uses the glass daily and happily thinks of me. She is tiny and would of hated any exercise anything. I always give my mom papertowels and she loves them also. I love getting practical gifts. Tell your sister you want the no burn cookie sheets. They cost more but are wonderful.
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| 1badmamawolf |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 09:26:32 AM
Practicl gifts are the best kind, especialy when it is something we asked for to begin with. "Jazzercise", not me, I get more than enough "Exercise" everyday right here on my ranch/farm. Tell your sister if she doesn't want to give you what you asked for, give you a giftcard, then you can go get what you want/need yourself.
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| Roxy7 |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 07:35:12 AM
Happy Birthday! I hope you get what you want instead of what they want for you...since they asked.
I agree, we all get to where we dont always need all the bells and whistles. Finding things to make our lives easier is awesome. And if it made you happy...well isnt that what a present is supposed to do? Make the recipient happy? |
| AuntieM |
Posted - Aug 23 2009 : 07:32:04 AM
One year for Christmas, when I was living on my own, and not making much money - I asked for (and happily received) a case of toilet paper, a case of paper towels, and a case of fancy mineral water!
So no, I don't think your request is a bad one. It's your birthday, and since they asked, you should get what you want! Happy birthday! |
