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| catscharm74 |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 6:35:51 PM
I officially divorced, disowned or removed myself from my family today. Yep...it's officially over...please don't feel sad...please be happy and keep good thoughts about this. There was the straw that broke this cowgirls back today and I am done...completely...and now I will move on...it absolute certainty that it is the right thing. So everyone have a toast to me and my new lease on life!!! Hold me in the light and have HAPPY YEE HAW thoughts!! 
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| yarnmamma |
Posted - May 05 2009 : 06:58:49 AM
you are so right.
I'll tell you my story sometime. It worked well for me to say goodbye forever to my mother.
Linda
in Scranton, PA
farmgirl #71
The Universe says: Speak abundance and act abundantly, no matter what, and an outpouring of the "stuff," far in
excess of what we could ever spend will come! |
| grace gerber |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 7:26:06 PM
Heather - I so understand that in life you can not pick your family and sometimes there is no getting to where you need to be with stones in your pockets. Just know that we are all here to help you thru lifes bumps if you wish and if not just know I hold you in bright light, warm thoughts and Cheers to you.
Grace Gerber
Larkspur Funny Farm and Fiber Art Studio
Where the spirits are high and the fiber is deep
http://www.larkspurfunnyfarm.etsy.com
http://larkspurfunnyfarm.blogspot.com
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| Miss2Missus |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 3:45:28 PM
hugs back to you.
Karen ^_^
http://apple-and-eve.blogspot.com/ |
| Tn.Earthmama |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 10:43:07 AM
Heather, lifting a glass to your happy healthy future!!!! blessings Phyllis |
| pinkroses |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 09:04:08 AM
Heather.
I have some people in my family here that I wish I could divorce
But, a lass I have to live with them; or it would be me to move on.
Some,
I love all of them;
They are just hard to get along with
think they know every thing.
always picks fights and blame it on you and you are the one who starts them.
The stress of having to live with these people
I know I am no angel
but,
I am not the one who causes these arugments.
These are dumb , stupid things that builds into huge fights.
I am happy for you;if you do thing it is the thing to do.
hugs sheila
www.ohkayteagirl2.blogspot.com
http;//www.sheilascreativetouches.blogspot.com |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 08:05:51 AM
Nope...don't believe in wishing ill will on anyone..it doesn't do anyone any good. People will prove themselves to be true or not over time...so I let it be!!! : )
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| Alee |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 08:00:58 AM
Congrats Heather! |
| mulegirl |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 07:57:01 AM
You have to do what you have to do. If someone is negative and tries to make you negative too the best thing you can do is send them extra love, wish them the best and walk away. Negativity breeds negativity, so focus on everything good in your life and move on, but don't send them bad thoughts, they will just comeback at you.
Good luck.
Rosemary
smile, follow your heart and don't look back
http://web.mac.com/rosemaryart |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - May 03 2009 : 06:27:04 AM
Thanks...and you ARE all my family!!! This is years in the making..almost 15...and if you notice from my FACEBOOK post..I am over...yesterday was the finally nail for me. I learned alot about the quality of character that is my family and also one other person, whom I have only known about 2 years but I will not waste my time on these people. I have learned my lesson. I deserve so much better and I will not settle for anything less from here on out. (((HUGS))) to all!!! : )
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| dutchy |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 10:46:25 PM
(((Heather)))
You go girl, keep your head up, go on with your REAL family and know these farmgirls understand :)
YEE-HAW!!!
Hugs from Marian/Dutchy, a farmgirl from the Netherlands :)
My personal blog:
http://just-me-a-dutch-girl.blogspot.com/
Almost daily updates on me and mine :)
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| kissmekate |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 10:23:47 PM
Heather we're your family!!!
Don't miss out on a blessing, just because it isn't packaged the way you expected. ~MaryJo Copeland |
| Prairie Princess |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 10:13:44 PM
I envy you, Heather. You go girl...takes a lot of strength!! :)
~Jodi
"Women are like teabags...you never know how strong they are until they get into hot water." Eleanor Roosevelt
www.jodielyzabeth.blogspot.com |
| Miss2Missus |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 10:06:41 PM
people always seemed shocked by things like this. but honestly, its very common, hell you can find it in the bible. your family is the one group of people that doesn't feel the need for manners and respect and end up taking you for granted. most people do treat total strangers better than family members.
i'm glad you are in a better place heather. you don't need undue stress.
Karen ^_^
http://apple-and-eve.blogspot.com/ |
| Niamh |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 9:54:54 PM
I wish you well. It's so, so hard when those who are supposed to be supportive and loving are instead toxic. I have to keep my mother at a healthy distance. (6 states away and no contact.)
My farming blog: www.localfoodblog.blogspot.com
My living blog:
www.unprocessedfamily.blogspot.com |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 7:07:04 PM
Suzie-believe me...this is years in the making...maybe after this SWINE thingy is over we will meet up...right now I have Charlie until the 11th. ((HUGS))
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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| SuzieQ |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 6:56:31 PM
I wish I could. I envy you. My dad is driving me insane with his antics that are not nice. |
| catscharm74 |
Posted - May 02 2009 : 6:54:20 PM
Let me clarify...it's my crazy parents/sister/brother...The 3 musketeers (Scott, Charlie and myself) are still going strong... : )
Heather
Yee-Haw, I am a cowgirl!!!
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